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The thumb thing is a subtle way of flirting that involves gently rubbing your thumb on the person you’re interested in. While you usually rub your thumb on their hand, there are other body parts you can do the thumb thing on, like the shoulders and waist. In this article, we explain what the thumb thing is and what it means, how to do it, and more. We also enlisted the help of matchmakers and dating experts to give you advice on how to flirt respectfully.
What is the thumb thing in relationships?
The thumb thing is when partners interlock hands and one of them (usually the male) gently rubs their thumb on the other’s hand. The thumb thing may be done consciously or unconsciously and is typically a sign that someone is attracted to you. You can also do it on other body parts, like the shoulder, waist, and thighs.
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- ↑ https://psychcentral.com/lib/the-power-of-touch
- ↑ Candice Mostisser. Relationship Coach. Expert Interview
- ↑ Maria Avgitidis. Matchmaker & Dating Expert. Expert Interview
- ↑ Mark Rosenfeld. Dating & Relationship Coach. Expert Interview
- ↑ Cher Gopman. Dating Coach. Expert Interview
- ↑ https://www.seventeen.com/love/dating-advice/a37820/chill-ways-to-flirt-with-your-crush/
- ↑ https://www.seventeen.com/love/dating-advice/a37820/chill-ways-to-flirt-with-your-crush/