How to Behave Like Blair Waldorf

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Blair Waldorf, the queen bee of the Upper East Side, New York. She's beautiful,rich,and smart, but her attitude is what really stands out. She's manipulative and always gets what she wants, but that's what makes her entertaining and determined. Let's see if you can be like her.

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Always be cool and composed. Blair never acts silly or messy, and she never babbles endlessly. Just stay calm and talk in a normal pace.
. Blair always has the perfect thing to say to anyone that insults her, right away. Make sure what you say is quick, witty, and makes total sense. Here's a tip: you have to hit the opponent where it hurts the most. Find out what makes them squirm,and use that in a comeback. Don't let anyone get away with insulting you. Being quick witted and smart is always respected. If for some reason you can't think of a good comeback on the spot, stare your opponent down. Give a tiny eye roll, smirk, and look them up and down. This would make them feel insecure without you doing anything. Then you would have won the battle.

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Be aloof, interesting, and secretive. Make sure you have at least one person who you can trust. People will want to get close to you to find out the details of your life. Don't give it to them straight away. Keep them waiting and they'll never leave.
Never appear nervous. Whether it's grades, or talking to a new boy, always be up for a challenge and don't be shy or weak.
Have tons of confidence. Learn to be able to walk up to a random group of strangers and introduce yourself.
Just remember though: this may not always end well on your part.
If you look fierce, it'll help you believe you ARE fierce.
They should know that it shouldn't happen again.

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Can we have more Gossip Girl? I’m obsessed! And how will I look pretty if I’m tall taller than all the boys in my grade?

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I'm not sure if we will have more gossip girl mainly because the director said that there will be a reboot or new season, but it's been almost 8 years, so it's highly doubtful by now. As for your Blair Waldorf issue, Blair is confident whenever so it doesn't matter whether you're tall or short, you should also be confident. Also, just because you want to be like Blair doesn't mean you need a boy; remember, she did some of her best work alone.

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I want to make a commitment to acting like Blair. Should I start my own blog for my local school?

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I would highly recommend thinking long and hard about doing so because if you have seen Gossip Girl, then you know what being the head of the website did to Dan. It went way too far, and people began to misuse it. Also, this is just a show, and just 'cause Dan got away with doing all of this doesn't mean you will too. For example, no one caught him until he was an adult, but some might catch you. Just think before doing.

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Do your best in everything. Remember a quote from Blair in one of the GG books: "Destiny is for losers. You have to make things happen." Believe it, because it's true.

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Be a fighter. If someone gets you down, or ignores you, don't just give up and go with it, fight back.

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Always have secrets. Secrets are what make you interesting.

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Warnings

Do NOT drink too much. Blair drinks occasionally to be classy, not trashy.

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Do NOT develop an eating disorder just because Blair had one in the first few episodes! She got over it.

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Do NOT overdo the mean thing; you'll soon have no friends left. Be tasteful.

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