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Best tips on how to be more attractive
I know "beauty is subjective" but what are some actionable steps I can take to be just generally better-looking/attractive to others? I don't think I'm hideous, but I could be more attractive. Any tips on how to go about this?
How do I get out of the dreaded friend zone?
I’m a guy and I have been best friends with this girl since childhood. I’ve always kind of had a little bit of a crush on her, and I think she might have had a little bit of a crush on me too, but nothing has ever happened. What can I do to get out of the friend zone and ask her out? I’m really worried about rejection or getting into hot water if I make the wrong move, so what should I do?
Good second date ideas?
So. Recently went on a first date and we clicked super well. We said we have to get together again soon, and now I'm suddenly at a loss for ideas of what to do. I'd love to find something where we can still talk and learn more about each other just to make sure they're the right person, but I want to show off my fun side too! Now taking any suggestions that you got!
What are the best compliments you can give to a guy?
Truth is I've never really had a bf before, but I have a huuuuge crush on this one guy in my class. I'm a little bit awkward and tbh have never been that good at flirting, but I really want him to know that I'm interested so he doesn't get away. I'm not trying to scare him away, so what are some good compliments that I can tell him in text or in person to make him into me too?
How long should I wait before the next date?
I went on a date with this really awesome girl and I’m super into her. Things went really well and the vibes were immaculate. We even kissed before calling it a night and made references to setting up a second date. It’s been 24 hours since our date and I’d like to reach out about setting the next one up, but I don’t want to come off as desperate or creepy or needy. What’s an appropriate time to wait between dates before you reach out? I really want this to go well.
845 readers have voted on this topic. Poll was last updated on 10/06/25.
What are some flirty questions I can ask a girl?
I'm really into this girl and we chat for hours over text. She's so cool and asks great questions, but I feel like when it's my turn to come up with something I have no idea what to ask. I want to keep her around and interested, but I'm like out of things to say so I need some suggestions. Any way to show off some rizz and keep our convo going?
How do you overcome or get past the ick?
OK, I've been flirting with this guy for a month and we just had our first date and Idk what it is but I'm feeling the ick. Not totally sure why?? Nothing even went bad, things were good, he was sweet and took me to a nice restaurant, so why do I feel like I never want to look at him again lol. Is it possible to get over it??
934 readers have voted on this topic. Poll was last updated on 10/06/25.
What do I actually ask someone about on the first date?
Hi, so I haven't really gone on a ton of dates but the ones that I have gone on have kind of stalled while we're talking. I want to be able to make a really good impression, but I feel like I have nothing interesting to ask or talk about. Are there questions to ask someone to get to know them better that I'm missing out on? What about after all of those? Are there other fun or interesting things I could ask to keep the conversation going without it getting crazy awkward?
Guys, is the phrase "if he wanted to, he would" really true?
I'm a 19f and I've been talking to this boy in my class for months, I've dropped hints that I like him (like asking what he's doing over the weekend and sayng I'm free, following him on all social media, ect) and he still HARDCORE flirts (liek saying I look beautiful, how don't I have a bf, this class would be torture without me) but won't ask me out, and he goes days without responding to my texts and DMs. my friends say "if he wanted to he would" but is that true? He flirts so much I feel it's impossible that he wouldn't like me back, maybe he's just shy and bad at picking up hints?
986 readers have voted on this topic. Poll was last updated on 10/06/25.
What are some good deep convo starters to ask?
Any good deep conversation starters to get to know people better/tips for keeping a conversation going? Drop em here please and thank you
