12 Ways to Know if a Libra Man Likes You

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Plus, how to attract the special Libra man in your life

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Last Updated: May 7, 2025 Fact Checked

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Libra men are kind, charming, and funny—it’s no wonder that you’d fall for one! The good news is that this sensitive air sign will have a tough time hiding his true feelings from you, and we’ve compiled a list of clues you can look out for if you’re trying to figure out if a Libra likes you. We’ve also included some tips to catch and keep his attention, complete with expert insights from astrologer Angel Eyedealism, so keep reading!

Top Signs a Libra Man Likes you

He loves talking to you and having intellectual conversations.
He gives you lots of compliments.
He tries to win over your friends and family.
He shows you a lot of physical affection.
He’s always there to help when you have a problem.
He stops dating other people and only has eyes for you.

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How do you know if a libra guy likes you?

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He loves talking to you and asks you all about your life. Like all air signs, Libras are known for being communicative, and they don’t shy away from deep conversations.^{[1]
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Research source} When a Libra guy likes you, he’ll likely want to spend hours upon hours chatting with you about your life, hopes, dreams, and goals. Feel free to open up to him, and ask him questions about himself, too!
- For instance, he might ask questions like, “Did you have a happy childhood?” “Who is the person you turn to when you’re upset?” or, “What are your long-term goals?”
- As you open up more and more to him, don’t be surprised if he starts understanding you better than you understand yourself. Libras are known for being talented abstract thinkers, so he may be able to make connections and provide insights that you’ve never thought about before.^{[2]
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He makes time for you. Libras show their love and appreciation with quality time. When a Libra likes you, he’ll make time for you no matter what, even if he’s swamped with other responsibilities. While some people might see this as a little overbearing or clingy, others find it flattering.^{[3]
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Research source} Either way, it means that he really likes you, and he’s probably developing strong feelings for you.
- The dates he takes you on will probably be very romantic, too. Ruled by Venus, this sign really values romance and intimacy, so you can expect a lot of candlelit dinners and quiet nights at home together.^{[4]
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- You can keep him interested by matching his energy and planning fun, romantic dates too. He’ll appreciate any amount of effort you put into seeing him.
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He can’t take his eyes off you. A Libra man will often use eye contact to catch your attention. If you see him from across the room, he’ll probably catch your eye and give you a charming smile. If you two are hanging out alone, you might look over and catch him staring. Take this as a good sign—in the language of flirting, eye contact is often seen as an indicator of interest and attraction!^{[5]
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- Your friends might also come and tell you that he was staring at you all night.
- If you want to attract him even more, catch his eye and then bite your lip or smile. He’ll love the instantaneous connection he gets from across the room!
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He compliments you. Libra men won’t be shy about telling you how great you are.^{[6]
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Expert Interview} They’re known for being charming, and they love to flatter the people they’re interested in.^{[7]
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Research source} So, if you show up to his house with a new outfit or you look particularly good that day, your Libra man will let you know. His compliments can definitely be clues that he’s into you, so you should take them as good signs!
- He’ll probably comment on your personality and your hobbies, too. Libra men love telling you good things about yourself.
- Try to accept his compliments, even if they can be a bit much. It’s his way of showing you that he cares!^{[8]
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He introduces you to his family and friends. Air signs value social connections over anything else.^{[9]
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Expert Interview} So, if you get invited out to boys' night, or he asks you to meet his parents, this is a great sign! Do your best to get to know the people in his life, because friends, family, and socializing are hugely important to a Libra guy.^{[10]
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- On the flip side, if he hasn’t quite brought you home to meet the parents yet, try not to be offended. It probably means he’s taking some time to figure out what he truly wants before getting serious with you.^{[11]
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He makes an effort to spend time with your friends. Since Libras value friends and family so much, he’ll likely try to spend a lot of time with your loved ones. He’ll also be on his best behavior to impress them—and you. The good news is that Libras are known for being incredibly charming and likable, so chances are, your friends and family will love him!^{[12]
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- His eagerness to get to know your friends and family better shows that he cares about you, and it also signals to the people in your life that he’s going to stick around.
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He goes out of his way to touch you. Libras are very romantic and affectionate people, so he’ll probably try to touch and hold you as much as possible.^{[13]
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Research source} This could be something as little as giving you a hug at the end of a long day, or it could be as big as offering you a full-body massage.
- If your love language is also physical touch, try matching his energy and showing him physical affection. You’ll signal to him that you appreciate what he’s doing, and that it makes you feel good.
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He puts your sexual needs before his. Libra's charm doesn’t stop at the bedroom door—they’re also known for being very generous in the bedroom. If he truly likes you, he’s going to make sure that you’re having as much fun as he is during sex. Don’t be afraid to explore new things with him, and be vocal about your wants and needs—he’ll appreciate it!^{[14]
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- Libra men will almost always try anything once. If there’s something you want to bring up, don’t worry about judgment from this sign.
- And, since he’s ruled by Venus, a Libra man doesn’t see sex as just a physical thing—he’ll also be very romantic and sentimental.^{[15]
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He tries to cheer you up when you’re feeling down. Libras are social signs, and they hate seeing people close to them upset. When he likes you, his happiness will hinge on your happiness. If your Libra guy notices that you’re not feeling like yourself, he’s probably going to do everything he can to make you feel better. He might bring you your favorite food, run you a bath, or just come over and hang out with you for some company. This is a sweet gesture, and it means he really cares for you.^{[16]
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- If you’re the type of person that needs space when they’re upset, that’s fine, too. Just communicate your needs with him and let him know that it’s not him, it’s you.
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He does his best to solve all your problems. Libras are all about maintaining emotional equilibrium. This means that he hates it when things feel tense, hectic, or out of whack, so if you share a problem with him, he’ll probably do anything in his power to help fix it for you.^{[17]
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Research source} His help means that he really likes you, and these kinds of gestures are a great sign.
- For example, if you tell him all about your car troubles, he’ll probably take you straight to a mechanic (or even head out and work on the car himself).
- It can be a little overwhelming to constantly accept advice or favors from a Libra guy, so don’t be afraid to tell him if you just need to vent instead of getting his help with something.
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He’s upfront about his feelings. If a Libra man is in love, he'll shout it from the rooftops. They’re suckers for love and romance, and when they develop feelings for someone, they wear their hearts on their sleeves.^{[18]
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Research source} If you two have been seeing each other for a little while and he starts to feel deeply for you, he’s probably going to let you know. He might say something like, “I think I’m falling for you,” or, “I really like you.” And when he does, you can believe him 100%.^{[19]
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- Libras value communication, so if you’re ever unsure about his feelings, go ahead and ask.^{[20]
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He’s totally committed to you. Libras are known for being a bit indecisive, so when he’s in dating mode, he may casually see lots of people before settling down. However, once a Libra man falls in love, he’s all in. He'll most likely become an intensely committed, loving, and attentive partner, so get ready for a romantic whirlwind!^{[21]
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Research source} Even if you two aren’t officially exclusive yet, if he’s dropped all his other dates and just focuses on you, this is a pretty clear sign that he’s in it for the long haul!
- He might talk with you about being exclusive pretty early-on. Libras aren’t huge fans of sharing the people they’re dating.
- It’s important to stay loyal to your Libra too, especially if you two are exclusive. Libras don’t usually respond well to jealousy or games.

