I learned the average age for a first kiss is 15...
I'm 25 and haven't had my first kiss yet. I can't help but feel like I'm behind :( I feel hopless about my love life. Am I just doomed to be alone forever? How do I have my first kiss?
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Hey, I'm 32 and I didn't have my first kiss until I was 26. It was with my very first girlfriend and she's now been my wife for 2 years! She makes me incredibly happy and I'm so grateful to have her in my life. It's easy to compare yourself to other people but know that trying to treat averages like guidelines for how to live your life will just make you miserable. Everyone goes through life at their own pace and when the time is right you'll have your first kiss.
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While 15 might be the average age according to some sources, there are plenty of people who were older than that when they had their first kiss. If you haven't had one yet, it doesn't mean you're behind and you're definitely not doomed to be alone forever! Try not to compare yourself to others. Everyone has their own timeline and journey. When you meet someone you connect with, your first kiss will happen naturally—and it will be worth the wait.
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I'm no expert, but it depends on how you feel. If you want to kiss him, then try to do it in private, or only around trusted friends who won't go around telling everyone if you don't want them to. As a middle schooler with a gf, I'm kinda going through the same thing, mainly peer pressure. Not that I don't wanna kiss, but it's the same thing. If you don't want to, just tell him. He most likely will not get offended if you just tell him honestly.
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I really want to kiss my bf but I don't know what to do. I'm not supposed to know but he wants to too. I'm scared to start it first but at the same time, I really want to on Valentine's Day or his birthday or my birthday. I've never done it before and neither has he. Plus, I'm his first girlfriend and I don't want to mess this up. Helpp
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Hey! I'm in the exact same boat! I'm supposed to see my boyfriend tomorrow and neither of us have had that first kiss, so I am losing my mind. When he first asked to kiss me, I chickened out and said no and later regreted it. I'm just scared that it won't go well for either of us. Anyone got any tips other than being alone?
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Im no expert but u should probably find a time where your both alone, and you feel like kissing. Other than that, idk girl. Good luck!
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For your first kiss, take it easy and build up to the moment. Start with a little bit of light physical contact. You might start by massaging her hand, then moving up her arm. You're basically building up the level of intimacy and also seeing how comfortable she is, because if she's not comfortable with this physical touch, she's not going to be comfortable with you kissing her either.
To look for an opportunity for your first kiss, wait for a pause where there's a lot of romantic tension—you're looking into each other's eyes and there’s that kind of awkward smile when you're looking at each other. You might just want to go for it then! Reach over behind her head gently or lean up to reach her and then go for a kiss. You're going to find out very quickly if it's going to work or not because she's either going to turn her head or move away or respond well and lean into it.
Usually in that kind of moment, it's easy to feel that romantic tension. You're both looking at each other's eyes very intently. You're both smiling. There's a pause. Nobody's saying anything. That's a great time to just go for your first kiss!
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To look for an opportunity for your first kiss, wait for a pause where there's a lot of romantic tension—you're looking into each other's eyes and there’s that kind of awkward smile when you're looking at each other. You might just want to go for it then! Reach over behind her head gently or lean up to reach her and then go for a kiss. You're going to find out very quickly if it's going to work or not because she's either going to turn her head or move away or respond well and lean into it.
Usually in that kind of moment, it's easy to feel that romantic tension. You're both looking at each other's eyes very intently. You're both smiling. There's a pause. Nobody's saying anything. That's a great time to just go for your first kiss!
If you like someone romantically, and they like you, and you're just not feeling ready for that first kiss yet, I would recommend that you say, "I find you attractive, but I'm not ready for that yet." It's a very simple sentence, but it still indicates you're attracted to them so that they don't feel rejected. You're honoring your own boundary by saying, "I'm just not ready for that yet."
If you're not interested in them romantically, you just need to use your words. Politely decline by saying something like, "I'm sorry, but I don't want to," and then just go on with your day. And if you need to, you can say you're not interested in a romantic relationship right now or you're not interested in a romantic relationship with them ever, whichever is applicable. But if you're declining a kiss from someone, I'm assuming you've been on a date or something like that, and I definitely recommend that you be polite and gracious with the person.
