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Tinder hacks that actually work to get more matches
I've (24yo man) been on the apps for 4 years now and it's been mostly frustrating. I feel like I spend hours on Tinder every week and only ever actually get a few dates a YEAR from it! What am I doing wrong? I have revamped my profile so many times over the years and I feel like it just isn't working. I know some people who have used Tinder Gold and seem to like it but I'm hesitant to take the plunge. Is it worth it? I'm not sure what else can I do to get more matches.
739 readers have voted on this topic. Poll was last updated on 10/07/25.
How do you tell if someone's being flirty or friendly?
Hey everyone! I would really love some help figuring out how to tell if someone is flirting with me, especially when it comes to reading body language and facial cues. I feel like I completely misunderstand the difference between someone being friendly and someone actually trying to hit on me. I won’t bore you with the details but I’ve missed out on so many chances where I just thought the other person was being nice, and I’ve gotten into trouble a few times for mistaking someone being friendly as someone trying to hit on me. Any tips here?
1061 readers have voted on this topic. Poll was last updated on 10/07/25.
Is flirting considered cheating? Give me your hot takes.
So I’ve been dating this guy for about a year now and everything is going great. I really mean it, we click, we’re loyal, we love each other. Things are awesome. But, he did do something the other day at the coffee shop that kind of bothered me. I think one of the baristas were trying to flirt with him a bit and he kind of reciprocated. She said she liked his sweater and smiled in a really flirty way. He turned red and said he liked her hair. It was kind of a moment. I know it was just a really little thing but standing there I kind of felt like he crossed the line. Is that crazy? I know on paper it’s valid for me to be upset, but is it cheating? Emotional cheating? I don’t know. What do you all think? And how do I bring it up to him so he doesn't think I'm overreacting?
1202 readers have voted on this topic. Poll was last updated on 10/07/25.
What are some fun/spicy questions to ask a girl?
I've gone out with this girl a few times and the next time we hang I want to come prepared with some fun and saucy get-to-know-you questions, just to heat things up a bit but still keep things fun/friendly/not cross the line too much. (Think "truth or dare" or "would you rather...") So, what are your favorite fun and spicy things to ask on a date?
Need help writing my own wedding vows!
My wedding is coming up soon and I want my vows to be perfect but I don't know where to start. Every time I try writing something it comes out so cheesy and awkward. There is so much I love about my partner and it's hard to put it all into words. Does anyone have any advice on how to write your vows? I'd love to hear the story of how you wrote yours!
I want to learn how to give my boyfriend birthday gifts he'll love
My boyfriend is so hard to get gifts for! He's not materialistic and doesn't want a lot of things so I struggle to come up with gifts for him. Any ideas?
What should I get my girlfriend for her birthday?
I want to make my girlfriend's birthday special but don't know what to get her or do for her. What would be meaningful? What do girls like? I want so hard to make it something nice but I just have no idea what to do.
Why do humans kiss?
What is the purpose of people kissing? What does it mean when people kiss? Why do people like to do it? I spent too long thinking about the actual mechanics of just pushing your mouth repeatedly against someone else's mouth and got weirded out...need someone to explain it to me.
