What to Say When Someone Asks “How Old Do You Think I Am?”

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Funny, flirty, & clever replies when she asks you to guess her age

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Last Updated: June 27, 2024 Fact Checked

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Some say that age is just a number, but guessing someone’s age incorrectly can make them feel bad and kill the conversation. In this article, we’re providing the ultimate list of responses you can use if someone asks, “how old do you think I am?” We’ve also included tips to avoid offending women, as well as clever ways to find out their age without directly asking them.

Best Responses to “How Old Do You Think I Am?”

“In your prime.”
“Around my age.”
“I think you're timeless.”
“In dog years or cat years?”
“You’re cute, sexy, and gorgeous years old.”
“A year older than the age you were last year.”
“Older than a newborn but younger than Gandhi.”

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Funny Replies

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Throw out a witty one-liner to make the other person laugh. If you want to tease someone and lighten the mood, crack a joke about how young they are. Studies show that sharing a laugh together can strengthen your relationship.^{[1]
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Go to source} So, reply in a silly way to relieve any tension and avoid offending the other person.
- 👶 < you < 👵
- In dog years or cat years?
- Younger than my grandma.
- Somewhere between 0 and 40.
- How much will you pay me for answering?
- A year older than the age you were last year.
- Older than a newborn but younger than Gandhi.
- Age doesn’t matter unless you’re cheese or wine.
- Based on your energy levels, I’d guess 10 years old.
- I think you’re younger than the sun, but older than any cloud in the sky.
- I’m not sure how old you are, but I’m old enough to know not to answer that question 🤣

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Clever Replies

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Ask a creative question to get a better idea of how old they are. Even if you’re confident about someone’s age, it’s always a safe bet to learn more about them first. Ask the other person about their hobbies, interests, and memories as a child, or when they graduated school. It’s a great opportunity to ballpark their age, get to know them better, and kickstart a lively conversation!
- What was the model of your first phone?
- What was the first concert you attended?
- What kind of games did you play growing up?
- What was your favorite book series as a child?
- When did you graduate from high school or college?
- What was your favorite movie or TV show as a child?
- Do you know what a pager/walkman/VHS/floppy disk is?
- What was the biggest boy band when you were in school?
- What was a huge fashion trend when you were in middle school?
- What historical event had the biggest impact on you during school?

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Smooth Replies

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Hit back with a flirty reply to make the other person feel desired. Trying to snag a date or take your relationship to the next level? Use any of the following responses to show interest and make the other person feel special. If you’re worried they might take it the wrong way, flash a smile or wink when you deliver your line, or send a flirty emoji to accompany your text.
- Not old at all.
- In your prime.
- Around my age.
- Grown and sexy.
- Younger than me.
- I think you’re timeless.
- The perfect age for me.
- Who cares? You’re a dime!
- You’re cute, sexy, and gorgeous years old.
- I’m not big on guessing games, but I’d say twenty-fine.
- You look like a student, but you seem wiser too. Can you give me a clue? 😉

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Polite Replies

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Respond in a short and straightforward way if you don’t know what to say. When in doubt, don’t throw a number out! In America, it’s considered rude to ask a woman her age, and you could offend her if you guess older.^{[2]
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Research source} If your relationship is strictly platonic, stick with the following lines to be respectful:
- Why do you ask?
- Honestly, I can’t tell.
- Sorry, I have no idea.
- I’ve learned not to answer this question 😂
- Respectfully, I’m going to pass on your question.
- No offense, but I don’t think I know you well enough.
- Wow, you’re really putting me on the spot right now 😅
- I’m not sure, but I’m really bad at guessing other people’s ages.

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Currently, it’s a TikTok trend to post videos with the caption “how old do you think I am?” Users want strangers to guess if they look older or younger than their age, especially since Gen-Zers believe they’re “aging like milk,” or aging poorly compared to previous generations.^{[3]
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When most people ask this question, they’re hoping to hear they look younger than their real age. Women, in particular, feel pressured to look young—even as they get older.^{[4]
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Research source} So, it’s especially rude if you guess older than their age. If you’re unsure, do not answer or consider low-balling.

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Looking for a fun way to see how others perceive you? Take a mental age test or a quiz that guesses your age! If someone asks you “how old do you think I am?” and you don’t want to respond, text them this link to take off the heat.

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