How to Tell When Your Twin Flame Is Thinking of You Sexually

Learn how to sense & read your twin flame’s sexual energy

Co-authored by Stina Garbis and Glenn Carreau

Last Updated: July 16, 2025 Fact Checked

If you feel like you’ve met your twin flame, you may feel a strong sexual attraction to them—but how can you tell when the feeling is mutual? Twin flames have a profound soul connection. They’re connected by shared experiences, histories, or life paths—and in relationships, their intimate bond is deeply fulfilling. Read on to learn all the signs that your twin flame is thinking of you sexually, from telepathic emotions to physical sensations!

1

You can feel their touch.

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The twin flame connection helps you feel close, even when apart. Does it ever feel like your twin flame is touching you, even when they’re not physically there? If so, it might be their desire and sexual energy manifesting as a feeling of being touched. This can feel gentle or more intense, like they’re running their hands over your body.
- You may also hear their voice, even when you’re apart.
- You might mentally replay previous conversations—or hear your twin flame’s voice as though they’re saying something new.
- Regardless, hearing your twin flame is another sign of their intense desire and connection to you.

2

You feel unexpected bodily sensations.

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Sensations may be your body’s ways of responding to your twin flame. When your twin flame thinks of you sexually, that energy can be reflected in your body. You may even be feeling an echo of what your twin flame feels when they think of you! Sensations include:
- Goosebumps. Goosebumps may represent the sudden influx of energy that comes from your twin flame fantasizing about you.
- Chills down your spine. You may feel shivers down your spine as a reaction to your twin flame’s thoughts. You might also get cold along your upper back, chest, or arms.
- Burning cheeks or ears. Sudden heat around your cheeks and ears is a sign that your twin flame is thinking naughty things (as though you’re unconsciously blushing at their thoughts).
- Itchy eyes. Unexpectedly itchy eyes can be an indicator of your twin flame’s sexual thoughts, but only if you’re not suffering from allergies eye sensitivity.
- Sneezing. You might start sneezing if your twin flame is thinking of you in an erotic way (and, of course, if you’re not already sick or have allergies).
- Stomach flutters, nausea, tingling, and shortness of breath. These are all sensations that your twin flame might be feeling when they think of you sexually (and transmitting to you).

3

You see their dilated pupils.

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Your body gets a boost of oxytocin and dopamine (sometimes called “love hormones”) when you feel attraction to someone, and those hormones cause your pupils to dilate (or grow bigger). So, when your twin flame’s pupils dilate, they're thinking of you sexually.^{[1]
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You mirror each other’s body language.

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Mirroring means unconsciously copying or reflecting one another’s body language. If you turn toward your twin flame, they turn to you, too. When they stare at you, you feel compelled to make eye contact and stare back. This is a subtle sign of the sexual energy between you!^{[2]
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You have erotic dreams about them.

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Dreams are believed to help twin flames connect and communicate. Do you have sexual dreams about your twin flame—whether you’re kissing or making love—or wake up aroused? Dreams signify that your twin flame’s desire is affecting you through the spirit world, pushing you to reach out to them.^{[3]
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- Intimacy between twin flames is often satisfying because they’re naturally perceptive of one another’s needs.

6

You think about them often.

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If you always think of them, your twin flame might be reaching out to you. Do they ever pop up in your thoughts? Do you find yourself reminiscing about them, wondering what they’re up to, or having sexual fantasies about them? It may be a sign from the universe that your twin flame is having intimate thoughts about you, too.^{[4]
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- Thinking about your twin flame often may also be a sign that the two of you will meet again soon!
- You may also catch yourself smiling sometimes, even if you’re not directly thinking about them.
- Your thoughts may feel totally out of context. If there’s no obvious trigger for them, they’re likely caused by your twin flame.

7

Your twin flame suddenly contacts you.

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They may reach out if you’re simultaneously yearning for each other. Does your twin flame ever send a message or call right as you’re daydreaming about them? This indicates they were also fantasizing about you and felt compelled to reach out because of the intense desire between you.
- Romantic relationships with a twin flame are often passionate and tumultuous.
- You may experience on-again, off-again attraction for one another—or your attraction may be so intense that you need to press pause for a while.
- No matter how tumultuous the relationship, twin flames are always drawn back together by their sexual and romantic attraction.

8

You feel a surge of positive energy or yearning.

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Your twin flame’s sexual thoughts may trigger sudden energy surges. When one twin flame has sexual thoughts about the other, it’s believed to cause energy surges. You may inexplicably feel a sudden longing or carnal desire in your gut. On the other hand, you may not necessarily feel sexual energy, but a rush of positivity or joy.
- Regardless, if your twin flame is thinking about you and you desire them too, you’ll feel their energy resonating within your body.

9

You have chemistry with them.

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Chemistry may be more intense with twin flames than normal lovers. In fact, twin flame chemistry can be overwhelming; you may even feel like your surroundings fade away, and there’s nothing but you and your twin flame. You may also feel excited and invigorated in their presence, as though you can never get enough of them.
- Twin flame sexual energy (also known as chemistry) is often so strong it feels spiritual, as though your souls are drawn together.
- The chemistry between twin flames can make it difficult for you to stay away or keep your hands off one another!
- If you’re already intimate with them, it may feel like the best (and most fulfilling) sex of your life; pleasure is thought to intensify between twin flames.

10

You experience telepathic arousal.

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The cosmic connection between twin flames creates psychic intimacy. Did you know that twin flames are believed to have a telepathic connection, and it may even extend to sexual relations that are entirely psychic? If you get erotic thoughts from your twin flame, you may actually be able to take it further and engage in telepathic intimacy.
- Having telepathic intimacy involves visualizing how you would touch your partner if they were there, and feeling your energies becoming one.
- When this happens, you may feel fully linked to your twin flame in mind, body, spirit, and soul.
- It’s believed that twin flames are always together, belonging to the same energetic source and therefore able to have telepathic intimacy.

11

You keep meeting by coincidence.

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The universe may be trying to bring the pair of you together. Do you sometimes think about your twin flame and then abruptly run into them not long after, to the point that it feels uncanny? If so, your twin flame’s desire might be causing your lives to line up, bringing you together physically as well as mentally.
- If you feel attracted or aroused when you meet with your twin flame, that’s an even stronger sign of the sexual energy between you.

12

Your tarot cards reveal your twin flame’s longing.

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Certain tarot cards may signify or encourage sexual connections. If you do a tarot reading for yourself (or have someone do a reading for you) and repeatedly draw cards with sexual content, that’s a cosmic sign that your twin flame is having sexual thoughts about you.^{[5]
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- Temperance
- The Star
- The Ace of Wands
- The Knight of Wands
- The Ace of Pentacles
- The Eight of Swords
- The Four or Swords
- The Three of Cups

13

A butterfly lands on you.

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Butterflies are believed to help transmit energy between people. Butterflies are spiritually significant across many cultures! Because they’re thought to transmit energy, a butterfly landing on you may indicate that your twin flame is thinking of you sexually and sending that energy to you as a sign of their desire for you.^{[6]
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- This is especially true if a butterfly lands on you unexpectedly (in an unusual place or when you’re not trying to stand still or attract one).

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You have a gut feeling.

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Your inner wisdom may send subtle signals about your twin flame. Many of the universe’s strongest messages are totally unconscious and intangible—meaning you can’t see or hear them, but only feel them in your gut. In short, if you have a deep, intuitive feeling that your twin flame is thinking of you sexually, it’s probably true.
- However, you can get confirmation through a psychic. If you have a gut feeling, their readings may reveal that your twin flame is definitely thinking of you sexually!