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How do I know if a girl wants me to touch her?

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Laura Bilotta
Dating Coach & Matchmaker

04/22/25 8:53pm

Watch her body language for signs she wants you to touch her. If she's sitting close to you, staring into your eyes, giggling whenever you tell her something, or even touching you lightly, she may be wanting more of a physical connection.

Subtle touches are okay if she’s giving you these signs. Touch her on the leg or on the back, but be gentle and soft. If she seems uncomfortable or like she isn’t enjoying it, then stop so there are no awkward feelings.

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Itsss Amyyyy!

04/23/25 2:57am

Her body language and pay attention closely to the details of her.

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