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If you're not interested in them romantically, you just need to use your words. Politely decline by saying something like, "I'm sorry, but I don't want to," and then just go on with your day. And if you need to, you can say you're not interested in a romantic relationship right now or you're not interested in a romantic relationship with them ever, whichever is applicable. But if you're declining a kiss from someone, I'm assuming you've been on a date or something like that, and I definitely recommend that you be polite and gracious with the person.
Timing for intimacy is so overrated. Don’t listen to the hype. What age does it really matter when you have your first kiss? Do you really know what you’re doing in high school when some folks are out there locking lips? Take your time, find someone you like and make it special. If you’ve waited until the age of 26 let’s find the right person to share That first kiss with. Take the timeline out of it and focus on the right moment. You’ll get there.
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What! 15?? Who cares about that statistic... Everybody's situation is different. I'm 28 and I haven't had my first yet either, nor do I even think I want it! Don't pay mind to shallow societal 'statistics,' instead understand what you yourself want and if you want to be with somebody and kiss, do so under purely your own volition.
I went thru that mindset too not far from your same age, but I found out how toxic that mentality was. I hope you can understand it really isn't worth chasing society's "you should be here by now" ideals, they're horrible and just make you feel worse about yourself. Reject society, embrace your own knowledge & power!
I wish you the very best, I know this isn't easy. Self-comparison is just a rabbit hole to heck, honestly. Remember that it's okay if the anxiety isn't gonna disappear overnight, just keep what's said in mind.
PS: I feel strongly enough about this that you motivated me to create an account!
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I went thru that mindset too not far from your same age, but I found out how toxic that mentality was. I hope you can understand it really isn't worth chasing society's "you should be here by now" ideals, they're horrible and just make you feel worse about yourself. Reject society, embrace your own knowledge & power!
I wish you the very best, I know this isn't easy. Self-comparison is just a rabbit hole to heck, honestly. Remember that it's okay if the anxiety isn't gonna disappear overnight, just keep what's said in mind.
PS: I feel strongly enough about this that you motivated me to create an account!
I feel that, I'm 15 and my friends are joking and being somewhat rude about the fact that I'm 15 and haven't kissed anyone. Don't get me wrong I love my boyfriend, I just don't know the right time, I wish it could be easier. I trust my boyfriend, I just need advice on when the right time is to kiss.
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I had my first kiss when I was 13 and tbh it was awful. He pressed his lips HARD against mine and kept them suuper stiff, it was so awkward. I didn't kiss again until I was in my 20s and in college and it was MUCH better. I think when you get older people are more mature and have a better sense of their bodies, so the kiss will feel better. Having your first kiss in your teens is not all it's cracked up to be.
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One thing that sometimes works is saying something flirty, even a few days after like, "Geez, I feel like that kiss was so awkward," Try making a joking apology, and then follow up with something like, "Although, we can always try again and make it less awkward," This works for me, so I would recommend it.
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well when I had my first kiss my girlfriend broke up with me the next day for some reason help but yea just try not to make anything to awkward lol
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If you had your first kiss with someone you really like, this is exciting! If you feel like you are ready, you can enter a relationship with that person. My advice is do not make it awkward unnecessarily. Just talk! If you find that you don't like that person anymore after kissing them, then talk to them and explain that maybe you're not ready or find that you're not interested. If someone kissed you that you never liked or never wanted to be kissed by, notify someone you trust and work it out, and talk to the person and say that kissing without consent is unacceptable. Otherwise, this is great! Just let it happen and embrace the natural!
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I would give you advice but I had my first kiss at 11 in a spin the bottle game and I'll always regret it, sooo
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Honestly, I don't know. But a reasonable choice would be 10+ because that's when I started dating and I have been with my boyfriend for 8 years now!
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You NEVER have to kiss anyone if you don’t feel like it. Don’t feel pressure or behind. Take your time- you have your whole life ahead of you don’t do something you’re not ready for. When it’s right you’ll know!
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I am 17 I actually like French kiss I have a boyfriend I was with him for 1year right now, at Monday, we can see each other and talk, suddenly one day he asked me to kiss hem in the mouth,then I replied to hem,I said no then after a few minutes I told hem ok….sorry for writing him hem,ok and then I told him which kind of kiss? And he said FRECH KISS, and then my face turned red😳 then I told him with no tongue ok ? He told me how?I told him just go fast do it fast
Then we kissed for 4 minutes 😳😳😳, I went home then liked the kiss….bye!
