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Whether you just started dating someone new or you’ve been together for years, switching up your kissing technique is always fun. We’ve compiled a list of some fun ways you can surprise your partner while you’re saying hello or during a makeout session. Read through some of these techniques for the next time you see your boo.

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  1. When you’re making out, gently bite one of his lips or even the tip of his tongue. If he jumps back in shock, you might have bitten too hard! If he’s into it, though, you can sprinkle your new technique into future makeout sessions.[12]
    • To make sure you don’t hurt him, gently bite down with the tip of your two front teeth. Avoid chomping or actually biting, since that could seriously harm his mouth.
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WikiFoxChaser795
What is the purpose of people kissing? What does it mean when people kiss? Why do people like to do it? I spent too long thinking about the actual mechanics of just pushing your mouth repeatedly against someone else's mouth and got weirded out...need someone to explain it to me.
Lauren Sanders
Lauren Sanders
Matchmaker & Dating Coach
People kiss in many different contexts for different reasons. For example, if someone kisses you on the first date, it could mean they are interested in pursuing a potential relationship with you, because if they feel that comfortable---comfortable enough to exchange saliva and to get in your personal space, and allow you to get in their personal space as well---they definitely can see some potential for a future with you. But again, some people are just touchy-feely.

Kissing can also serve as an expression of affection. I'd say that if somebody is willing to kiss you on the first date, one of their primary love languages is probably physical touch, because not everybody does that in the very beginning, but people who are very touchy-feely tend to have physical touch as their primary love language.
Eddy Baller
Eddy Baller
Dating Coach
I think there are two sides to that question: 1) How can you tell if a woman wants a man to kiss her? and 2) How can you tell if a man wants to kiss a woman? If you want to know if a woman wants a man to kiss her, the pause where you have a lot of sexual tension is probably the best indication. If she just stares into his eyes and smiles and allows herself to feel butterflies, hopefully that's going to initiate the same response in him. Usually people will mirror each other in these kinds of situations. If he has some balls and he understands the situation, then he might just go for it. Obviously, if you're trying to get somebody else to do something, there's always that risk of they're not gonna understand completely, or if he's really shy, maybe he'll look away and then break that tension and the moment is gone. But that's the main thing—locking your eyes together, smiling, and just pausing. Take it slowly, you don't have to rush to anything.

If you're wondering how to tell if a man wants a woman to kiss him, he's probably going to be looking at her lips and awkwardly smiling a lot. But either way, there should be some sexual tension—you're looking at each other, you feel this thing, this energy or chemistry. There’s usually a lot of smiling going on and looking between the eyes and the lips. That's a good sign he wants to kiss.

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This article was co-authored by Eddy Baller and by wikiHow staff writer, Hannah Madden. Eddy Baller is a men’s dating coach and founder of Conquer and Win, a Vancouver-based service that helps men break free from loneliness and meet the women they truly want. Since 2011, he has coached men to overcome approach anxiety, spark real attraction, and build meaningful relationships—without relying on dating apps, gimmicks, or luck. Through both online sessions and in-person coaching, Eddy gives live feedback as clients meet women in everyday places, making confidence feel natural and conversations effortless. His mission is simple: to help men get into meaningful, long-term relationships. This article has been viewed 205,935 times.
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Different guys enjoy different types of kisses. Talk to your special guy and experiment with him to figure out what he likes best. Most guys enjoy kissing on the mouth. Once you’re comfortable with light kisses on the lips, try moving on to deeper and more intimate kisses, like the French kiss. If you’re both bored with kissing on the lips, try kissing him in other places, like on his forehead, cheek, or shoulder. Turn up the heat by kissing him in more intimate areas, such as on his neck, collarbone, or chest. If he’s cool with it, don’t be afraid to use your tongue a little or even give him a light nibble.

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