Are They Thinking of You Sexually? 23 Spiritual Signs

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Psychic signs someone is thinking of you sexually
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If you’re attracted to someone, odds are you want to know if they’re attracted to you, too. While there are several physical signs someone’s into you, you may also experience spiritual signs that suggest someone is thinking about you sexually, like tingling or intense mood swings. In this article, we’ll explain 23 common signs someone is thinking about you sexually, with advice from psychics and spiritual directors.

Common Signs Someone is Thinking About You Sexually

Common Signs Someone is Thinking About You Sexually Summary

When someone is thinking about you sexually, you’ll also think of them constantly. You’ll often feel happy for no reason, or you may experience sudden mood swings with no explanation. You may also hear or feel them when they’re not around, or you’ll have erotic dreams about them.

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You think about them constantly.

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  1. Your mind frequently wanders toward that person.
    If someone is thinking of you sexually, you may find yourself thinking of them, too, either consciously or subconsciously. When someone thinks about you, they send out energy, and if you’re receptive to that energy, you’ll likely start thinking about them, too. You may have sexual fantasies about them or they may just frequently be on your mind.[1]
    • What to do next: If you’re interested, reach out to them! Find an excuse to talk to them or send them a text. See if they mention that they were thinking of you, too.

    Meet the wikiHow Experts

    Mari Cartagenova is a psychic medium and animal communicator based in Westford, Massachusetts. She specializes in mediumship, intuitive psychic guidance, past life or soul reading, and animal communication.

    Jennifer McVey, Cht, is a spiritualist, seer, and the spiritual director of Spiritual Answers and Solutions. She has over 22 years of experience and specializes in manifesting, spiritually-based life coaching, channeling, and more.

    Kelly Ferguson is a psychic medium, shamanic healer, and empowerment coach based in Toronto, Canada. As the founder of the Intuitive Empowerment Academy, she specializes in helping others develop their intuitive abilities.

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You feel giddy for no reason.

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  1. Your sudden happiness or excitement is unexplainable. You may be going about your day as usual when you suddenly feel the urge to smile or laugh. Even if you aren’t thinking of your person at the time, you could be picking up on how you make them feel.[2] Don’t brush this feeling off; the higher your emotions are, the more powerful they are.
    • Example: You might be having a horrible day at work, but out of nowhere, your mood brightens even though nothing about your situation has changed. This feeling may last for a while, or it may fade within a few minutes.
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You have the urge to contact them at odd hours.

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  1. You have a sudden, intense need to reach out to them.
    When someone is thinking of you sexually, you’ll feel drawn to them and crave their attention. You may wake up in the middle of the night and want to talk to them, even if this isn’t your normal behavior. This is likely because they’re already thinking about you, and if it’s late at night, their thoughts might not be that innocent.
    • What to do next: If you’re feeling bold, send them a text. If they respond, they may have been lying awake thinking of you, too. If you feel like it’s too late to reach out, wait until the morning and see if they mention thinking of or dreaming of you.
    • Psychic medium and animal communicator Mari Cartagenova recommends paying attention to what time you get these feelings, like 2:22 or 3:33 AM, as this could be a sign that someone is trying to get your attention.[3]
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You feel like someone is watching you.

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  1. If you feel like they’re watching you, you may be picking up on their energy. Don’t worry—this isn’t as creepy as it sounds! If you feel like your person is watching you and you know they aren’t nearby, you’re likely picking up on the fact that they’re thinking of you. If there’s a strong connection between the two of you, you may feel their presence and their positive energy.
    • What to do next: Pay attention to how this makes you feel. If the sensation is positive, it may be a sign that you should reach out. If you don’t like how it makes you feel, however, it may be better to wait and see what the person’s intentions are.
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There’s an intense energy between you.

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  1. Your energy is heightened when you’re with them.
    Even if you don’t know this person well, you experience intense, unexplainable feelings when you’re with them. You may literally feel their energy around you, and your own energy will be very high when you’re in their presence. When they leave, your energy level will plummet and you’ll miss them almost immediately. Your energy level may also coincide with theirs, so you may feel low or high energy depending on how your person is feeling at that moment.[4]
    • Example: When you’re with them, you may feel a strong urge to touch them, or you may feel so happy that you think nothing can bring you down.
    • What to do next: Consider how you usually feel when you’re around someone you like. If you always feel intense energy, that may just be how you experience a crush. If this feeling is new and unusual, however, it could be a sign this person has strong feelings toward you.
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You have a warm feeling in your chest.

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  1. You experience positive physical sensations throughout the day. When someone has sexual or romantic feelings for you, they open up a part of themselves to you and send positive energy toward you, intentionally or not. If you feel a warm, pleasant sensation in your chest, this likely means your heart is accepting those feelings. This sensation may come and go throughout the day, whether you’re thinking of that person or not.
    • What to do next: To avoid wishful thinking, consider whether anything else could have made you feel this way. Maybe someone just complimented you or you’re having a good day at work. If the feeling truly comes out of nowhere and stays with you throughout the day, it could be a sign your person is thinking of you.
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You have undeniable chemistry with them.

