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You’re driving around with a guy when he reaches over and touches your leg. Is it an accident? Is he making a move? Is he just being friendly? Chances are he's flirting with you, but there are other reasons a guy might put his hand on your thigh, too. We’ll fill you in on all the possibilities, as well as show you how to respond based on what you want from the situation. Then, we’ll clue you in to other signs he’s interested so that you can read his signals loud and clear.
Things You Should Know
- Guys often place their hands on your thigh to show you that they’re attracted to you, or to test your reaction before making a move.
- Men might also touch your thigh as a show of sympathy or support, or to communicate that they feel protective of you.
- Sometimes, guys might touch your leg just as a friendly gesture, especially if you’ve known them for a long time and haven’t shown romantic interest.
Steps
Expert Q&A
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Remember that consent from both people is always necessary for any sort of physical touch or advance.Thanks
References
- ↑ Cher Gopman. Relationship Coach. Expert Interview
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/ca/blog/life-refracted/201706/52-ways-show-i-love-you-protecting
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/ca/basics/flirting
- ↑ John Keegan. Dating Coach. Expert Interview
- ↑ Cher Gopman. Dating Coach. Expert Interview
- ↑ https://psycnet.apa.org/record/2018-34832-002
- ↑ https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/11489026/
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/ca/blog/fulfillment-any-age/202202/4-ways-more-touch-can-strengthen-relationship
- ↑ https://bcmj.org/blog/science-holding-hands
- ↑ Cher Gopman. Relationship Coach. Expert Interview
- ↑ Cher Gopman. Dating Coach. Expert Interview
- ↑ John Keegan. Dating Coach. Expert Interview
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/ca/blog/meet-catch-and-keep/201408/how-spot-flirt
- ↑ https://www.scienceofpeople.com/male-body-language/
- ↑ https://www.scienceofpeople.com/male-body-language/