Are Scorpio and Sagittarius a good match in a relationship?
I'm a Scorpio dating a Sagittarius, and I'd love to hear what yalls history with this pairing is, because we get along great but we definitely clash sometimes and I've never dated a sagittarius so I want to know how compatible they really are. Are they good together?
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Compatibility between Scorpio and Sagittarius can be hit or miss. These signs have very different energies, which could cause some friction in the relationship. As a water sign, you Scorpio, are known for your emotional depth and intensity, and you likely don’t shy away from the darker aspects of life. On the flip side, fire sign Sagittarius is free-spirited and optimistic, and they prefer to stay in a positive mindset. These conflicting worldviews can cause some confusion, and you may have a hard time understanding each other.
However, opposites do attract, and when this happens, Scorpio and Sag can form a very dynamic and exciting match. For one thing, Sagittarius is deeply philosophical, and you, Scorpio, are probably super inquisitive, so you can have very engaging conversations together. Sagittarius can also help you see the bright side of things, and you can teach Sagittarius not to shy away from difficult emotions. Ultimately, if you two are patient and understanding with each other, your connection can be electric!
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However, opposites do attract, and when this happens, Scorpio and Sag can form a very dynamic and exciting match. For one thing, Sagittarius is deeply philosophical, and you, Scorpio, are probably super inquisitive, so you can have very engaging conversations together. Sagittarius can also help you see the bright side of things, and you can teach Sagittarius not to shy away from difficult emotions. Ultimately, if you two are patient and understanding with each other, your connection can be electric!
Scorpio and Sagittarius are right next to each other on the zodiac wheel, and this forms what we call a hard aspect. Essentially, they are quite similar but different enough where it can cause some tension. What they both have in common is they crave depth. Scorpio is going to try to get deep in conversation and feel deeply for their partner. Sagittarius, at the same time, will do anything for the memory or for the moment, and will respond well to Scorpio's probing. They have this in common, but Sagittarius is expansive while Scorpio is transformative. Scorpios tend to be more emotional while Sagittarius tend to be more detached. Yet, they both really love knowledge, and would probably bond over conspiracy theory videos or scientific topics.
Always remember that if two people want to be together, they can make it work together. Given that Scorpio and Sagittarius are next to each other, there is a good chance that they will have mirroring aspects, which create mutual energies.
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Always remember that if two people want to be together, they can make it work together. Given that Scorpio and Sagittarius are next to each other, there is a good chance that they will have mirroring aspects, which create mutual energies.
In a relationship, a Sagittarius wants somebody who gives them space. If you trust them enough to give them space, they will come closer, if you try to control them or micromanage them in any way, they just can't tolerate it. Sagittarius also loves adventure and excitement. They like being outdoors, they love movement. They love action. They don't do well with someone who's very stagnant or set in their ways. They aren't after stability, they want adventure and excitement. To keep your Sagittarius happy, plan outdoor activities, go to rock concerts. They're the rock stars of the zodiac. They're very fiery and dynamic, so they want that in a partner.
Scorpios, meanwhile, are always looking for someone to obsess over. They like to test their partner's loyalty and play hard to get, which Sagittarius may not go for. Scorpio is also a sign of sexualities, so if they're not sensing their partner has sexual interest in them, then they would lose interest. So a Sagittarius would definitely need to engage in sex or intimacy in some way with a Scorpio. Scorpios also need depth: if you're very shallow, it won't work. They like intensity and they like passion. They need to feel engaged and enthralled with someone, otherwise they're not going to have interest.
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Scorpios, meanwhile, are always looking for someone to obsess over. They like to test their partner's loyalty and play hard to get, which Sagittarius may not go for. Scorpio is also a sign of sexualities, so if they're not sensing their partner has sexual interest in them, then they would lose interest. So a Sagittarius would definitely need to engage in sex or intimacy in some way with a Scorpio. Scorpios also need depth: if you're very shallow, it won't work. They like intensity and they like passion. They need to feel engaged and enthralled with someone, otherwise they're not going to have interest.
