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"HBY" is a common abbreviation tossed around in texts and on Snapchat—but what does it mean? There are so many different slang terms out there that it's hard to keep track of them all—but we've got you covered. In this article, we'll go over all the possible meanings for "HBY" and give you a complete list of ways that you can incorporate it into your own messages!

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“HBY” Meaning on Snapchat

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  1. Technically, the "about" in this phrase is shortened to "'bout," so you're saying "how 'bout you?" This definition applies to most messaging platforms, including WhatsApp and social media sites like Snapchat, Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram.[1] For example:
    • You: "Are you going to the game this weekend?"
    • Them: "Yeah! Can't wait to relax and have some fun. HBY?"
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“HBY” Meaning in Texting

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How to Use “HBY”

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  1. "HBY" is a question, so it naturally invites a response from the other person. You can use this to start a conversation with a friend, get to know a new acquaintance better, or even catch your crush's attention![3]
    • You: "Well, I'm officially having the most boring weekend ever. 😭 HBY?"
    • Them: "Aw, sorry! Mine's been pretty slow too. Wanna hang out?"
  2. When you're curious whether you and your friend are on the same page in terms of future plans, HBY is an easy way to check. Reaffirm your interest or commitment to them, and ask if they feel the same.[4]
    • You: "I know we talked about seeing a movie tomorrow night, and I'm still game! HBY?"
    • Them: "I actually have a family thing that night. But we could go the day after if you're free?"
  3. HBY is a great way to figure out how someone else feels about a particular topic. Additionally, asking for someone's opinion can help you connect over a common interest or have a lively, fun debate.[5]
    • You: "Controversial opinion: I think ghosts are 100% real. HBY?"
    • Them: "I agree! Glad to know you're a fellow believer. 👻"
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How to Respond to “HBY”

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  1. "HBY" can start a conversation, but it doesn't have to be a long exchange. To keep the conversation brief, you could always give a straightforward "yes" or "no" if that answers the question or write another concise answer.
    • Them: "I decided I'm gonna go to the party tonight. HBY?"
    • You: "Same! See you there. 😁"
  2. HBY by itself can be a close-ended question, but you may want to keep chatting after you've answered "yes" or "no." Try including an additional comment or question to prompt a response from your friend.
    • Them: "I definitely wanna watch the new season of Riverdale. HBY?"
    • You: "Yes! We should catch the season premiere together. 😊"
    • Them: "Totally! Let's plan to hang out…."
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Other Forms of “HBY”

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  1. The non-abbreviated phrasing may sound awkward, but some people use HBY to ask someone how they're doing—to catch up after a lack of communication. You can usually tell they mean "how be you?" if there's no other information to respond to in the message. For example:
    • Them: "Hey! HBY?"
    • You: "Not bad! It's been a busy week, but a lot of fun too. 😊"
  2. HBU has two substitutions instead of one, with "about" becoming "'bout" and "you" becoming "u." While they use a slightly different letter combination, these two abbreviations mean the same thing. You can use them interchangeably, pick one, or choose the spelling your contacts use more often.[6]
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This article was co-authored by Imad Jbara and by wikiHow staff writer, Glenn Carreau. Imad Jbara is a Dating Coach for NYC Wingwoman LLC, a relationship coaching service based in New York City. 'NYC Wingwoman' offers matchmaking, wingwoman services, 1-on-1 Coaching, and intensive weekend bootcamps. Imad services 100+ clients, men and women, to improve their dating lives through authentic communication skills. He has a BA in Psychology from the University of Massachusetts Dartmouth. This article has been viewed 34,893 times.
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