Is My Crush Meant for Me?

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Are you and your crush written in the stars? 💫😍💘 It’s time to find out!

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Questions Overview

1. What is your favorite thing about your crush?
  1. Their kind, caring heart.
  2. Their sense of humor.
  3. Their physical appearance.
  4. Everything! They’re the whole package.
2. Do you ever catch your crush staring at you from afar?
  1. Yes, all the time!
  2. Yup, I’ve seen it once or twice.
  3. No, not really.
3. Do you and your crush share a lot of the same hobbies, interests, or passions?
  1. Yes! We share a ton of the same interests.
  2. Sorta. Our interests overlap in a few places!
  3. Not really—we’re into pretty different things.
4. How do you feel when you’re hanging out with your crush?
  1. Amazing, like I’m having the best time ever!
  2. Totally comfortable and chilled-out.
  3. I feel super nervous, like I’m gonna pass out!
5. Does your crush ever compliment you?
  1. Yes, they’re always saying nice things to me!
  2. They do sometimes, but not too often.
  3. TBH, they haven’t really complimented me.
6. What are your conversations with your crush like?
  1. Deep, meaningful, and romantic.
  2. Exciting, flirty, and funny.
  3. Honestly, they’re a little awkward.
7. What do you think your crush likes most about you? (If you’re not sure, guess!)
  1. My unique personality.
  2. My affectionate, loving attitude.
  3. My physical appearance.
  4. A combination of things!
  5. I’m actually not sure.
8. You’re having a hard day. How does your crush cheer you up?
  1. They have a heartfelt convo with me about what’s going on.
  2. They tell me some silly jokes to get me laughing.
  3. Honestly, they probably wouldn’t even notice I’m upset 😬
9. Has your crush ever hinted that they have feelings for you, too?
  1. Yup, they’ve dropped some pretty obvious hints.
  2. Kinda, but they’re super subtle about it.
  3. If I’m being honest with myself, not really.
10. Picture your life in 5 years. Can you imagine your crush still being in it?
  1. Of course! I can see them being in my life forever.
  2. I’m not sure, but I hope so!
  3. Not really! I think this is more of a short-term thing.
11. Which of these words describes the energy between you and your crush the best?
  1. Romantic
  2. Exciting
  3. Friendly
  4. Comfortable
  5. Awkward
  6. None of these
12. Do you think you’re in love with your crush?
  1. Yes! I’m totally head over heels for them.
  2. Not yet, but it’s heading in that direction.
  3. No, it’s not that serious.

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How Can You Tell If Your Crush Is Meant For You?

Figuring out whether or not your crush is “meant for you” can be tough because this is a pretty subjective thing, and it feels different for different people. Some might have a love-at-first-sight type of connection with their crush, so they just felt like they knew their crush was meant for them early on. Others might need a little more time to build a deep connection, so they didn’t realize their crush was the one for them until much later. There’s no right or wrong answer here!

However, if you want some more insight into whether you and your crush are meant to be, here are some signs of compatibility to look out for:

  • You have similar viewpoints on morality and/or religion.
  • You want the same things in the future (marriage, children, etc).
  • You share a lot of the same interests or hobbies.
  • You enjoy doing a lot of the same activities.
  • You have similar levels of extroversion or introversion.
  • You communicate well with each other.[1]
  • They demonstrate respect and empathy for you.
  • They express affection in the way you need.[2]

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References

  1. ↑ ​​https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/social-instincts/202304/24-dimensions-of-compatibility-in-long-term-couples
  2. ↑ https://psychcentral.com/relationships/qualities-to-look-for-in-a-life-partner