When I first started dating my Sagittarius husband, his directness hurt me. He is a very straightforward person and when he would make certain comments, my feelings could not take it. But now, I've come to learn that that's just how he communicates. When I look past the bluntness and think about his actual message, I can feel how much he loves me.
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I think they can go great together! I'm a Sagittarius and I found my Scorpio girlfriend's passion and intensity deeply attractive. I feel like the heat was cranked all the way for our relationship and I found myself falling fast. She gives so much of herself to our relationship and her vulnerability and sensitivity have encouraged me to do the same, so our connection is deep and strong.
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I’m a scorpio and is currently dating a Sag.
We really clashed at the beginning of our journey. He doesn’t really want to date at first but he said he likes me. I really really like him so much.
But, he was trying to first trying to tell me he is unsure if he wants a relationship.
I left him alone but he kept texting me.
For some reason,
we started going out on dates.
And I never text him first.
I would first casually flirt with him but later on stopped, with the thought that he might have not appreciated any of it but as time went by, he’s the one who doesn’t stop flirting and texting me daily.
My adoration for him gradually lessened because, as you may know, I need someone who would be as intense as me.
I would leave him alone most of the time because I think he wants his “me” time.
Its never official between us and I don’t know what we are exactly right now. And this is scaring me.
I really want some assurance.
I don’t think we match the same energy.
Dating a Sag is hard. 😭
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We really clashed at the beginning of our journey. He doesn’t really want to date at first but he said he likes me. I really really like him so much.
But, he was trying to first trying to tell me he is unsure if he wants a relationship.
I left him alone but he kept texting me.
For some reason,
we started going out on dates.
And I never text him first.
I would first casually flirt with him but later on stopped, with the thought that he might have not appreciated any of it but as time went by, he’s the one who doesn’t stop flirting and texting me daily.
My adoration for him gradually lessened because, as you may know, I need someone who would be as intense as me.
I would leave him alone most of the time because I think he wants his “me” time.
Its never official between us and I don’t know what we are exactly right now. And this is scaring me.
I really want some assurance.
I don’t think we match the same energy.
Dating a Sag is hard. 😭
Sag can't be trusted when it comes to other partner trust me I was in sag. Maybe sexy smart that's why I like her but hard to predict like a rolling ball,.. all in all she want travel new place better at some bike adventures she love it.. still broke me at the end 9yrs ago.. I don't want to be in relationships again
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I've never had such deep conversations with another person before! It delighted me to discover that Scorpios and Sagittariuses make for excellent conversation partners. My parter and I go on long walks and talks together, and they're my favorite kind of date nights. We talk about anything and everything, and I really appreciate the perspective that she brings to our chats.
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I'm a Sagittarius man and all I've seemed to have attracted are Scorpio woman for the most part. But, I've always had trouble with the questioning. When that happened I felt like I was being interrogated. I would be open and they would be secretive. I always felt like I had to climb Mt. Everest for them to get the point, spill out, come out, a lot of things were mysteries. I would get tired of that. Sex was great adventurous, passionate, deeply spiritual. The relationship can work it takes it takes opening up about who you are and what you want and take the time to understanding the person that you are involved with. Make studies of one another.
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In this case you are mostly cause a broken hearted Scorpio.. sag by nature doesn't want only one interms of partner 😭😭 goodluck
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Cause we both understand each other and we know how calm each other down and make each other happy
Voted: 👍 Yes
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I'm a Sagittarius and I'm much more spontaneous than my Scorpio girlfriend. I love going on adventures and trying new things, while she's more comfortable sticking to what she knows. It was tricky trying to get this to work at first, because I was getting restless doing the same things over and over. After taking her on a few spontaneous adventures with me, she realized that she did actually enjoy a surprise here and there. Things are great now!
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Scorpio woman married to sag man. It's been an absolutely miserable 22 years. He lies, he cheats, he steals. I am beyond done, but because of the financial trouble he got us in and that fact that I have nowhere else to go, we have to live together. This is a terrible combination.
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Because if one of us has arguments, we readily ask apologies right away.
Voted: 👍 Yes
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I think the double "s" in both names means they really don't belong, because they don't sound good together which is why i say no. I request Pisces and Scorpio belong together instead, it just fits.
Voted: 👎 No
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