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Then we kissed for 4 minutes 😳😳😳, I went home then liked the kiss….bye!
hi sorry if im late for this, but its okay to feel like that, if you're not ready, you should take your time
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I think it might help to not be so desperate about it. Focus your attention on other things (hobbies, interests, etc.) as well as looking for someone. Don't feel like you're behind! First kisses are different for everyone. (Lowkey I actually don't want to have my first kiss until I'm married.)
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Agree with most of what's being said... Life is to be enjoyed and making good memories. Keep in mind, it's ok to push yourself a bit for what you want, just don't force it. BTW, DO NOT use Chapstick, that stuff becomes obsessive and addictive as much as using a puffer. Just lightly wet your lips by turning them in towards each other or very discretely using the tip of your tongue. You can practice that stuff in you own privacy very easily. Use what nature gave you.
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Its ok tbh my first kiss at 14 was a mistake so wait till you find someone who will be right for you and not someone you wish you never did nun with.
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Don't worry, you're not the only one in the world. I promise you this: there are other people your age that is feeling exactly the same. You should just trust that your first kiss will come. As the saying goes: Good things come to those who wait. Everything happens for a specific reason.
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hiya im freaking out rn basically im in middle school and EVERYONE IN MY YEAR is forcing me and my bf to kiss. im rlly scared cus idk how to kiss but i know he wants to kiss me and everyone in my entire grade would be annoyed if i said i dont want to kiss him. i kinda wanna kiss me tho but idk how tf to do it! all my friends r giving me tips but this is so hard! someone pls help me!
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DONT LET ANYONE TELL YOU WHAT TO DO. Espiecially with romantic/sexual acts involving a lack of consent and kids, its a crime in most of the world.
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don't feel pressure if you don't want to kiss him you don't have too! it will be forgotten about also don't worry about being unaware of how to kiss it only has to be a short simple peck at your age :)
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Thats what people call peer pressure im also in middle shool and have a bf,and everyone id saying we should hold hands and kiss(we are taking it slow cuz its our first relationship),if they are annoyed then they arnt real friends,
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Don't kiss him if you don't want to. As a highschooler I can GUARANTEE that any embarrassment from saying no will disappear like magic. PS. if he tries to force you its a MAJOR red flag and u should move on. There are many fish in the sea
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yea trust me when i say i dont have the best experience with ppl forcing me to do stuff with my ex(p.s it.was.HORRIBLE) but yea what she said!
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I want to kiss my gf and am in middle school as well but my gf get scared and says someone will see us and walks away I plan on asking her to come to the bathroom and then just being like "Will you kiss me" so yeah
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Hey! There is no "being behind" in life when it comes to love. Some people fall in love with their high school sweetheart and then end up divorcing just a few years later. Others meet their soulmate when they're on the older side and cherish them for the rest of their life. You'll find love when the time is right for you. Sometimes it's nice to be older because you'll have more of your life sorted out and will have a better idea of who you are and what you want in a partner. The kiss will come!
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The winter dance for my school is coming up, and im taking my girlfriend. Ive kissed her on the cheek before, she was comfortable with that. Ive asked her about a normal kiss, and she only said "If its the right moment and noone sees, you may". But I have no idea how to kiss! I really like her, we never argue, and our conversations flow endlessly and effortlessly. This will be both of our first kiss! And I need to leave a good impression for a kiss, so she really knows how much I enjoy her company. Somebody please help me!
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u got this dude, trust. take it slow, and since she's okay w it ull be fine. just make sure ur in a secluded spot where no is gonna run into u and remember it doesn't have to be perfect. just don't be rought and stuff
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Just find sometime when she’s alone (not the dance) and ask for consent. You can tell if she wants to kiss you by watching for her face getting close to yours. If you see that, ask here if she’d like a kiss. It shouldn’t be any longer than four or five seconds.
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i dont get winter formals and dances here but we get christmas parties!, u could go outside or private corners (tip: go outside much much more safer)
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Listen, I have a crush and I am 16, Haven't had my first kiss, had not confessed my feelings because of rejection. Well he's nice to me since year 7 to year 11 right now, and he calls me "MY GOAT", "Bless ur heart" and calls me a "Legend". Hey someone help me is "Bless ur heart" a bad thing?