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  1. You can’t ignore the sexual tension between you two.
    When you have chemistry with someone, you feel it in your whole body. You don’t choose to be attracted to them; you’re just naturally drawn to them. When this happens, you’re likely picking up on the energy they’re sending out. You won’t be able to ignore the sexual tension between you.[5]
    • Example: You may feel an instant connection or physical attraction when you meet them. Conversation likely comes easily, and you feel like you exist on the same wavelength. You likely have good banter and flirt regularly.
    • What to do next: Don’t be afraid to act on your feelings! If you notice the chemistry, they probably do, too. Feel free to flirt or take the next step and ask them on a date.
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You start feeling shy or nervous for no reason.

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  1. You may feel overwhelmed when you pick up on their thoughts. When your subconscious picks up on your person’s sexual thoughts, you may start feeling nervous or shy, even if you don’t consciously know why. If you aren’t normally shy around people, this could be a sign that they’re thinking of you, and your body is reacting. This nervous feeling may be accompanied by a burning sensation in your ears, which some people believe indicates someone has a crush on you.[6]
    • What to do next: Think about how you normally feel around this person. If you’re usually shy or nervous, you may just be feeling this way because you like them. If you normally feel cool and confident, however, you may be picking up on their feelings toward you.
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You hear their voice when they aren’t there.

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  1. It’s like they’re talking to you in your mind.
    Just like you may feel them watching you, you can also sometimes hear your person’s voice when they’re thinking of you sexually. Depending on the situation, you might hear them say something specific, or you may just hear a faint echo of their voice. Listen to what they have to say, as this may help you figure out what they think of you.[7]
    • Example This is different from replaying a conversation with them in your head. You’ll hear their actual words in your mind, separate from your own thoughts. It’ll be as if they’re speaking directly to you.
    • What to do next: Pay attention to what they’re saying and how it makes you feel. This can give you an idea of how they feel about you and how you feel about them in return.
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You randomly feel aroused throughout the day.

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  1. You may feel turned on when they’re thinking of you. If you find yourself feeling aroused when nothing sexual is going on, your person may be fantasizing about you at that very moment. If you’re attracted to them, too, you may be picking up on their sexual energy even if you aren’t together.[8]
    • What to do next: If you’re attracted to this person, you may get aroused because you’re thinking about them. Make sure you weren’t subconsciously thinking about them before deciding if this is a spiritual sign from them or not.
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You feel their touch when they aren’t there.

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  1. Feeling their touch often means you’re connected to their energy.
    In addition to hearing their voice or feeling them watching you, you may also feel physical sensations on your body as if they’re touching you. You may feel their hand on your face or your back, or things may be a bit more sexual. This likely means they’re thinking of touching you at that moment.[9]
    • Example: If they normally touch your back when they’re walking past you, you may feel that sensation even when they aren’t around.
    • What to do next: Consider how often these sensations occur. If it only happened once, it could’ve been your imagination, but if it happens regularly, it may be a sign they’re thinking of you.
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You experience synchronicities.

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  1. Pay attention to any repeating numbers or signs. When someone is thinking about you sexually, you may notice different signs that remind you of them. For example, you might see their name or symbols that are important to them, like their favorite football team’s logo. You may also notice angel numbers, like 444, 222, or 11:11.
    • What to do next: If you’re not sure what a certain number or sign means, make note of it so you can research it later. Feel free to reach out to your person and let them know you saw something that reminded you of them!
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You have erotic dreams about them.

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  1. Erotic dreams are a strong indication of sexual attraction. Many believe that energy can be exchanged and balanced while dreaming. If you have an erotic dream about your person, they may also be thinking or dreaming of you sexually. This may be their way of communicating their feelings on a spiritual level.[10]
    • Even if your dreams about them aren’t erotic, Cartagenova explains that it’s a way of energetically connecting with your person: “In a subconscious manner, you’re putting it out there to try to connect with the other person so that they might start thinking of you and becoming interested in you.”[11]
    • What to do next: If you’re attracted to this person, you may have dreamt about them because you were thinking about them before you fell asleep. If you know you weren’t thinking about them, write down the details you remember to help you figure out what the dream meant.
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You feel their bodily sensations.

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  1. Your body may react the way theirs does.
    When someone is thinking of you sexually, you may feel what their body is feeling at that moment. If you suddenly feel sensations like a racing heartbeat, body temperature fluctuations, or even nausea, you may be energetically connected to your person.[12]
    • What to do next: If this is truly a sign they’re thinking of you, these sensations will come out of nowhere. Consider whether you were doing anything that might make you feel this way before interpreting the sensations as a sign.
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You have a gut feeling they’re thinking of you.

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  1. Listen to your intuition about them. If you have a strong, unexplainable feeling that your person is thinking of you sexually, it’s probably true. Your inner wisdom is likely picking up on their feelings. This is especially true if you pick up on the feeling while doing something spiritual, like meditating.[13]
    • Trusting your intuition can also help you figure out if you have a soul tie with someone. Spiritual director Jennifer McVey, Cht, says, “If you have that connection, you’d know exactly where they are and what they’re doing. It wouldn’t be a question. It would be a thought… You would just absolutely know.”[14]
    • What to do next: If you’re unsure whether you should trust your intuition, think about how you’re feeling in the moment. You should feel calm and steady, not anxious and frantic. Your intuition should provide you with a feeling of clarity or relief.
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You hear music that reminds you of them.

