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If you watch a lot of anime, you may have heard the phrase “ara ara” and wondered what it meant. “Ara ara” roughly translates to “oh my” and expresses surprise, affection, or annoyance and disapproval. In anime specifically, it may also be used suggestively. In this article, we’ll teach you everything you need to know about the phrase “ara ara,” including what it means, how to use it in real life, how it’s used in anime, and its origins. Plus, learn other common Japanese phrases used in anime and what they mean!

‘Ara Ara’ Definition

In Japanese, “ara ara” means “oh my,” “oh, dear,” or “well, well.” It’s often used by older women towards children to express mild surprise, compassion and affection, or disapproval and annoyance. In anime, it may be used suggestively by female characters attempting to seduce younger men.

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What does ara ara mean?

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  1. “Ara ara” is a Japanese exclamation that means “oh my,” “oh, dear,” or “oh me, oh my” in English. In real life, it is mainly used by older women and, depending on the context, may convey mild surprise, affection, or disapproval. In anime, it is often used in a suggestive way towards younger men.[1]
    • The word “ara” doesn’t have to be repeated twice. On its own, it translates as “oh” or “ah.”
    • For example, the sentence “Ara, mou konna jikan? (あら、もうこんな時間?)” means “Oh, it is already that late?” In this case, “ara” is expressing surprise.
    • In some cases, “ara ara” may also translate to “well, well.” This meaning is most commonly found in anime and manga, in which the phrase is used flirtatiously.
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Ara Ara in Anime

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  1. While the phrase can be used the same way it is in real life, “ara ara” may have flirty connotations depending on the context. In some anime, an older female character may say “ara ara” flirtatiously, in an attempt to seduce a younger male character. In this case, the phrase likely translates to “well, well” or “Oh, look at this cutie.”[2]
    • Sometimes, the phrase may be exaggerated to “ara ara ara ara” in anime, which shows extreme surprise and excitement. This phrase won’t typically be used in real life.
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How to Use Ara Ara in Real Life

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  1. Literally translated, “ara ara” means “oh, oh,” but the meaning more closely aligns with phrases like “oh my” or “oh dear.” Use this phrase if you’re slightly surprised or astonished by someone or something.[3]
    • For example, “Ara ara. Ookiku natta ne (あらあら。大きくなったね。)” translates to “My, my! You sure have grown!” or “Oh, look at you! You sure have grown!”
    • “Ara ara, atto iu ma datta (あらあら、あっという間だった。)” means “My, my, how time flies!”
    • Using the single “ara” sounds more surprised and abrupt, while “ara ara” sounds softer and less shocked.
  2. “Ara ara” can also be a gentle and polite interjection to show affection, compassion, or empathy for someone.[4] This is especially true for mothers or mother figures who want to comfort their children over a minor setback or inconvenience, like dropping an ice cream cone.
    • For example, “Ara ara, atarashii no kau kara nakanaide ne (あらあら、新しいの買うから泣かないでね。)” means “Oh dear, I’ll buy you a new one. Don’t cry, okay?”
    • “Ara ara, mite! Okaa-chan wa acchi desu (あらあら、見て!お母ちゃんはあっちです。)” means “Ssh ssh, look! Your mother is over there.”
  3. When said in a more serious tone, “ara ara” can show mild annoyance, disapproval, cynicism, or skepticism. This meaning may translate to something like “tsk tsk” or “good grief.” However, this meaning isn’t used as often as the others.[5]
    • For example, “Ara ara, asoko o goran (あらあら、 あそこをご覧。)” roughly translates to “Good grief! Look at what’s going on over there.”
    • “Ara? Sou desu ka? (あら?そうですか?)” translates to a skeptical “Huh? Is that so?”
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Ara Ara Origins

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  1. While the phrase “ara ara” has likely been used in Japan for centuries, it only began to appear in anime and manga in the 1980s and 1990s. One of the earliest known uses in anime is in the 1995 series Neon Genesis Evangelion, in which the character Misato Katsuragi uses the phrase to express surprise and concern. Since then, the phrase has been commonly used by female anime characters to express their softer, nurturing side.
    • In recent years, “ara ara” has become a meme that anime fans use to express a wide range of emotions online.[7]
    • Some anime fans suggest that “ara ara” has become a catchphrase for the moe (cute and innocent) character archetype.
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Other Common Anime Phrases

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  1. “Yare yare daze” is a phrase from the popular anime series JoJo’s Bizarre Adventure. It is the catchphrase of Jotaro Kujo, the main character of the third story arch, titled Stardust Crusaders. The phrase roughly translates to “well, well” or “good grief” and often expresses boredom or exasperation.[8]
  2. “Sugoi” is used in anime and daily Japanese conversation to express amazement, wonder, and delight. However, it can also mean “terrible” or “dreadful” depending on the context. Regardless of the meaning, it is typically used as an exclamation.[9]
  3. “Daijobu” is a Japanese word that means “okay” or “all right.” It’s often used as a response to an order or an instruction, though it can also be used to ask if someone is okay or to tell people that you are okay.[10]
  4. “Doki doki” is a Japanese onomatopoeia that refers to the sound of a beating heart, specifically in relation to feeling nervous or excited. It may also describe the sensation of butterflies in your stomach and is often associated with crushes.[11]
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This article was co-authored by Claire Wang and by wikiHow staff writer, Raven Minyard, BA. Claire Wang is a London-based language education expert and the Founder of LingoClass, the city’s leading school for Chinese, Japanese, and Korean. Since founding LingoClass in 2018, she has helped hundreds of students develop a deep passion for Asian languages and cultures through her engaging, student-centered approach. With over a decade of international teaching experience in Taiwan, Canada, and the UK, Claire specializes in the Communicative Language Teaching (CLT) approach, which emphasizes real-world interaction and meaningful communication. Her classes are known for being dynamic, practical, and deeply culturally immersive. Claire holds a postgraduate degree in Teaching Chinese as a Foreign Language from SOAS University of London. In addition to leading LingoClass, she is also a Senior Lecturer in Chinese Language, Arts and Culture at the University of the Arts London, where she integrates language learning with broader cultural and artistic perspectives. This article has been viewed 5,382 times.
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