How to Attract a Virgo Man As a Scorpio Woman

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Last Updated: May 24, 2024 Fact Checked

You know what they say—opposites attract. As a Scorpio woman with your eye on a Virgo guy, that's good news for you! He's a flexible earth sign while you're a stable water sign, but once the two of you lock in on a common goal, nothing can stand in your way.^{[1]
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Dress in simple, classic clothes.

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You'll turn a Virgo's eye with a clean, well-put-together look. A Virgo man is typically attracted to a woman wearing neat, classic clothing that fits well and suits her figure.^{[2]
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Expert Interview} As a Scorpio, you tend to have an intuition for how to best dress for any occasion—put it to work here! You might prefer to vamp it up a little, especially on a date, but with a Virgo guy, keep it a little more subtle.^{[3]
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- For example, if you know you're going to cross paths with him, you might wear a V-neck sweater and knee-length A-line skirt with some cute ballet flats.
- Add a unique accessory that has a story behind it or reveals something about your personality—he'll be drawn to it and want to know more about it. For example, you might have a bright beaded bracelet that your niece made for you.

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Show up around his favorite spots.

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You'll capture his curiosity if he keeps seeing you around. This doesn't mean you should stalk him, but if you know he likes to go to the café across the street from campus before his afternoon class, make it a point to go there around the same time. When he sees you, make eye contact and acknowledge him. He'll definitely remember you next time you cross paths.^{[5]
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- While it can be easier to have a friend with you, he'll be more likely to approach you if you're alone. If you're with someone or seem busy, he'll probably leave you alone.

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Approach him first to start a conversation.

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Virgo guys can be shy, so don't wait for him to break the ice. It's possible you could cross paths with him a dozen times and he still won't say anything to you—but that doesn't necessarily mean he's not interested. In fact, the more he's attracted to you, the shyer he's likely to be. Just take the lead and strike up a natural conversation.^{[6]
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- For example, you might walk up to him and say, "Hi, I've seen you here a couple of times, but I don't think we've officially met. What's your name?"
- If you know you have something in common, mention it! For example, if you're in the same class you might say, "Hey, gotta get that coffee before chem class, right? I sit two rows behind you."

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Don't hide your intelligence.

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Virgo men love a woman who's smart and witty.^{[7]
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Expert Interview} You don't have to worry about a Virgo guy being intimidated by you because you happened to get the top grade in the class or got selected for a competitive internship. On the contrary, he'll be all the more attracted to you if you show that you're a little brainy—so don't be afraid to let that geek flag fly!^{[8]
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- If you're in school together, you might talk about your favorite class or the subject you happen to be studying at the moment.
- Virgo has a reputation as one of the smartest signs in the zodiac, so he's more likely to be turned on by a witty pun than a scantily clad selfie.^{[9]
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Keep him interested by holding something back.

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A Virgo man likes to get to know you slowly. This doesn't mean you should refuse to answer his questions or hide things from him—just don't tell him your whole life story on the first date.^{[10]
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- For example, if you go to school together and you're talking about the classes you take, maybe don't volunteer your major or what you plan to do when you get out of school. Instead, hold it back and let him tease it out of you.

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Ask him for advice.

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If he helps you solve a problem he'll feel valuable to you. Virgo guys tend to love being the hero, the guy who rescues the "damsel in distress"—even if it's a simple dilemma of what to choose at a local café. For more serious problems, he'll be honored that you came to him for advice when you needed it.^{[12]
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- For example, if you're having an ongoing issue with your roommate, you might explain the situation to him and ask what you should do. Virgos are analytical by nature, so he'll ask questions to get to the heart of the matter.^{[13]
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- You might also ask him for help or advice regarding something you know he's an expert on. For example, if you know he's good with computers and you're having a problem with your laptop, you might ask him if he can help you figure it out.

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Hit the gym together to get some exercise.