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  1. You may have their favorite song stuck in your head. If a specific song gets stuck in your head, pay attention to the lyrics. The song might remind you of your person, or the lyrics could reflect how they’re feeling about you.
    • What to do next: Make note of any important details, like specific lyrics you remember or when you heard the song. This could help you figure out more details about the person’s feelings.
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You get goosebumps or tingles.

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  1. Goosebumps often indicate an influx of energy. When someone constantly thinks about you (sexually or otherwise), their energy may start to merge with yours. When this happens, you may experience goosebumps or tingling out of nowhere. This may feel unpleasant or overwhelming at first because you aren’t used to feeling so much energy at once.[15]
    • What to do next: As with other physical sensations, make sure there’s no reasonable cause, such as changes in temperature. If this happens frequently, consider writing down the details of each experience to try to identify any patterns.
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You keep drawing sexual tarot cards.

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  1. Get a tarot reading to determine what they think of you.
    If you believe in divination, tarot cards can be a great way to figure out your current situation, like what someone thinks of you. Some cards, in particular, are often used to convey sexual content, like the Ace of Wands, Knight of Wands, the Star, Temperance, and the Four of Swords. If you keep drawing these cards, especially when asking about this person, it could mean they’re thinking of you sexually.[16]
    • What to do next: If you suspect someone is thinking about you sexually, you can also try asking the tarot cards what their intentions are, like if they want a relationship or just a hookup. This can help you decide if pursuing the person is worth your time.
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You engage in telepathic sex.

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  1. You and your person may have sex in the astral plane. When you’re deeply connected with someone, it’s possible to experience telepathic arousal. If you believe in the astral plane, you and your person may astral project and have sex through telepathic touch. When this happens, you may also feel the sensations in your physical body.[17]
    • If you want to telepathically communicate with someone, McVey generally recommends visualizing them “unless you’re not a visual person and it frustrates you and it feels like you can’t do it.” In that case, she says to connect with them in any way you can.[18]
    • What to do next: Most of those who believe in telepathic sex believe it occurs when two people have a deep bond. If you haven’t already, it may be time to take your relationship with this person to the next level, whatever that means for you.
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You experience sudden or intense mood swings.

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  1. Your mood may reflect your person’s mood.
    When someone constantly thinks of you, their thoughts may enter your energy field and impact the way you deal with your emotions. You may find yourself suddenly angry when you were just happy or vice versa. It’s possible you’re picking up on how your person is feeling at that moment.[19]
    • What to do next: If you want to confirm that your sudden feelings are related to your person, reach out and ask them how they’re feeling. If their emotions align with yours, it’s a good sign you’re spiritually connected.
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They reach out when you think of them.

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  1. You seem to know when they’re going to contact you. When someone thinks of you sexually, they may suddenly have the urge to call or text you. This feeling often coincides with you thinking of them. This is a sign of the deep connection between the two of you.[20]
    • What to do next: Understand that this won’t happen every single time you think about them, but put it to the test by thinking about them and mentally urging them to reach out. See what happens!
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You encounter a deer or a dove.

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  1. Crossing paths with certain animals can be a sign from the universe. Many animals hold spiritual significance in different cultures. For example, birds (like doves) are often spiritual messengers, so if you see them repeatedly or if one behaves oddly around you, it could mean someone is thinking about you passionately. Similarly, seeing a deer often suggests subtle sexual energy.
    • Psychic medium and shamanic healer Kelly Ferguson adds that the animal or sign “can also be specific to the individual.”[21] So, if your person really likes koalas, seeing a koala could be a sign they’re thinking of you.
    • What to do next: Make sure the encounter was truly random. For example, if you saw a deer on a hike, that might just be a coincidence. Pay attention to how the encounter made you feel, as well.
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A psychic confirms their feelings.

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  1. Ask a psychic whether or not the person is thinking of you.
    If you want spiritual confirmation that someone is thinking about you sexually, consider visiting a psychic. A psychic can use various means of divination and spiritual intuition to help you determine what that person thinks of you. If the psychic confirms their feelings, it’s a good sign they’re thinking of you sexually.[22]
    • What to do next: While you can ask the psychic what to do next, if you really believe this person is thinking of you, the best thing to do is reach out to them. Be bold, and see where it takes you!
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This article was reviewed by Jennifer McVey, Cht and by wikiHow staff writer, Raven Minyard, BA. Jennifer McVey is a Spiritualist, Seer, and the Spiritual Director of Spiritual Answers and Solutions. With more than 22 years of experience, she specializes in manifesting, ghosts and spirit attachments, hypnotherapy, channeling, and spiritually based life coaching. Jennifer has also published 13 Affirmation Image and six Word Search Puzzle books in spirituality and self-help and has produced over 600 audio sessions. This article has been viewed 1,499 times.
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