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I read that it's bad in the area that my book takes place, so hopefully not, for your sake!
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Y'all I'm in a tough spot there's this guy I like at my school and I'm feeling some like feelings coming back from him while I just don't know how to like tell him without it being awkward you know and also like go to get him in private
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tell him! and just remember if he doesn't like u back he doesn't deserve u, and do it in private. try not to make it awkward + make sure u smile.
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another thing to add: jst don't think u r doomed or ur never going to find love dw there r other fish in the sea! 🐟❤
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No, you won’t be alone forever. But NEVER force yourself to kiss someone you don’t like.
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I feel you. I’m in the same boat at 31, and also a virgin (go figure). Stick in there, we’ll get this someday!
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I'm 55 and it is my biggest regret in life. I can say that because I fell not too long ago when I was sick . As I lay on the floor and knew no one would find me for weeks if I died, my biggest regrets were never having kissed someone and not having a clean home at the moment. It's isolating and something people take for granted. Sorry to be a downer, but there is such a thing as being too late. I put myself out there, I went to counseling because it bothered me so much. If you're 15 I wouldn't sweat it. If you're 30, it's different.
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Kind of the same situation here, I don't see my girlfriend too often because I move around. Texting/calling is a great way to keep in touch, and it will make sure that when you see your love again you'll have an unforgettable time.
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I was gonna say I haven't had mine yet but I have had my first kiss (15 here, had it at 12). Honestly "averages" for things mean jack nothing. Me and my then gf would just give each other short and small kisses when we were chilling together, and 12 year old me would say there were sparks. The important thing isn't when you have your first kiss, it's who you have it with. Just remember that, as long as it feels right and there's mutual attraction, that's what matters, not your age.
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You have to find someone that you love first, it's not worth it to just kiss some random person you don't feel any real connection to.After that it comes pretty easily.
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Don't rush! You have your life in front of you. Wait for the right person to come along, and it will have been worth it to wait.
Protect your own heart.
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Protect your own heart.
I know guys and girls who've had their first kiss from anywhere from 12 to mid 30's. It might seem hopeless, but just keep your head up. Nobody, NOBODY is doomed to be alone, you just have to commit to keep looking.
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I’ve known this girl for 2 weeks and the feeling is reciprocal. I don’t have many good opportunities, so does anybody have ideas for quick getaways for the first kiss?
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Hey, you're not alone. I'm 24 and I haven't had my first kiss yet either. We're still really young, and it's not helpful to get down in the dumps about not having had our first kiss yet. Your first kiss will happen when it happens, and if you can make peace with that, that will make you feel a lot better.
If you want to take an a more active approach to getting your first kiss, try putting yourself out there more. Download some dating apps, join some local hobby groups or clubs, and work on yourself. Taking care of yourself will make you feel better, which will help your confidence and make you more attractive to others. Good luck!
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If you want to take an a more active approach to getting your first kiss, try putting yourself out there more. Download some dating apps, join some local hobby groups or clubs, and work on yourself. Taking care of yourself will make you feel better, which will help your confidence and make you more attractive to others. Good luck!
It's easy to have your first kiss if you don't care who it's with. But since you are 25 and haven't had your first kiss yet, that tells me that you DO care about who your first kiss is with, and that's totally okay! In fact, I think that it's a good thing that you haven't had your first kiss yet. You are waiting to have your first kiss with someone who you are truly in love with, and I think that's great. There are definitely people out there who kiss a lot when they're young and don't even enjoy it. Just stay true to who you are and don't worry about when you'll have your first kiss. You've waited this long. You might as well enjoy the non-kissed life while you can still live it.
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My crush is moving away next year in 7th grade, and i am planning to kiss him before he leaves, but im not very confident
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good luck, jst ask him dont jst be like fast and stuff bc he might not feel comfortable but i hope it goes well tho!
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I’m not a expert it just happens and if he feels like the one go for it honestly life is about taking chances
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no youre not because theres so many others like you that feel the same way, itll take time to find your person. good things come to those who wait!!!
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No I don't think you doomed to be alone forever.Just get to know the person and if they feel right to you and you guys been together for a while just lean in and kiss them.
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I really want to kiss this girl at school, I am dating her but idk how to go about it. We flirt and stuff over text and in person, but idk how to get an opportunity.
