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Scorpio women are passionate, creative, and magnetic...but they can also be tough to read. When they’re in love, they express their feelings in complex and subtle ways. But while these powerful water signs can take their time to warm up to you, once they’re committed, they’re amazing partners. Get ready for an epic love story full of devotion and intense connection. We’ll walk you through 11 definite signs a Scorpio woman is in love.
Scorpio women go “all-in” and they’re incredibly dedicated in love.[1]XExpert SourceAngel Eyedealism Astrologer & Performance ArtistExpert Interview These women show love by putting their partners first. Your Scorpio woman will always make sure to set aside time to connect with you—whether that means planning a romantic evening or sending a cute goodnight text.
Make your Scorpio feel like she’s a priority, too. Set aside a regular “date night” time and respond quickly whenever she reaches out.
These signs take a while to warm up to their partner, and they need reassurance that you’re totally dependable.
Scorpios are incredibly focused people, especially around their partners.[2]XExpert SourceAngel Eyedealism Astrologer & Performance ArtistExpert Interview If you spend time with a Scorpio lover, she’ll make you feel like you two are in your own little world. Forget beeping notifications, background noise, and distractions. She’ll be totally dialed into you.
Match her energy by leaving your phone on silent and making lots of eye contact when you two talk.
Most of a Scorpio’s intensity comes from the fact that they’re ruled by Mars—the planet of action and passion.
A Scorpio in love will turn her signature “Scorpio stare” into total doe eyes. Scorpios are known for their powerful eye contact, but once they’re smitten, their normally piercing stare will melt into a soft, caring gaze. Your Scorpio woman look right into your eyes when you two talk. You might even catch her stealing quick glances from across the room.
Scorpio women bring passion and heat into any romantic relationship. Because they’re ruled by Mars, they’re pretty physical people. A smitten scorpion will find every possible excuse to curl up next to you, touch you, and kiss you. In the bedroom, Scorpios are equally intense, but because they’re water signs, they crave emotional intimacy alongside physical intimacy.[4]XExpert SourceAngel Eyedealism Astrologer & Performance ArtistExpert Interview
Scorpios are highly sexually compatible with earth signs like Taurus and Capricorn. Earth signs provide the steadiness and emotional connection that water signs, like Scorpio, want during sex.
You can be compatible with a Scorpio regardless of your sign as long as you communicate about what you like and don’t like (both in and out of the bedroom).
Reader Poll: We asked 397 wikiHow readers if they think Scorpios are the most sexual zodiac sign, and 86% of them said yes.[Take Poll]
Scorpios get a bad rap for being “cold,” but they just need time.[5]XExpert SourceAngel Eyedealism Astrologer & Performance ArtistExpert Interview You’ll know a Scorpio woman loves you when she feels like she can be vulnerable with you. The second she starts to let you in on her hopes, dreams, and secrets during late-night chats or text convos, there’s no going back! To a Scorpio, sharing personal info is a huge sign of trust and love.
Be accountable and upfront with your Scorpio woman about what you want from the relationship and who you are.
Scorpio women will shed their tough exterior around people they love. Remember, these dark and serious gals are also ruled by Pluto, the planet of mystery. That means they’ve got a lot going on underneath the surface.[7]XExpert SourceAngel Eyedealism Astrologer & Performance ArtistExpert Interview Deep down, Scorpio women are warm and deeply emotional, sensitive people. If you catch your Scorpio woman writing you poetic love notes or stealing your favorite hoodie, she’s head over heels in love.
Try not to tease a Scorpio woman or make a big deal about moments where she’s revealing her softer side.
Scorpio women are really sensitive, and your partner might pull away if she feels exposed or embarrassed.
As fixed signs, Scorpio women won’t just take anyone’s advice. So if a Scorpio woman takes the time to listen to your input, it means she thinks you’re special. Look for moments when she changes her mind because of something you’ve said or makes a slightly out-of-character choice because of your guidance.
Hold off on giving a Scorpio woman advice unless she asks for your input.
These determined and creative people definitely like to solve problems themselves.
Pluto’s influence means that Scorpio women value deep connection. On top of that, they’re detail-oriented people who go through everything with a fine-tooth comb.[8]XExpert SourceAngel Eyedealism Astrologer & Performance ArtistExpert Interview A Scorpio woman in love will want to know the brand of coffee you like, the little pet peeves that make you frustrated, and the types of jokes that make you smile. Expect her to ask you lots of questions about your likes and dislikes.[9]XResearch source
Answer her deep questions but don’t expect her to answer them, too.
