What are the best dating apps for men in your experience
M (20) here. I’ll just get right to the point—I’ve been on the dating apps for a year now and I’ve only had two matches. Not dates. Matches. I’m beyond tired at this point and I just want to know if there’s some other platform I should be using where I’m more likely to get better results? I’m on Tinder, Hinge, and Bumble right now, but spend most of my time on Tinder. Is there some other platform with a better algorithm or a more active user base?
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Check out OKCupid or eHarmony if you’re looking for a serious relationship. Women tend to be a little more active and intentional on those platforms, which could really play in your favor.
If you’re committed to the pure app angle, your time may be best spent on Bumble or Hinge. These platforms are oriented more towards putting women in the driver’s seat, so there seem to be more real women on those platforms.
Also, Grindr is one of the best options for the LGBTQ+ community.
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If you’re committed to the pure app angle, your time may be best spent on Bumble or Hinge. These platforms are oriented more towards putting women in the driver’s seat, so there seem to be more real women on those platforms.
Also, Grindr is one of the best options for the LGBTQ+ community.
Hinge. My clients are getting the best results here in terms of people who actually want to go on dates and want to get into relationships.
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In my experience, I get more serious matches on OkCupid and Hinge than anywhere else. I think this because both provide many prompts and opportunities for you to flesh out your profile and showcase your personality.
Ngl though, it's just generally rough to be a guy on dating apps right now. Try to be patient and kind with yourself and don't let all the rejections and "failed" dates get you down. All you need is one!
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Ngl though, it's just generally rough to be a guy on dating apps right now. Try to be patient and kind with yourself and don't let all the rejections and "failed" dates get you down. All you need is one!
I also like Hinge. I appreciate that unlike with most other apps, I can message girls without having to match with them. It gives me the chance to craft a thoughtful first message and I think that helps me get my foot in the door. On other platforms I wouldn't even have that chance.
Also, I know you asked about dating apps, but if you're able to put yourself out there, meeting people outside of dating apps will probably be a better experience.
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Also, I know you asked about dating apps, but if you're able to put yourself out there, meeting people outside of dating apps will probably be a better experience.
I agree with this! Both Hinge and OkCupid allow you to draft a message with your like. When you write your message, you'll have a much higher chance of getting a response if you're actually specific with your message in a way that shows you read their profile and thought about what to write. Don't just send "Hi" or "What's up?"
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