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I might be able to help because I myself have a gf, if you want to kiss her at school, try to not be around a lot of people. Maybe try holding her hand, maybe at lunch or something. Then, what I do, is just look at her, if she holds eye contact, then you can try moving in for a kiss. I would recommend a kiss on the cheek to start. Or just flat-out ask her about kissing.
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yk its fine... my mom didnt have hers till 27 so youve gotta find the right person.
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Honestly, if you haven't found someone you truly love, don't do it. If you have, ASK! people really appreciate you respecting their boundaries.
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I’m a girl and if you like one, go for it! I would definitely want someone to say “ I rly like u” that would make me smile and you never know, maybe they like you back!!
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I have a friend I really... love, perhaps. I think... we hold hands a lot and he makes me happy, possibly more than anything. I asked to kiss him today (walking in the park together, holding hands) but he said he didn't know, and I'm almost glad of it because perhaps it wasn't right. But I do want to kiss him, some time. I don't know how. I love him.
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No I believe that there is someone for everyone you just haven't found that person yet
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Don’t worry. Everyone is different and develops at different paces. You will have your first kiss eventually, so don’t stress about it and live your life. ❤️
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I had my first kiss with a girl who shattered me and feel like I’m starting from ground zero. Kind of scared of making any approach to anyone. Help?
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Honestly, I get it man! You don't have to make an approach if you really don't want to. Start building your trust again with someone else and then try again. Also, that first kiss doesn't have to count! My first boyfriend was someone who loved me, but he didn't know how to be a good boyfriend, so I broke up with him 2 days later. But did I count that as my first relationship? No! Because it didn't count to me. Your first kiss should be one you enjoy with a person you love. If you don't want it to count, then *POOF!!!* it doesn't count!
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No idea
Sorry to hear thay you don't know what to do.Maybe have you first kiss 😘 with one of them?
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Sorry to hear thay you don't know what to do.Maybe have you first kiss 😘 with one of them?
Hi. My boyfriend says he wants to kiss me and he wants me to give him s hickey, I told him i want to do the same things but I have no idea how to do ether please help me
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lol same. i would hate to have a hickey personaly tho bc it would be hard to hide from my parents
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Mate you will find someone that's you like and they like you back! Your first kiss will come when it does!
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Everyone grows and experiences things at their own pace and I honestly think waiting longer makes it much more special
Voted: 👎 No
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I learned the average age for a first kiss is 15, but everyone’s journey is unique. Some experience it earlier, others later—and that’s perfectly normal. What matters most is comfort, consent, and genuine connection. Milestones happen at different times, so there’s no rush—your moment will come naturally.
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Never feel like you're behind for not following the average time when everyone else does, especially when it comes to love.
Voted: 👎 No
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You aren't doomed! People do things at their own pace, and if you feel like now you're looking for that, a kiss, then WikiHow has lots of articles to help in the relationship section!
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i would think about if you like one of them more or if you like someones looks over there personality.
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I'd join a dating app or two. Go on a few dates until you find a good partner. To ease into kissing, first start with a little peck on the cheek, then ease into more serious stuff. After the cheek, maybe a quick peck on the lips, then, when you're comfortable, do normal lip kisses.
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I have a crush and others have said he likes me to for……well…….resons that me not saying but I want to kiss him before high school but I can’t seem to find the right moment to ask and well he is one of my best friends and we get along ok but please gib advice ☺️😊
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It's fine man some of my got kissed already I want to kiss some but I also get grossed out easily so I don't want to
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honestly? that's considering 15 yearolds rn.. who aren't exactly the smartest people ever
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I think its completely fine I haven't yet I mean sometimes boys are just annoying or you haven't found the right one yet, you cant be "behind" because there is no right or wrong age.
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Honestly I have a bf but I don't know how to go About the kissing stuff I'm really shy to do that and he always looked at my lips pls how do I go About this
Voted: 👍 Yes
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Its fine. Kiss is not everything. When you were a baby, you received a lot of kisses from parents and might still be receiving. The next part should start after marriage. So be relaxed. God didn't create you for just kisses from illegal partners. Do it legally; hopefully you will enjoy it.
