How to Attract a Virgo Man As an Aquarius Woman

Written by Stina Garbis | Edited by Jessica Gibson

Last Updated: February 8, 2024 References

So a Virgo man's caught your eye! You're probably wondering if your bubbly Aquarius personality can work with his pragmatic approach to life. In fact, you'll be drawn to each other's uniquely different personalities—you'll love his precise, routine-driven nature and he'll be curious about your fun, relaxed attitude. For the best tips on catching a Virgo guy's eye and using your Aquarius charm on him, read on.

This article is based on an interview with our psychic astrologer, Stina Gabris, owner of Psychic Stina. Check out the full interview here.

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Look your best.

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Virgos appreciate people who look neat and tidy. He will notice every little detail about how you look, so dress to impress. As an Aquarius, you're already really stylish, but make sure that your hair is clean and styled, and that your outfit doesn't look sloppy or thrown together. Instead of reaching for the bold, bright colors and designs that you usually wear, try earth tones like greens, browns, and warm reds.^{[1]
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- Virgos love elegant, put-together looks, so reach for a classic dress or a tailored blouse and slacks.

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Make eye contact and smile.

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Virgos prefer to approach first but they need a little encouragement. While he wants to make the first move, he'll only do it if he's sure that you like him. Keep your body language open around him—keep your arms uncrossed, make eye contact, and smile. You can also drop subtle hints or tease him in a flirty way. This should be natural for you since Aquarius people are charming.^{[2]
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- For example, say something like, "I don't think you realize the effect you have on people when you walk into a room."
- You could also say something flirty like, "I know you've got your evening all planned out, but maybe you'd let me shake things up a little."

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Bring up interesting topics.

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Virgos are drawn to intelligent people who can hold their own in conversation. After all, Virgo is ruled by Mercury, the planet of communication. Fortunately, as an Aquarius, you should have no problem showing off your unique point of view! Instead of making small talk, jump right in and have conversations that are original and thoughtful.
- For instance, you might ask, "Who have been the most influential people in your life?"
- Try asking something thoughtful like, "Do you think people have the capacity to truly change?"

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Give him lots of compliments.

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Flatter your Virgo to make him feel confident around you. Virgos are hardworking and they often don't feel appreciated. Since you're a bubbly, friendly Aquarius, you shouldn't have trouble finding something about him that you admire and telling him about it. He'll feel appreciated and his self-esteem will soar.
- For instance, you could gently touch his arm and say something like, "Thank you again for helping me study the other night. You have a way of explaining things really well," or, "I think you should know that you're the most handsome man in the room."

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Talk about your interests and goals.

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Virgos are attracted to people who are ambitious and independent. This also gives you two something interesting to talk about. Casually share what your day's been like and be completely honest. He'll be curious about what you've been doing and he'll love that he's getting to know you.^{[3]
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- It's important that he sees you have your own life, so he doesn't think you're rushing into an exclusive relationship with him.
- For instance, you might call him at the end of the day and tell him how work went or let him know about something funny that happened at school that day.

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Ask for his help with something.

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Appeal to his Virgo-desire to serve, so he feels useful. As an Aquarius, you might be reluctant to ask for help, but it's a great way to make him feel valued. He'll also feel proud that you asked him when you could have asked anyone else.^{[4]
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- For instance, you could text him and say, "My car is dead and I don't know how to use my jumper cables. Could you help?" or "I'm not sure which class I should sign up for next semester. What are your thoughts?"
- Reader Poll: We asked 523 wikiHow readers who’ve dated Virgo men, and 76% of them agreed that the best way to get their interest is by asking for help with a project [Take Poll]

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Surprise him with thoughtful gestures.

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Virgos are detail-oriented and little gestures mean a lot to him. As an Aquarius, you're caring, so it shouldn't be hard for you to think about what would mean a lot to your guy. Maybe you pick up his dry cleaning if he mentioned not having time to get it, or you could get lunch delivered to him if he said he wouldn't have time to grab it himself.^{[5]
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- Virgos aren't looking for huge romantic gestures. Your guy would rather see that you remember things he's said or things he likes, and he'll love that you're trying to make his life easier.

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Plan dates that work with his schedule.

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A Virgo guy doesn't like being surprised or having his routine disrupted. As a really energetic, spontaneous sign, this can be hard for you to understand! He'd much rather you work with him to make plans.
- For instance, instead of saying, "Surprise! I got concert tickets for us and it starts in an hour," he'd rather you say, "I was thinking of getting concert tickets for this weekend. Are you free on Saturday night?"

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Go on fun dates that let you play together.

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Help your Virgo man loosen up, so he enjoys your company. Virgos can be a little uptight! Fortunately, your Aquarius nature is bubbly and outgoing. Invite him to do things that let him play and unwind. Maybe you ask him out for mini-golf or you take him to a comedy show—whatever you do, try to laugh and have fun together.^{[6]
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- Ultimately, you'll hook your Virgo guy because of how you make him feel. If he feels joyful and happy when he's around you, he'll keep wanting more.

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Offer him emotional support.

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Virgos appreciate someone who's caring and stable. As an Earth sign, your guy wants a relationship with someone who's grounded and there for him. As an Aquarius, you're naturally intuitive, so it's easy for you to sense what he needs. For instance, if he's having a rough day, you might realize that he just wants someone to talk to.
- He's a steadfast sign, so giving your constant support makes him feel comfortable.

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Show him that you’re loyal.

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Virgos want exclusive relationships, so give him your full attention. It might be tricky for you to clamp down on your fun, outgoing nature, but it's really important that you don't flirt or appear overly friendly with other guys. He wants to know that you're only interested in him.^{[7]
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- A good way to strengthen your connection is to keep the lines of communication open. Virgos appreciate regular contact. For instance, if you haven't seen him in a day or two, send him a text to touch base or plan your next date.

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Be patient with him.

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Let your Virgo guy open up on his own terms instead of rushing him. This is the classic Virgo-Aquarius issue! You probably realize immediately that you want to have a relationship with him, but he drags his feet and can't seem to make up his mind until it's too late and you've moved on. Wait for it—if you give him the chance to move at his own pace, he'll be totally committed to you.
- If you're feeling frustrated while you wait, just remind yourself about the qualities that attracted you to him. Sometimes, just telling yourself that he's worth it can make it easier to wait.

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Stina Garbis
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Reverend Stina Garbis is a Psychic Astrologer and the Owner of Psychic Stina. With over 30 years of experience, she specializes in providing personal and professional advice through astrology and tarot card readings. Reverend Stina has experience working with high-profile celebrities, sports figures, politicians, and CEOs. She has been featured in many publications, including Bustle, Vice, The New York Post, and Readers’ Digest and she also has a 200k+ following on TikTok. Stina holds an Ordained Minister License from The International Metaphysical Ministry University Seminary.

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Dress well, have nice hair, perfect makeup, and have attention to detail in your personal appearance. This way, you will make them and everyone else turn their heads!

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