How to Compliment a Guy's Manhood: 14 Sexy Compliments

Co-authored by Kelli Miller, LCSW, MSW and Dan Hickey

Last Updated: April 26, 2024 Fact Checked

You’re enjoying sex with your man and want to let him know how much you like his manhood, but how do you compliment such a sensitive area? There are a lot of phrases you can use to let him know he’s got the goods, and praising his privates will boost his confidence and build trust between you (which makes sex more fun and enjoyable for both of you!). If you’re ready to make his day, read on! We’ve put together a thorough list of ways to compliment a guy on his manhood that he’ll love to hear.

Complimenting a Guy's Penis

Talk about how big it is and playfully "wonder" out loud if it will fit. You can also compliment its shape or let him know how much the girth impresses you with a compliment like "I love how thick it feels." Boost his confidence by letting him know that you need him (and his dick) immediately.

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“It’s huge!”

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We all know this is what most guys want to hear. Go ahead and just say it—it’s impossible to over praise him, especially if he’s already in the mood. He’ll feel good when he knows his member is big enough to satisfy you, even if you’re fudging the truth just a little bit. You can also pretend to be taken aback by the size and playfully “wonder” out loud if it will fit.^{[1]
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- “Wow, it’s so big!”
- “Here comes the giant.”
- “It feels massive once it’s inside” (for situations where it’s not quite big enough to gush over).
- “Wow, I don’t know if it will fit…”

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“It’s so thick.”

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Length isn’t everything. For a lot of people, girth is more satisfying and important than how long it is anyway. Don’t neglect the other dimensions of your guy’s manhood. Let him know how much the thickness impresses you. Give him compliments like:
- “Wow, it’s so heavy.”
- “That is dense.”
- “I love how thick it feels.”

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“We fit so well together.”

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Let your guy know his shape is great too. Whether it’s straight as an arrow or has a pleasant bend, tell him that it feels like it was custom-made to fit inside you. “We fit together” also has a romantic emotional vibe to it, so save this for a sensual moment or for your pillow talk.^{[2]
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- “It feels like it was made just for me.”
- “It gets me going in all the right spots.”
- “No one else’s ever felt this right.”

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“It’s so hard!”

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This is a hot compliment regardless of size or shape. If he’s self-conscious about his size or distracted because he’s wondering what you think, whip this one out to put him at ease. Hearing these words will make him even harder and more eager to please. Other ways to phrase might be:
- “It feels so warm.”
- “I love it when you get hard for me.”
- “It’s hot watching you get hard.”

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“I love your penis.”

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Don’t underestimate the power of just telling him you like it! A lot of guys have the perception that women think penises are gross or weird. Reassure him that you actually enjoy it and he’ll feel proud that you like what he’s got down there (and eager to use it).^{[3]
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- “It’s a work of art!”
- “That is one magnificent penis.”
- “Whip it out, I just want to look at it.”
- You can even give his member a hot nickname. There’s no such thing as taking it too far in this particular arena.

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“That was amazing!”

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Let him know his expertise (and equipment) are appreciated. Even the most self-confident guys want to hear that they showed you a great time. Compliment his performance—it’s implied that his manhood is the captain of the team.^{[4]
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- “I’m gonna be thinking about that for weeks.”
- “No one’s ever gonna beat that.”
- “That was 100% what I needed today.”

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“That was the best I’ve ever had.”

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Appeal to his competitive side and tell him no man can top him. Again, it’s understood his penis is the star of the show, but you can get more specific here. Try things like “No one else felt that good inside me” or “I’ve never felt that before” to put him (and his appendage) on a pedestal. You can also try:
- “That’s the most satisfying girth I’ve ever felt.”
- “No one’s ever given it to me like that.”
- “Your technique with that thing is unbeatable.”

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“I want you inside me now.”

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Let him know that you need him, and his appendage, immediately. This is some great dirty talk and it communicates the lust you feel for him. Tell him you can’t wait for it any longer and he won’t be able to contain himself! Whisper it in his ear for an irresistible touch. Try:
- “I can’t wait to feel you inside me.”
- “I knew this would feel great!”
- “If I can’t feel you right now, I’ll go crazy.”

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“Ready for round 2?”

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Let him know you can’t get enough of it! He’ll be proud that he satisfied you the first time, and your initiation will rev him up because he knows you want more. Try looking at, stroking, or grabbing his privates while you ask to show you’re ready right now.
- Try “Hard again already?” with a coy smile. This one is a great confidence booster for older men or guys who’ve had performance issues in the past.^{[5]
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“It makes me so horny.”

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Tell your guy what the thought of his manhood does to you. Get detailed—tell him which parts of you are stimulated, what you want him to do with it, and how long you’ve been fantasizing about it. He’ll be so satisfied knowing he’s got something you want. Say things like:
- “I can’t focus, I’ve been thinking about it all day.”
- “Just thinking about it makes my whole body tingle.”
- “My heart beats so fast whenever I see it.”

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“If I could only have one forever, it’d be yours.”

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Pull this one out during your pillow talk to make him feel special. It will soothe any insecurity he has about his size or performance and strengthen the bond of trust between you two (and it’s a nice way to stroke his competitive ego). Say things like:
- “I want yours forever.”
- “If this is the only one I get for the rest of my life, I’d die happy.”
- “Yours is the only one I need.”

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“Do you want oral?”

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Reassure him his member is a turn on by asking this. Lots of people think women don’t enjoy performing oral or that they think it’s a chore. Show him you enjoy it to let him know you’re comfortable with his entire body, especially his manhood. Say things like:
- “I want you in my mouth.”
- “I could do this all day.”
- “I love doing this.”

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“Gasp!”

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A sexy smile, a flirty gasp, or gently biting your lip when he pulls it out communicates all he needs to know about how you feel (and is electric for him). This is a good move when you don’t know what to say or if you’re seeing a guy’s penis for the first time.

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How can I effectively communicate with my partner in the bedroom?

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Kelli Miller is a Psychotherapist based in Los Angeles, California. Kelli specializes in individual and couples therapy focusing on relationships, depression, anxiety, sexuality, communication, parenting, and more. She is the author of “Love Hacks: Simple Solutions to Your Most Common Relationship Issues” which details the top 15 relationship issues and 3 quick solutions to each. She is also the award-winning and best-selling author of “Thriving with ADHD”. Kelli co-hosted an advice show on LA Talk Radio and was a relationship expert for The Examiner. She received her MSW (Masters of Social Work) from the University of Pennsylvania and a BA in Sociology/Health from the University of Florida.

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First, you should know that an open conversation about preference is not only okay but necessary. Pleasure within a relationship should always be mutual, and you should always keep in mind that your partner is not a mind reader. If it's not working for you, say something. That is how you can be fully present and satisfied, and how can you have your partner fully present and satisfied? First, begin with the fact that discussing sexual preference is not any different from discussing any other kind of preference within a relationship—it helps the two of you understand each other a bit better. As much as it may sound overwhelming, these discussions are something that needs to be part of your relationship for a healthy and satisfying sexual bond.

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No matter which compliment you choose, be genuine. A jokey tone or overacting might make it seem like you’re just humoring him, which could increase his self-consciousness and affect his performance.

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