This article was co-authored by Katie Stolp and by wikiHow staff writer, Hunter Rising. Katie Stolp is a Master Certified Coach and the founder of Think Power, based in Austin, Texas. With over 5 years of coaching experience, Katie has helped hundreds of women around the world let go of self-defeating thoughts, own their power, and break through to authentic confidence in their careers and lives. Through speaking functions, online courses, one-on-one and group coaching, Katie’s approach combines a supportive yet direct coaching style and emphasizes research and science-based techniques. Her previous professional experience includes being an Austin CBS affiliate news anchor, corporate leader, and trainer. Katie is certified through The Life Coach School and trained with Erickson Coaching International. She has a bachelor’s degree in Broadcast Journalism from the University of Missouri-Columbia.
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If you're reading this article, you might feel like something is missing, that you don't have something you love and want to strive for in your life. You’ve probably been told to “follow your passion," but that can definitely be tricky if you aren’t even sure what you’re really passionate about. We’ve all struggled with this at some point in our lives. Don't worry! While you may have trouble knowing your passion right now, it's totally possible to find it. Instead of wishing and waiting for something to come your way, follow these examples to find out what you truly love and pursue your passions!
Top Tips for Finding Your Passion
Life coach Katie Stolp says to think about what activities and topics light you up and what feels natural to you. If you're having trouble coming up with anything, ask people you trust what they've noticed about your interests and strengths. Sometimes it helps to get an outside perspective.
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Expert Q&A
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QuestionHow do I know what I like?Adrian Klaphaak, CPCCAdrian Klaphaak is a career coach and founder of A Path That Fits, a mindfulness-based boutique career and life coaching company in the San Francisco Bay Area. He is also an accredited Co-Active Professional Coach (CPCC). Klaphaak has used his training with the Coaches Training Institute, Hakomi Somatic Psychology, and Internal Family Systems Therapy (IFS) to help thousands of people build successful careers and live more purposeful lives.
Career CoachChances are that you may already do something you’re passionate about and just haven’t recognized it yet! I suggest you consider the books you enjoy reading, hobbies that excite you, and items you spend time and money on to see if they have any similarities. -
QuestionWhat does a mentor do?Adrian Klaphaak, CPCCAdrian Klaphaak is a career coach and founder of A Path That Fits, a mindfulness-based boutique career and life coaching company in the San Francisco Bay Area. He is also an accredited Co-Active Professional Coach (CPCC). Klaphaak has used his training with the Coaches Training Institute, Hakomi Somatic Psychology, and Internal Family Systems Therapy (IFS) to help thousands of people build successful careers and live more purposeful lives.
Career CoachA mentor is someone who has similar interests as you but has a bit more experience. As you get involved with your passion, they're someone you can talk with and ask questions for guidance.
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Cut out stressful or time-wasting activities from your schedule since they can distract you from what you’re really passionate about.Thanks
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Developing your passion takes time, so be sure you stay focused and put in the effort to follow your dreams.Thanks
Warnings
- Don't just dive into an instinct full force. Everything takes patience, careful planning, and a lot of dedication.Thanks
References
- ↑ https://www.indeed.com/career-advice/finding-a-job/how-to-find-your-passion
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- ↑ https://www.forbes.com/sites/kathycaprino/2019/02/15/stop-searching-for-career-passion-you-wont-find-it-that-way/#5b8e750272fa
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/changepower/201811/6-ways-to-discover-and-choose-your-core-values
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- ↑ https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/10-ways-identify-your-talents-utilize-them-laila-ali-khan
- ↑ Adrian Klaphaak, CPCC. Life Coach. Expert Interview
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- ↑ https://www.indeed.com/career-advice/finding-a-job/how-to-find-your-passion
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- ↑ https://news.stanford.edu/2018/06/18/find-passion-may-bad-advice/
- ↑ https://www.indeed.com/career-advice/finding-a-job/how-to-find-your-passion
- ↑ https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/forget-finding-your-passion-find-great-mentor-sean-sweeney/
- ↑ https://college.harvard.edu/student-life/student-stories/tips-finding-your-passion
- ↑ https://ideas.ted.com/5-steps-to-help-you-figure-out-out-your-passion/
- ↑ https://news.stanford.edu/2018/06/18/find-passion-may-bad-advice/
- ↑ https://anxiety.org.nz/resources/finding-your-passion-and-skills
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/in-flux/201512/5-benefits-of-stepping-outside-your-comfort-zone
About This Article
To find your passion, ask yourself questions like, "What times have I felt the happiest in my life and why?" and "What am I proudest of accomplishing in my life so far?" Then, look for patterns in your answers to get an idea of what your passions might be. You can also write a list of all the things you've ever dreamed of doing, even if they're impractical or scary, to get a better sense of what motivates you. Additionally, think about the things you enjoy doing in your free time, like spending time in nature, being creative, or gardening, since these things can give you an idea of what you're passionate about. For more advice from our Counselor co-author, like how to pursue your passions in life, scroll down!
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