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me and my whole friend group all had our first kiss by 12-16 (i had mine ad my 14 birthday party ;) we arnt even popular were all band and theater kids...highschool backstage during musicals is where 3 of my friends has their first kiss LOL
Voted: 👍 Yes
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lol i sing dance, and act and i would love to have my first kiss backstage but there are only 2 guys in my high schooltheater department and they are both gay. oh the problems of going to a tiny school
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um, I need help. There is this guy at my school and I love him and he loves me too. I wan't to kiss him but I only see him at school, and my friend are always around. what should I do to not get caught?? pls help me! 😅
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maybe find some time alone together in a quiet place in ur school that could help
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Depends on what kind of first kiss you want to have. And whatever first kiss you want to have is valid and up to you.
Always dreamed of a romantic first kiss, like out of movie? Then you'll probably have to find someone you can fall in love with (and have them love you back), and then find a nice, secluded spot and have a sweet and dreamy kiss.
Just want to make out with someone? If you're willing to go to a club or download some apps, you can likely find a stranger to kiss you on the edges of the dance floor or meet up with you for a make out sesh.
And there are plenty of other scenarios in between! Good luck.
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Always dreamed of a romantic first kiss, like out of movie? Then you'll probably have to find someone you can fall in love with (and have them love you back), and then find a nice, secluded spot and have a sweet and dreamy kiss.
Just want to make out with someone? If you're willing to go to a club or download some apps, you can likely find a stranger to kiss you on the edges of the dance floor or meet up with you for a make out sesh.
And there are plenty of other scenarios in between! Good luck.
first of all, how do you know that it was that day? Second of all, how did it go? I hope it was a good first kiss, but as I've told other people, if it wasn't a good first kiss, it doesn't have to count! If you don't want it too, then it doesn't!
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go on a date hang out with a couple guys and one will come your way when your ready. you just have to wait for the right guy don't rush it
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no no no, its not like that. its just that, meet more people often. and try to explore. along the way, you will meet your significant other for sure.
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Aww it’s fine! I haven’t had my first kiss also lol! Here’s some tips maybe?: find someone you like, maybe a friend or someone you know, ask them out, if they say no then go find another lucky person, if they say yes then maybe kiss or something? (Idk if that helped)
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umm that was kinda rude and ppl do things at a diff pace plus, u gotta also know if the OTHER person is comfortable aswell
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nah i didnt INFACT i have never had my kiss b4 INFACT i think they r quite gross but don't start an online war with me it was the guy with the chicken head who said it!! 😜✌
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emm its not that simple u cant jst go off to the the streets and puck out some random person and bloomin' kiss them! u gotta know someone first
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Reader Tips from How to Prepare for Your First Kiss
It is completely okay to be nervous. Your first kiss probably feels like a very big deal, and there's nothing wrong with that. Just know that you've got this and your anxiety will dissipate as you get locked into the kiss.
Don't try to "steal" a kiss by going in for it out of nowhere. Make sure the other person feels comfortable and ask for consent if you aren't positive they're going to be into it.
Don't just touch lips. Embrace your partner by hugging them and pulling them in close. Be gentle, but confident.
Reader Tips from How to Kiss Someone for the First Time
If you know the other person likes you but the two of you are just too nervous to make the first move, there's nothing wrong with using a "game" as an excuse to push the moment. Seven Minutes in Heaven, Spin the Bottle, and Truth or Dare are all great excuses to smooch!
Test the waters by brushing up against your crush or throwing your arm around the back of their chair. If they lean into it and touch you back, it's a big sign that they're into you and would be open to a kiss.
It may seem weird to ask for permission, but it's important to make sure that the person is ok with kissing you. If you aren't absolutely positive they're down to kiss, ask for consent.
Smile before you go in to kiss them. It may seem like a small thing, but it'll really turn the energy on the moment up.
Reader Tips from How to Have a Memorable First Kiss
Even if you "screw up" on your first kiss and it isn't exactly what you wanted to happen, it won't matter in the end. A passionate kiss between two people who are into one another is always a good thing, and the kiss itself will be so exciting that the rest of it won't matter.
If you're super nervous about how everything is going to go, don't be. Trust me. No matter how everything goes down, you will look back on your first kiss fondly as an adult. It's pretty impossible to forget a moment like this.
Just be brave and gentle. Everything else will fall into place nicely if you're courageous enough to go for the kiss and gentle enough to avoid overwhelming your partner.
