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So, the girl you’re texting just called you “b.” This term of endearment can mean “babe,” “bestie,” or “bro,” so does this little letter mean she sees you as a friend, or is she interested in something more? Well, you’ve come to the right place for answers. In this article, we’ll go over what “b” means in a text, what it can mean when a girl calls you “b,” and what it means when a guy texts you “b,” too. Read on to learn more!

Things You Should Know

  • “B” is a term of endearment that can mean “babe,” “baby,” “bestie,” “bro,” or “beautiful.” This little letter shows your platonic or romantic affection for someone.
  • If a girl calls you “b,” she might be telling you that she likes you. Look for signs that she’s interested, like complimenting you and using flirty emojis.
  • A girl might call you “b” if she sees you as a friend or brother. If she talks to you about her crushes and relationships, you might be in the friend zone.
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Meaning of “B” In a Text

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  1. When you respond to a text from your partner, friend, or family member, you might add a “b” to the end of your message to show your affection. This little letter simply shows that you care for the person you’re texting, whether that’s romantically or platonically.[1]
    • “B” can also stand for other terms of endearment like beautiful, boo, babydoll, bestie, and bro.
    • “Thanks, b. ❤️ I thought you looked good tonight, too 😉”
    • “You’re the best, b. I don’t know what I’d do without a friend like you. 🥰”
  2. If you’re angry at someone, “B” might not be a term of endearment and instead, be an insult standing for “b*tch.” You might call someone “b” instead of typing out “b*tch” when you’re venting to a friend or arguing with someone on social media.[2]
    • “I can’t believe that Stella didn’t invite me to her party. What a total b 🤬”
    • “Can you stop being a b and grow up? 😡 I’m done with this conversation.”
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  3. Sometimes, texting “B” is simply a way to shorten someone’s name. You might call your friend or partner “B” if you need to fire off a quick text, or you can’t be bothered to type out their name.
    • “Hey B, can you call me? I have a favor to ask you.”
    • “omg b likes you! he’s hands-down the cutest guy in school 😍”
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What does it mean when a girl calls you “B” in a text?

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  1. Because “b” usually means “babe” or “baby,” a girl might call you this little letter to flirt with you and make her crush on you known. Just look for other texting cues that she’s hoping to be more than friends—if she’s complimenting you, showing interest in you and the conversation[3] , and using flirty emojis like 😘, 😉, or 🫦, she’s likely interested in you![4]
  2. A girl calling you “b” can also be a term of endearment that shows her affection for you. She might text you, “Thanks b!” when you help her out with an assignment, or ask “What are you up to, b?” when she wants to hang out. Her “b” can mean that she sees you as a really great friend, or something more.
    • If the girl you’re texting is giving you mixed messages, ask her if she likes you in person or over text. For example, you might say, “I’ve been feeling like there’s the potential for us to be more than friends. Do you feel the same way?”
    • If you only see her as a friend, say something like, “You’re one of my best friends and I love hanging out with you. How do you feel about us?”
  3. “B” can also be short for “bro” or “bestie,” so a girl might call you “b” if she thinks of you as a friend or sees you like a brother. To suss out if she’s putting you in the friend zone with her “B” text, analyze your conversations and in-person interactions. If the girl you’re texting talks about her crushes or relationship issues and always invites other people to your 1-on-1 hangs, she might just think of you as a friend.[6]
    • If you have feelings for the girl you’re texting and you want to get out of the friend zone, tell her how you feel. This is the best way to show her that you want to be more than friends and see how she feels, too.
    • For example, say something direct and simple like, “Hey, I just wanted to let you know that I have feelings for you.”
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What does it mean when a guy calls you “B” in a text?

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  1. A guy might call you “b” as a term of endearment, but whether he likes you romantically depends on your relationship. So, look out for signs that he likes you more than a friend: does he text you “Good morning,” respond to your messages quickly, or compliment you unprompted? There are all positive signs he’s caught feelings.[7]
  2. If the guy you’re texting just sees you as one of the guys, he might call you other friendly nicknames like “dude,” and “bro.” You might also notice that he only seems to hang out with you if other people tag along.[9]
    • Ask him if he likes you to see how he really feels. Whether you talk to him in person or over text, ask him straightforwardly like, “Hey, I’ve been wondering where we stand. Do you like me more than a friend?”
    • If you have feelings for the guy you’re texting, say something like, “I want to know how you feel about me because I have feelings for you.”
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This article was co-authored by Hardy Jean and by wikiHow staff writer, Devin McSween. Hardy "Coach DT" Jean is a Dating Coach and the Head Coach & Co-Founder of Way Tooo Spicy LLP, a relationship and dating coaching service based in Boston, Massachusetts. Hardy's specialties include trauma healing, self-love practices, and modern dating tactics in an increasingly virtual world. He works with his clients to upgrade their dating experiences through healing trauma, implementing uniquely personalized dating gameplans, and empowering clients to attract partners that they deserve. He has a BA in Legal Studies from the University of Massachusetts Amherst and is currently pursuing his Juris Doctor at Northeastern School of Law. This article has been viewed 27,652 times.
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