10+ Ways to Make a Scorpio Woman Miss You

Co-authored by Joshua Pompey and Madeleine Criglow

Last Updated: July 26, 2024 References

Scorpio women are mysterious and elusive. Getting them to miss you may seem like the ultimate challenge, but what you may not realize is that women under this sign are also very romantic and sensitive at heart. If you give her some space to sort out her feelings and get to know you, she'll likely come looking for you. Here are some tips for getting the Scorpio woman of your dreams to wish you were by her side.

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Be less available to her.

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A Scorpio woman enjoys the chase. The more exclusive your schedule is, the more appealing you will be to her. Try packing your schedule with fun plans with friends and family. It will make your life more fulfilling, all the while making the Scorpio woman you fancy wish she could see you more.^{[1]
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- Resist the urge to cancel your plans or keep your schedule open for the Scorpio you like. Someone with a full schedule and a busy life is much more appealing to a Scorpio, even if it means she sees you a little less.

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Reveal only a little bit about yourself at a time.

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A Scorpio woman wants to take time to get to know you. If you come on too strong and reveal too much, she may be turned off or feel like you're an open book. To avoid this, reveal things about yourself at a slow, incremental pace. Try giving her just a few details so that she'll be intrigued to ask questions and learn more.^{[2]
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- If you're talking about a trip you took, don't give her a list of everything you did. Simply say something like, "It was a really amazing experience." That leaves room for her to ask about what you did and all the sights that you visited.
- When you're out catching up with an old friend, avoid texting her a rundown of your entire friendship story. Simply say, "I'm downtown getting drinks with a friend." Soon she'll be asking who your friend is and what bar you're at.

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Text her occasionally.

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Leave her wanting more so she looks forward to your texts. Texting too much can make the conversation grow stale, which might make a Scorpio bored. Make your texts special by only talking when you have something to say.^{[3]
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- Instead of playing games and purposefully waiting hours to respond each time you text, try filling up your schedule with things you enjoy. That way, you'll be too busy to respond every couple of minutes, but won't come off like you're messing with her head.
- Try not to go multiple days without texting her, though. While you don't want to be clingy, you also don't want to see like you're bored of her.^{[5]
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Remind her of your good memories together.

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Appeal to her sensitive side and make her miss the times you've shared. Though Scorpios often have a tough exterior, they're surprisingly emotional and sentimental on the inside. To make her long to see you again, encourage her to think of the meaningful experiences you've already shared. She'll be touched by your gesture and will want to make new memories with you.^{[6]
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- If you want to talk about the first time you met, say something like, "I'm so glad you were in class that day. What would've happened if we hadn't been assigned as lab partners?"
- To talk about your first date, you might text her, "Woke up thinking about our first date. Remember how late we were to the movie? I don't even know how we followed the plot."
- Remind her of a great conversation you shared by saying something like, "I'm still thinking about that debate we had about existentialism. It really changed how I see things."

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Show her that she can trust you.

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A Scorpio won't miss someone unless she knows she can depend on them. When you make promises to her or offer to help her, always follow through. In the early stages of romance, Scorpios are even known to test their potential partners a bit to see how reliable they are. If you show her that you're someone she can really trust, she'll always want to be by your side.^{[7]
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- Keep the dates you set with a Scorpio or reschedule with plenty of time in advance if you must. A Scorpio might take it as a sign of disrespect if you cancel on her last minute.
- Anytime you offer to help a Scorpio, make sure you really do what you say you will. If you offered to give her a ride to work, show up on time (and maybe even bring her a candy bar or bag of chips that she likes).
- Reader Poll: We asked 867 wikiHow readers who are Scorpios what type of relationship they look for, and 65% of them said one that’s committed, serious, and long-term. [Take Poll] Gaining her trust is the only way she'll find what she's looking for with you.

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Let her do her own thing.

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A Scorpio woman needs space to really miss someone. If you haven't heard from her much lately, resist the urge to check up on her. Instead, give her a little time and focus on your own hobbies and interests. With a little time and space, she'll likely come back to you.^{[8]
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- If she hasn't responded to your texts in a few days, throw yourself into a fun project to distract yourself instead of following up.

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Invite her on romantic dates.

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Make her think of you fondly and long for the next date. Scorpios are dazzled by the finer things in life. To really impress her, plan intimate, exciting dates for when you're together. Try to make each date a one-of-a-kind experience that she won't be able to forget, and pick ambient environments that allow for plenty of conversation. Dates like this will leave her mind buzzing with thoughts about you, and she'll be excited to see you again.^{[9]
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- You might try a restaurant with a secluded back patio or a park with a quaint boardwalk.
- To up the romance, show up to your date with a bouquet of flowers.

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Compliment her sincerely.

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Don't use a cheesy pickup line on a Scorpio. She wants to make sure you like her for who she really is. To show her that, make your compliments genuine and heartfelt. Identify a few things you really like about this woman, whether it be her biting sense of humor, her infectious laugh, or her sense of style. Next time you're talking or texting, tell her how you feel. She'll appreciate that you see the real her, and she'll miss being with someone who gets her.^{[10]
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- Next time she says something funny, text her something like, "You're seriously hilarious. You make me laugh more than anyone I know."
- If she's wearing a particularly cool ensemble, tell her. You might say, "I love that leopard print top. You've got such great style."

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Go on trips and fun outings to impress her.

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Scorpio women like to make exciting and thrilling moves in life. Adopt that same lifestyle by taking fun trips in your free time. If you're not able to get out of town, try acting like a tourist in your own city by visiting the local sights and checking out new neighborhoods. It'll make the Scorpio woman you like miss you when you're gone, and she'll want to tag along on one of your cool outings.^{[11]
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- If you're active on social media, you might consider sharing a picture from your travels (especially if this Scorpio follows you).

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Remain independent.

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She'll be impressed and long to be with someone that's so self-reliant. Forge your own path by taking time to do cool things by yourself, like practicing a musical instrument, working out, and reading interesting books. You can also take the time to meet your personal and professional goals. She'll be impressed and will come back in no time.^{[12]
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- You might try going for a new job, applying to school, or starting an online fashion business. Whatever you've been dreaming of lately, don't let your feelings for this Scorpio distract you.
- Even if it seems like she's losing interest, try not to cling. Instead, take that as encouragement to do your own thing.

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Be confident.

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A Scorpio wants to be with someone that believes in themselves. Scorpios go for what they want and take bold strides in life. Match that behavior by walking tall, keeping your head held high, and expressing your thoughts and feelings freely. Try your best not to doubt yourself in front of a Scorpio. Instead, be proud of who you are. The Scorpio you like will miss being around someone that's so comfortable with themselves.^{[13]
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- It's hard to feel confident all of the time (especially on a date). To boost your faith in yourself, try repeating encouraging phrases in your head before a big date. You might try, "I am smart and sexy and a total catch" or simply "I've got this!"
- You can also boost your confidence by wearing a stylish outfit or getting a cool new haircut.^{[14]
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Stay true to yourself.

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Don't pretend to be someone that you're not to impress a Scorpio. Scorpios are distinctly intuitive, and they'll pick up on that fast. Instead, embrace everything that makes you special. Genuine people are hard to come by. She'll be intrigued by what makes you different and will miss your unique insight when you're not around.^{[15]
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- You might try flaunting what you might normally hide. Do you have an old Pez collection that you simply can't part with or so many books that your room resembles a library? That's the kind of stuff that will really make you stand out.

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