How to Attract a Virgo Man As a Libra Woman

Written by Stina Garbis | Edited by Aly Rusciano

Last Updated: February 8, 2024 References

Meticulous and extremely compassionate, a Virgo man is sure to make you feel like a queen! But, as a Libra, how do you capture his attention? You’re a natural catch with your social personality and intelligence, and with the proper guidance, he’ll be yours in no time. Keep reading for all the tips and tricks you need to attract a Virgo man as a Libra woman.

This article is based on an interview with our psychic astrologer, Stina Garbis, owner of Psychic Stina. Check out the full interview here.

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Dress to impress.

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Putting effort into your wardrobe will have him swooning. A Virgo man loves someone well-dressed, and as a Libra woman, you have rather expensive taste. This can work in your favor, so don’t hesitate to spend some extra cash or linger in the mirror—he’ll forgive the bill and tardiness just so you can look the part!^{[1]
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- Opt for fitted, classy looks. Try:
- Wearing a something classic, elegant outfit, like a black dress, heels, and red lips.
- Opting for a sophisticated and professional look with a blazer and tight pencil skirt.
- Spritzing your favorite perfume to pull your look and energy together.
- Reader Poll: We asked 594 wikiHow readers who've dated Virgo men, and 74% of them agreed that the best way to attract them is by wearing classy, fitted clothing. [Take Poll]

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Compliment him.

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Virgos appreciate even the smallest acknowledgement to their attributes. He notices everything, and you can use this to your advantage. With your beautiful smile and sweet demeanor, he’s sure to melt at any compliment from you! Tell him you like not only his hair or outfit but also his attention to detail. Try complimenting him by saying something like:
- “You cleaned the desk. Thank you!”
- “I couldn’t help but notice that your socks and hat match. I approve.”
- “It was so sweet of you to help the teacher this morning before class!”

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Up the charm.

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It can be difficult for a reserved Virgo to pick up on social cues. With Venus ruling your sign, you have the goddess of love backing you up! Use that Libra passion for all things romance to fuel your flirtatious advances. Although intelligent, a Virgo man can be rather clueless when it comes to flirting, so don’t be afraid to put yourself out there to capture his attention.
- Wink at him from across the room.
- Flip your hair over your shoulder and lean forwards when he’s near.
- Make a flirtatious joke about how cute he looks.

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Share a fun fact.

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A Virgo man values intelligence. He doesn’t want just anyone to be his partner. He’s looking for someone who can match his wit while teaching him something new. In other words, he’s looking for the brainy girl next door!^{[2]
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Expert Interview} Libra, you have a social grace others envy, and this will immediately draw him to you. Keep him laughing by matching his tone and wit to ease his bustling mind. Here are some fun facts he may not know:
- A crocodile can’t stick out its tongue.
- Sharks are the only fish known to blink with both eyes.
- Maine is the only state with a one-syllable name.
- A dime has 118 ridges.

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Make a witty comment.

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Clever and observing minds are immediately attractive to Virgos. He’s looking for a partner who can playfully match his own wit, and that can totally be you! As a Libra, you’re naturally friendly, smart, and idealistic. You’ve probably got witty remarks loaded in the back of your mind already, and now’s your time to use them.^{[3]
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- A Virgo man may be critical of the world, but he cannot take criticism.
- Avoid making jabs at him. Instead, banter with him.

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Offer advice.

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Reasoning is something he needs as an overly analytical Virgo. With Mercury ruling his actions, it can be easy for him to get caught up in his head. You can easily attract him by being a rational and just voice—which is something that comes easily to you as a Libra. So, when he asks for it, offer sound advice to help him know you’re someone he can rely on.
- He may want a brainy girl, but he’s not looking for a know-it-all. Avoid giving too much advice when you can. Keeping things simple is sure to please.^{[4]
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Listen attentively.

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A self-effacing Virgo man needs a partner who’s a good listener. Libra, you tend to be very talkative and social, which my class with Virgo’s more reserved nature. He’ll naturally gravitate toward you because of your bodacious energy, but sharing his feelings as openly as you do may not come as easily. Try taking a moment to stop and listen. Give him space to talk, and it surely won’t go unnoticed.^{[5]
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- As a Libra, you’re a natural born talker and listener. You have a kind heart, and this will help you empathize with his emotions.
- Show him you’re listening by repeating or reiterating what he’s said.

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Be supportive.

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A Virgo man needs someone who can lift him up when he's down. His worst critic is himself. He often thinks the worst of himself with his high standards and controlling nature. Libra, you’re all about companionship and encouragement with the 7th House ruling your sign, which Virgo is drawn to. You can play up that connection even more by being there for him through thick and thin.^{[6]
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- Be a shoulder for him to lean on when things get tough.
- Help him get out of his head by saying, “You can do this,” “You’re doing incredible work,” or, “I believe in you.”

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Lend a helping hand.

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Virgos need security and dependability in a relationship. As an Earth sign, he’s naturally reliable, and he’s looking for a partner he can show him the same support. You could say he’s looking for a bit of motherly love, so use your kind and often diplomatic personality to attract him.^{[7]
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Expert Interview} With the scales being your zodiac sign’s symbol, try bringing the balance within you into his life by helping him in any way you can.
- Surprise him by packing him lunch for work or school.
- Ask him how you can make his day better.

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Put effort into your physical appearance.

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A Virgo man seeks someone who prioritizes their health and looks. He values, appreciates, and prioritizes physical appearances, and wants a partner he can show off around his arm. Taking care of yourself won’t go unnoticed, especially since he pays attention to the little things.^{[8]
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- Get a haircut—he’ll notice even the smallest trim!
- Go on a jog to get your heart pumping.
- Opt for nutritious meals that help you feel good inside and out.
- Take a bubble bath using his favorite scent.

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Express yourself.

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Virgos need to know everything before jumping into a relationship. At the end of the day, he wants a partner he can honestly connect with. Libra, you’re a people pleaser and hate confrontation. You would rather keep things bottled up than be honest and stir-up a fight, but the Mercury ruled Virgo thinks otherwise. Let yourself open up to him, and tell him exactly how you feel—this communication won’t go unnoticed.
- Structure is his favorite word, and he can't imagine a future with you without knowing about you.
- He’ll open up to you in time, too! He just needs a little time to develop trust.

Join the Discussion...

Do Virgos and Libras mesh well together?

WikiOwlLeaper942

I've heard that Virgos and Libras have a lot of differences, but they might also work really well? Seems a little sus and I don't know if it's worth trying to be more than friends. Can a romantic relationship between these two work out or should it just stay platonic?