How to Tell if a Virgo Man Likes You

Co-authored by Stina Garbis and Aly Rusciano

Last Updated: September 12, 2025 Fact Checked

Honest, dependable, and charismatic? There’s no denying why you’re falling for a Virgo man, but how can you tell if he likes you back? Naturally reserved and a little bit shy, it can be hard to tell if a Virgo man likes you, so we’ve compiled a list of signs to help you out.

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He goes out of his way to grab your attention.

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He likes things to be in a specific order, so you know he likes you if he starts changing his plans or doing things for you that aren’t on his to-do list. Maybe he takes a day off work to see you or drives out of his way to go to a party you’ll be at. He’s changing his perfect routine to fit around you, and he won’t let that go unnoticed.^{[1]
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He can’t help but look at you.

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A Virgo man is sure to be caught glancing your way if he likes you. He’s a perfectionist and won’t jump into his feelings right away, so he’ll study you to make sure he knows exactly what he’s feeling.^{[2]
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Stina Garbis
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Expert Interview} When he does approach you, he wants to make sure everything’s perfect.^{[3]
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- Smile back at him or give him a small wave when you notice him staring. You’re aware he’s watching, so own it!
- Dress nice when you know he’ll be around or glance flirtatiously back.^{[4]
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  Expert Interview} Showing him you’re also into him will ease his worries.
- Reader Poll: We asked 427 wikiHow readers what they’re most likely to do when they have a crush, and 67% of them agreed that they would stare at them every chance they get. [Take Poll] So this is a good indicator that someone’s crushing on you!

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He does everything he can to be around you.

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He might stand closer to you when you're in a group of mutual friends together, or he may start visiting your favorite coffee shop at the same time you do. There are no coincidences with him as each chance encounter is part of him trying to get to know you better.^{[5]
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He reaches out to you on social media.

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The first step for a Virgo man will most likely be digital. If he really likes you, he will do everything he can to make sure he comes across as the most perfect prince. As a naturally shy guy, a Virgo man might not talk to you face-to-face at first he has butterflies! He wants to talk to you in every way he can, and that could mean turning to social media first.^{[6]
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- He might start liking your posts more often or commenting whenever you post a new status update.
- If you like him back, return the digital affection. Like his posts and comment on his pictures. Flirting with him through social media will grab his attention as much as it grabbed yours.

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He remembers the details to impress you.

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A Virgo man’s detail-oriented nature will work in his favor if he likes you. He is most likely meticulous and a full-blown perfectionist, so he already sees the details in everything, but he will focus even harder on learning all the little things about you.^{[7]
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Expert Interview} He knows where you like to eat, your favorite coffee shop, and who your best friends are. He’ll use these details to get closer with you and possibly ask you out.^{[8]
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- Does he point out little things about yourself you didn’t even realize? If so, he’s totally into you! He thinks you’re great, flaws and all, and wants to make sure you know it.

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He gets romantic around you.

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A Virgo man is rather cynical when it comes to romanticism. He views everything logically, searching for the reason in all situations, which is why his attraction for you might be throwing him for a loop. Romance doesn’t come easily for him, so if he starts putting in the effort to flirt and be obviously sweet with you, he’s likes you.^{[9]
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- Maybe he sends you flowers out of the blue or texts you a 😉. These romantic gestures don’t come naturally to him, so he’s working extra hard to show you he cares about you as more than a friend.

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He opens up emotionally to you.

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A Virgo man doesn’t want to be seen as anything but perfect. Showing emotions is difficult for him as he’s afraid of being judged—his perfectionist nature getting the best of him. If he tells you about his past or feelings, he’s letting you see a part of himself no one else gets to see. This vulnerability is a telling sign that he likes you because he won’t open up to just anyone.
- Listen attentively when he shares things with you.^{[10]
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  Expert Interview} He trusts you enough to share secret, vulnerable parts of himself, so show him you support him by listening.

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He treats you like royalty.

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You are the most extraordinary person to a Virgo man if he likes you. He will stop at nothing to pamper and spoil you. Virgos are normally very conservative when it comes to their money, so if he’s sparing no expense to treat you, he definitely likes you. This is his way of showing you he likes you as more than a friend.^{[11]
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- He may spoil you in more than just materialistic ways. As a natural nurturer, a Virgo man will care for you in little ways like making you soup when you’re sick or massaging your back when you’re stressed.

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He calls you more than he texts you.

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A Virgo man values communication and the personal connection that comes with a phone call. He prefers talking rather than texting even though he’s shy because he wants to hear your voice. If you text him and he replies by calling you instead of texting you back, he’s totally interested.^{[12]
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- Keep the conversation going with a game of 20 Questions or by telling him about your day. He called to hear your voice and the odds are that he doesn’t want to have a quick chat.

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He smiles constantly when he’s around you.

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If he’s smiling around you, he’s showing you a part of himself he doesn’t show everyone. Try cracking a joke when he’s around because if he starts laughing, you definitely know he’s into you.^{[13]
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He values your opinion.

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Intelligence is important for a Virgo man. He’s interested in you if he asks for your opinion often and starts diving into deeper conversations with you. This isn’t a sign of him trying to push you away or start a debate, but rather a sign that he wants to share more in life with you.
- He might start asking you important life questions like, “Do you want to have kids someday?” or, “Where do you see yourself in ten years?” This is his way of getting to know you on a deeper level.

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How does a Virgo man act when he likes a woman?

Nico Pires
Spiritual Advisor, Astrologer and Numerologist

If a Virgo man is interested in someone, he’s likely to make plays to be of use. Acts of service is a love language that affirms the Virgo’s attentiveness and commitment to detail. A job well done is always a way to know you’re doing the “right” things.