I really like her but I can't seem to make myself tell her
I have a problem. There's this one girl I like in my ELA class (I'm also a girl, lesbian 4ever) I really like her but I can't seem to make myself tell her. I also only 2 more days to tell her, PLS HELP
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It's important to see and acknowledge, okay, I'm afraid to walk up my crush and tell them or ask them out. You have to acknowledge your fear and accept that you're afraid. Then you have tell yourself, "everybody has this fear, everybody deals with it, I can do it anyway."
Don't, though, stuff your fear down or pretend it's not there. You can even walk up to them and tell them, "hey, I'm super nervous, and I really like you. I'd like to take you out on a date. Would you be interested?"
I always advocate for making fear be okay. Love the fear, accept the fear, and do it anyway.
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Don't, though, stuff your fear down or pretend it's not there. You can even walk up to them and tell them, "hey, I'm super nervous, and I really like you. I'd like to take you out on a date. Would you be interested?"
I always advocate for making fear be okay. Love the fear, accept the fear, and do it anyway.
That's exciting! But also nerve wracking. First of all, go you for embracing who you are and wanting to express your feelings. That takes courage , and I know it's scary but its a beautiful thing. Telling her doesn't have to be some huge dramatic moment. You can keep it simple, like slipping her a note, sending a message or casually mentioning how you feel when your talking. If face-to-face feels to intense, sometimes a well worded sentence can just ease the pressure. Even just saying something like " Hey, I think your really amazing and I've been liking you for a while, just wanted to let you know, being honest." If she doesn't feel the same way remember its no reflection on you. Don't worry about how you will be judged, humiliated, rejected in front of her for you being lesbian. Remember and for everyone else to see this, there is nothing wrong in being gay or lesbian. It's you who you are. And no one has the right to change that for you, and you do not have to change that for someone else. Everyone is different and everyone is them. You are you, nobody else defines you. You define yourself. If she doesn't like you back, it is alright. You fill find a girl out there who is looking for you too. No matter how she reacts, you've already won being your true self which matters the most! And who knows? She might surprise, she might be shy and lie, things will change you never know! Just be confident, smile and approach with all your honesty! Remember if you get rejected don't worry about it too much! There will be again a girl out there who is looking for someone like you! Don't think about how she will spread it around, bullying judging. People should know that you are you. You are not anyone else. Your self defines you only, and no ones else ever as no right to change that. There is nothing wrong of being lesbian or gay, everyone should know that! Do not listen to anyone else, stand up for your self and just ignore! I know you've got this! Got get e'm girl! 👍😉😁🎉🌹✌👌😎
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