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Will I get my ex back?

WikiKoalaWhisperer487
WikiKoalaWhisperer487
06/02/25 5:31pm
My ex and I were together for 7 months. We were great together and had a lot of fun. I was broken up with very abruptly because they are questioning sexuality. After we broke up we went for a week without seeing each other but still messaging back and forth. After that week we actually spent an entire week together and it felt like nothing changed and we acted like we were still together. Then one of us had to leave for work. The first week during this we talked in the phone and sent messages back and forth. However, my ex then called for no-contact and has since blocked me on all social media. Is there a chance we get back together?
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How do I guess a person's age by their appearance?

Predestined829
Predestined829
05/28/25 5:59pm
So I'm 17M, I am wondering how can I tell how old this girl is. I've seen this girl only one time so far, but I have seen a picture online of her, and I can't tell if she looks considerably around my age or not. My generation looks like everyone is in their 20s, so idk lol any advice?
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How to end a friendship with someone.

Leo_Valdez
Leo_Valdez
05/28/25 5:59pm
Help!! I just had a big fight with a best friend since pre-k, and need to end the friendship. How do I do this?
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I have a crush on someone across the U.S from me. I don't know what to do.

Bdhehdhhedheh
Bdhehdhhedheh
05/28/25 5:59pm
So...I like someone who lives on the eastern side of the U.S, while I live on the west. Don't ask how we met; everyone asks that and just completely ignores the question.

We are friends, we call and text a lot, but there is no way to see each other in real life. We both like each other, but.....yeah. I don't know what to do.
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Dealing with friend hypocrisy and data privacy issue

Happy 7
Happy 7
05/28/25 5:59pm
A person uploaded a photo to chatgpt to create ghibli trend although I explained the repercussions, data privacy issues and ethical issues. I also openly showed her disinterest and showed how I would not like uploading my image to chatgpt as we never know what can happen to it.

She also agreed an replied that she also supported the issues concerning it. Despite that she uploaded a group photo which includes me and 4 others just to follow the trend a few days later.

How can she show such hypocrisy as a friend and not respect my boundaries and disrespect me in that way. What can I do ?
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What are some good funny insults for friends and family?

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Can a girl make the first move on a guy?

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Romantic and unique date ideas?

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How do I attract my hot coworker?

SkylarkENFJ
SkylarkENFJ
05/27/25 6:38pm
I'm 17F and I'm hitting on this hot guy I work with (17M), but it's not my style to make the first move. I want to become more attractive in general and subtly let him know I'm interested without being too obvious. I need some suggestions! (There aren't any no-dating workplace policies.)
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need advice, I fell for this boy at first glance

I just work here
I just work here
05/20/25 5:47pm
I fell for this boy at first glance. But he probably always looked at me like glass. The blue eyes were light in the sky when he was happy. Dark as the ocean when he was sad. He has this smile that sinks into your heart and makes you turn lost. His gentleness. I never had someone really. But when I saw him I felt cared for.

He is smart, funny, hardworking, devoted, and kind. I saw him for his flaws. And the way he made me feel. When I first saw him I never saw something so hurt inside but well put together. I saw that pain that others overlooked. That was 7th grade.

In 8th grade I watched him fall for another girl. That only liked him for his looks. And that hurt the most seeing him love someone that was not me. But he probably didn't;t even know my name. Connor deserves a lot more I tell myself. Instead of a girl that had anger issues and treated him like trash.9th grade. He finally said my name. Now everytime he says it I sink. That was the year I found out we had something in common: we both don't have mothers. We both were searching for a way to fill that emptiness. Now I could put a pin point on that hurt. That is when I would say the obsession started. When I started to care more about my appearance. Would make sure he was listening. Then I started to turn the little things into a big thing. Like he looked at me and I fell harder. Or our hands touched and it felt like I was watching fireworks on fourth July except they came from my heart. I told him I liked him and his friend. That when I kept chasing I would say.

10th grade. It got harder. The feeling felt impossible. That is when I was able to fully say I love you. But I didn't tell him.

This year. I sat next to him a couple months ago. We had to because the teacher always signs us next to each other.

Dec 6. I was in a relationship for the first time. And All I thought about was him. And that relationship was horrible because that dude said I couldn't leave him if I tried and that we were going to get married. We dated for two weeks. Guess who I told about it. to get help to get out Connor.

Dec 28. I told Connor this "I love you I never meant to fall this hard or even this way I did tho. But Connor I feel for your caring, how smart you are, how hardworking you are. And since the day I met you I saw your pain. And I love you to the point it actually hurts me. And I hope one day I learn to stop so it doesn't hurt anymore" Then the bell rang. He was almost in tears. Then I gave him space. Then our conversation about dirt bikes and trucks and four wheels started again.

Then Around in march he started to get a little too friendly I guess you could say with Mia and Izzy the girls that threw my sketchbook across the room and broke the spin. So I had to buy a new sketchbook which isn't cheap. He drove Miah home. And the what if ran threw my mind. Like what if they hook up. And so I left him after that.

But it was 3 weeks later and I noticed him looking and waiting to see my reaction. But I could be making it up to be something not. We walk and talk. About things when we could. So today at the end of the school day walking to our trucks I asked " Connor, how would you feel if you never saw me again." He replied "Not too bad."

Now I am sitting here crying. And wondering what to do. It started four years ago. All my family says you're too young to know what love is or anything. I think I know what it is like when my mother abandoned me. Deep down I want someone to love me and fight for me the way I do. Really I don't know what to do. I want the best for Connor. But I just don't know how to move on. I tried it all so maybe y'all can help