How do you get to know a girl that you like?

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Maria Avgitidis
Maria Avgitidis
Matchmaker & Dating Expert
04/29/25 10:10pm
The best way to get to know a girl is to just talk to her. Break the ice by asking her what her plans are for the weekend, or commenting on the surroundings if you’re at a social event together. If she opens up and keeps the conversation going, she might be interested in getting to know you, too.
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wikiHow Editorial Team
04/29/25 9:36pm
If you want to get to know a girl you like, try connecting with her through conversation. Talking and asking each other interesting questions is a great way to grow closer in a natural, low-key way. Here are some example questions you can use to start a convo and keep it going:
  • What's your favorite show to binge-watch?
  • What songs are you into right now?
  • Where in the world do you feel most comfortable and happy?
  • What’s your favorite vacation memory from your childhood?
  • What’s the weirdest things you’ve ever bought?
  • What do you value most in a friend?
  • What are you super passionate about right now?
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Itsss Amyyyy!
04/30/25 2:44am
Look good and have hygiene. Approach up to her and crack some jokes! Get to know her friends so that you can have your friend and her friends try setting her and you up together! Raise your eyebrows you will look attractive! Good luck! :)
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