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Virgo guys often obsess about their looks and spend a lot of time at the gym. If you're both active and health-conscious, a gym date might be perfect—as long as you're not afraid to work up a sweat in front of your crush.^{[14]
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- For example, you might say, "Hey, I noticed you go to the gym on Thursdays. Mind if I tag along? I'd love to start lifting weights but I'm nervous about my form."
- If the gym isn't really your style, maybe invite him out for a run with you or challenge him to a game of tennis or one-on-one basketball.

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Volunteer together to help a local charity.

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You both tend to be service-oriented and enjoy helping out. Virgo is an earth sign, so if you've got an environmental cause, he'll likely be on board. He also enjoys helping out and making the community where you live a better place.^{[16]
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- For example, you might go up to him and say, "Hey, I'm going to be planting some trees in the park with the Green Warriors Society on Sunday, would you like to come help?"
- You might also look for volunteer activities you can do together, almost like a date. For example, you might take dogs from the local animal shelter to the dog park together.

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Start a DIY project together.

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Projects keep the Virgo guy occupied and allow him to feel useful. Working together to fix something old or create something new is a great bonding opportunity. Your Virgo guy will love everything from the initial planning to ultimately getting his hands dirty—and rest assured, no detail will be overlooked.^{[17]
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- For example, if have an old bookcase you've always wanted to refinish, bring it up to your Virgo guy. Bounce ideas off of him, then hit the hardware store together for supplies.
- Many Virgos are known for their craftsmanship, but be careful—if your Virgo guy has skills and experience, he'll tend to want to control every aspect of the project and micro-manage every detail. If you know he knows way more about it than you do, though, you might be just fine with that.
- You might also go to a hardware or craft store and see what catches your eye that the two of you could build something with. You'll end up creating something that's yours alone.
- Reader Poll: We asked 523 wikiHow readers who've dated a Virgo man, and 76% of them agreed that the best way to attract his interest is to ask him for help with a project. [Take Poll]

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Let him know you need him and value his contributions.

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The Virgo man always likes to feel appreciated. When he helps you out with something, thank him for his efforts. Keep your eye out for the little things he does and mention occasionally just how much they mean to you. And if you have to do something on your own, you might mention that it would've been easier or more fun if he'd been there to help out.^{[18]
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- For example, you might say, "Thanks so much for helping me build that bookcase. I never could've gotten those shelves to sit right without you!"
- On the other hand, Virgos are often suspicious of straight compliments, so keep those at a minimum. Compliment him for something he does, rather than how he looks.

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Keep your plans open and flexible.

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Because Virgo is a mutable sign, he might change things a lot. Scorpio is a fixed sign, which means you're usually more comfortable in a routine. You like to make a plan and stick to it—you only change course if something happens to make your original plan impossible. Not so with Virgo—he's typically more of a "go with the flow" type. Your relationship will go more smoothly if you show that you're willing to accept small changes that don't make much of a difference.^{[19]
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- Be ready for him to bring something up at the last minute—if you can keep your plans a little loose, you can accommodate his 11th-hour changes without it derailing your day.
- For example, you might be headed to a park for a picnic when he sees a shop that he wants to stop and check out. If you have your food packed in coolers, it won't go bad while you browse for a few minutes.

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Focus on logical solutions to problems.

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The Virgo man has difficulty following emotions. If you're a typical Scorpio, you're a master of going with your gut. You'll make decisions based on your intuition and how you feel about a situation, which your Virgo fella will consider random and unreasonable. It's not that he thinks your feelings aren't important—he just thinks logic and reason are more reliable.^{[20]
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- If you have a problem, it's usually better to hash it out with a more intuitive friend first. Once you've gotten to the root of the problem, you can go to your Virgo guy for advice and he'll have some ideas for you.

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Is a Virgo man good for a Scorpio woman?

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Absolutely! Virgos have a natural pull towards the secretive Scorpio. They like to unravel mysteries and have a few of their own.

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What do Virgos find attractive?

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They love girls that pick up after themselves and are conscientious of cleanliness and hygiene. They want you to smell good and look good. Also, wear fitting clothes, as they want to see your shape.

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