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How to Make a Libra Guy Fall in Love With You

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Take care to look your best. Libras are ruled by Venus, the planet of love and beauty. Because of this, “You definitely want to appeal to their sense of aesthetics,” explains Eyedealism.^{[22]
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Expert Interview} Libra men tend to be drawn to people who have a refined and elegant sense of style, and they appreciate it when someone looks put-together.
- If you’re trying to catch a Libra guy’s eye, try taking a little extra time to pick out a stylish ensemble, or do a super elegant hairstyle or makeup look.
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Show off your intelligence. A Libra man “wants a woman that is refined and intellectual, because he’s an intellectual,” explains Eyedealism.^{[23]
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Expert Interview} So, if you’re really trying to impress a Libra guy, try engaging in some deep conversations with him.
- Ask him thoughtful questions about his beliefs and ideas, and share your own insights about the world.
- Libra men are looking for someone who stimulates them intellectually, so you’ll be sure to knock him off his feet!
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Be calm and easygoing. Libra’s symbol is The Scales, so it’s no surprise that they’re all about balance. They’re always trying to create harmony in social situations, and they hate it when there are tense, awkward, or negative vibes.^{[24]
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- If you show him that you’re the kind of person who can stay calm, cool, and collected, even in hectic situations, he’ll likely feel comfortable around you and want to spend more time with you.
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Win him over with your sociability and charisma. Libras are known for being charming and likable social butterflies, and they look for partners who can match this energy.^{[25]
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Research source} If you’re at a social gathering together, chat up the people around you to show off your conversation skills. Or, if you want to go all-out, throw a dinner party and invite him, so he can see what an excellent host you are.
- Politeness in social situations is also a huge deal for Libras, explains Eyedealism. “You definitely don’t want to be rude or gross around a Libra man. He gets turned off by somebody who’s coarse,” she says.^{[26]
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Who are Libra men compatible with?

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Fellow air signs Gemini and Aquarius share lots of traits with Libra—they’re all social, talkative, and intellectual—so they make pretty great matches.^{[27]
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Research source} Philosophical and optimistic Sagittarius also pairs well with Libra, who appreciates Saggitarius’s ability to go toe-to-toe in a debate and maintain good vibes in social situations.

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What is a Libra like?

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Libras are known for being charming, sociable, and diplomatic. They seek harmony and balance in all areas of their lives, so they’re often seen as peacemakers in their families and social circles. Libras are also intelligent and communicative, and they have a deep appreciation for beauty and aesthetics.^{[28]
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- Element: Air
- Modality: Cardinal
- Ruling Planet: Venus
- Symbol: The Scales
- Keywords: Likable, kind, social, refined, fair, just, affectionate, talkative, elegant, intellectual, peacemaking

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