How to Attract a Libra Man As a Capricorn Woman

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Last Updated: April 26, 2024 References

A Libra guy can be so charming that you may wonder if you have a chance with him. As a practical Capricorn woman, it's no surprise you're drawn to his energy and effortless social skills. Fortunately, he's curious about your quiet, reserved nature, and you two might find that your unique personalities work really well together. Ready to make a move? Read on for a complete guide to spark his interest in you.

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Flirt to let him know you're interested.

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Your Libra is a skilled flirt—don't be afraid to act bold or seductive! You might find that you've got competition for his attention, so you need to make it clear that you're into him. Playfully tease him, casually touch him, or smile and hold his gaze. Keep your arms uncrossed, so you appear more approachable and open to what he's saying.
- You could say, "You and I clearly need to get away from all these people. Buy you a drink?"
- If you've got his number, don't hesitate to send a flirty text. For instance, say, "Tell the truth. How long have you been waiting for a text from me?"

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Put extra effort into your appearance.

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Venus rules Libra and he's drawn to beauty, so look your best. You may want to spruce up your style or find a killer outfit that's sure to grab his attention. More than anything, wear something that makes you feel your best. You'll radiate confidence that your Libra guy won't be able to resist.^{[1]
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- You don't have to dress like you're going to a black-tie event, but ensure that your clothes are neat and clean. You may want to accessorize with some eyecatching jewelry, too.
- Libras like romantic or fashionable looks. For instance, you might wear a lace top with a neutral-colored blazer and fitted slacks or a skirt.

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Challenge yourself to be outgoing.

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Libras are charming and extroverted, so let him see that you can be outgoing, too. Capricorns are usually introverted, or at least you keep a small circle of friends. Make a point of going out more. This might mean hitting the town or going out to parties together, or just getting more on your own so he hears you've been out.^{[2]
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- If you're really not a fan of going out, ask a close friend to come out with you. Sometimes, hanging out in a group makes it easier to catch someone's eye.

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Do fun, spontaneous things together.

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As an air sign, Libras are carefree, so show him that you can loosen up. As a Capricorn, you're an Earth sign which is known for being pragmatic and grounded. Show him that you have an exciting side. Challenge him to laser tag, surprise him with tickets to a funfair, or take him to the go-kart track.^{[3]
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- Not sure what to do? Pick his brain for ideas—say, "What's something you've always wanted to do or try, but never gotten around to?"

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Teach him something new.

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Appeal to his curious nature by sharing your knowledge. This does a few things—it shows him that you're smart and engaging, and it piques his interest. Libras love to think and learn, so teaching him something new gives you both something to discuss.
- You might say something like, "I can't believe you don't know how to ice skate! We've got to do something about that."
- Don't know what to teach? Offer to learn something new together. You could say, "I've always wanted to take dance lessons. Want to learn how to salsa?"

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Have interesting conversations.

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Show your Libra man that you are a great conversationalist. You won't have too much trouble with this since you're an intelligent Capricorn. Libras love talking with someone who can hold their own in a conversation. Bonus points if you bring up thoughtful or challenging subjects!^{[4]
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- For instance, instead of asking standard questions like "How was your day?" or "What are your favorite movies?" get the conversation started with a more interesting question like, "What was the craziest thing that happened to you today?" or, "If you could choose anywhere in the world to be right now, where would you be?"

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Make him chase you.

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Your Libra will be intrigued if you're sometimes too busy to go out. If you say yes every time he asks you out, he might think you're too available. Turning him down occasionally will make him curious. He'll wonder what you're up to and he'll miss you when you're not around.
- It's fine to say you've already got plans if he asks you out. However, don't shoot him down every time or he will move on.
- For example, if he asks you out without a lot of notice, you could say, "Oh, I wish you had asked me sooner. I'm going out with girlfriends tonight. Maybe we could meet up tomorrow?"

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Tell him about your accomplishments.

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Libras are impressed by the passion and hard work that go into achievements. Don't be afraid to talk about your successes and goals for the future. As a Capricorn, your hard work means you have a lot to be proud of. He'll love that you're accomplished and motivated to succeed.^{[5]
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- Don't be surprised if he introduces you to his friends like this, "Guys, this is Janey. She's studying to be a clinical psychologist," or, "Let me introduce you to Alex. Alex just completed her first half-marathon over the weekend."

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Give him lots of compliments.

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Libras know that they're great, but they want to hear it from you. Flattery goes a long way with this sign as long as you're genuine. If you share your honest opinion with him, he'll feel appreciated and valued—definitely a great start for any relationship.
- For instance, you might say, "You're a great conversationalist. Do you know that? You really put people at ease," or, "You make me feel like the most special woman in the room. How do you do it?"
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Let him know how you feel about him.

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Libras love romance, so be sweet and affectionate to him. As a Capricorn, it can be hard for you to open up to someone else. This won't fly with a Libra! You've got to get a little romantic—send him a sweet text, call to say goodnight before you go to bed, or just let him know that you've got butterflies in your stomach the next time you see him.^{[6]
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- For instance, you might say, "I love the way you smile at me," or, "I always get goosebumps when I see you walk across the room."
- It's completely fine if you're a little awkward when you open up. He'll see that you're vulnerable and he'll appreciate that you're making an effort to share your emotions.

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Be patient with him.

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A Libra man likes to take things slow until he knows you're the one. If you try to push him into a serious relationship before he's ready, he'll probably bolt. Instead, enjoy getting to know each other and let yourself be swept away by his romantic gestures.^{[7]
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- Remember, each of you brings different strengths to your relationship. Appreciate your Libra's desire for harmony and his compassionate nature.