A Scorpio woman will reveal her secrets on her own terms and at her own pace.
Scorpio women are natural cheerleaders. They bring their “all or nothing, do or die” attitude into everything they do—even supporting their partner.[10]XExpert SourceAngel Eyedealism Astrologer & Performance ArtistExpert Interview A Scorpio woman will show you how much she loves you by showing up to the important moments in your life. If you share your dreams with her, she’ll tell you that you can accomplish anything. In fact, she’ll probably jump into action to help you get started.
Don’t be afraid to include a Scorpio woman in your future plans (whether that’s a holiday trip or concert tickets a few months away).
These signs are committed, and she’s probably planning for the long haul anyway.
Scorpios don’t fall in love easily, but once they do, they’re 100% faithful. Your Scorpio lover won’t play games with you or mess around with your feelings. In return, she’ll expect you to do the same; be honest, communicative, and faithful, and you two will be a power couple.[11]XResearch source
Reassure your Scorpio that you’re just as devoted as she is. Tell her there’s no one else like her, and you can’t imagine your life without her.
For Scorpios, love can teeter on possession, and they don’t like to share. If a Scorpio woman likes you, she might get suspicious if you start spending time with other women. Remember, some jealousy is normal, but if she makes you uncomfortable or starts telling you what you can and can’t do, it’s time to set boundaries.
If your Scorpio woman seems jealous, talk to her about her concerns. Communicate how her behavior makes you feel and work together to come up with a solution.[12]XResearch source
I went on a date with someone recently and they told me they were a Scorpio and idk if that's a red flag or not. I've heard that Scorpios are obsessive and difficult to be in a relationship with, is that facts or nah? I kinda wanna go on a second date but idk if I should so pls help
As a Scorpio myself, I’d say dating a Scorpio isn’t necessarily "hard," but it can be intense. We value loyalty and trust the most, so if those things are broken, the relationship can be difficult. But if you're open, patient, and not afraid of vulnerability, you’ll find that dating a Scorpio can be incredibly rewarding.
Scorpio is an obsessive sign. They're looking for someone to obsess over and they're going to provide a series of tests to gauge your loyalty to them. For example, they may play hard to get or act obsequious. If they sense that you're not matching their intense energy, they're gonna lose interest. Scorpio is also a very sensual sign, so if they not sensing that you're sexually interested in them, they will lose interest. So you would definitely need to engage in sex or intimacy with a Scorpio in order for them to fall for you. Scorpios want to dive deep into issues and topics. They're not a superficial sign, so they'll be turned off if you're very shallow. They like intensity and passion. If they don't feel engaged, enthralled, sexual, and intimate with you, then they're not going to have interest in you. So there has to be something intriguing. But also, if you provide a little bit of a mystery that they need to unravel, that will keep them pulling on the yarn forever. So don't give it all up right away! Leave a veil of mystery and then they will be intrigued and obsess over you because they always have to obsess.
If they're jealous or obsessive and you show even the tiniest bit of interest in other people, a Scorpio will show you their vulnerability (which is their most cherished prize). Scorpios like to keep their vulnerability to themselves, so if a Scorpio shows you their inner sensitivity, that means they trust you enough to love you. Without vulnerability, there is no intimacy, and that's why Scorpio is the sign of intimacy, because they like to lay bare of all things so that they can get inside.
Scorpios are all or nothing, do or die. But they're also the most distrustful sign, so if they show anything that indicates trust in you—like talking about marriage or moving in together—that means they are serious about you. And another sign they're serious about you is if they tell you their secrets. They see secrets as powerful weapons, so a Scorpio revealing their secrets means that they're very serious about you because they have trusted you with their secrets.
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This article was written by Angel Eyedealism and by wikiHow staff writer, Kira Jan. Angel Eyedealism is an Astrologer and Performance Artist based in the Lower East Side of Manhattan. With nearly three decades of astrology experience, Angel specializes in relocation astrology and astrocartography. Eyedealism has been featured in numerous media outlets such as Vogue, Cosmopolitan, The Atlantic, The Washington Post, Refinery29, NBC, MTV, Showtime, and Bravo. Angel aims to help others through a straightforward, kind, and humorous astrological lens, utilizing her entertainment and singing skills for performance art astrology readings. This article has been viewed 123,373 times.
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