How to Attract an Aries Man As a Sagittarius Woman

Written by Stina Garbis | Edited by Dan Hickey

Last Updated: March 22, 2024 Fact Checked

An Aries man is a bold, passionate, adventurous guy with an infectious love of life—no wonder you’re into him! As a Sagittarius woman, you have all the charm, energy, and wit to make him fall for you. You’re both enthusiastic fire signs with a lot in common, so he’ll fall for you in a heartbeat with the right approach. We’ve consulted astrology experts to find out exactly how a Sagittarius woman can attract an Aries man. If you’re ready to catch his eye, read on!

This article is based on an interview with our psychic astrologer, Stina Garbis, owner of Psychic Stina. Check out the full interview here.

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Get extra flirty.

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Aries is a bold, passionate sign that loves to flirt. Luckily for you, Sagittarius is the wittiest, most charming flirt in the zodiac! According to Astrologer Stina Garbis, "if you poke at an Aries lightly and flirtatiously, and make them a little mad, it might drive them wild." She also cautions that you shouldn't go too far with this tactic: "tread lightly, an Aries' anger is not something to toy with."Ref tag: ^{[1]
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Stina Garbis
Psychic Astrologer

Expert Interview} Dazzle him with your confidence and stories of your adventures. Aries is a fun sign that doesn’t take things too seriously, so let go and have fun with it.
- Aries men love to crack jokes. Butter him up by laughing with him and telling him how funny he is.
- Aries is a physical sign. Use seductive body language and a gentle touch, like stroking his arm or grazing his lower back, to heat things up.
- Tease him just a little to poke fun at his temper—he’ll think about you a lot and go wild with wanting to see you again. It may just turn into him asking you out on a date a few days later.
- Reader Poll: We asked 3543 wikiHow readers about how Aries men typically flirt, and only 9% said by flexing his muscles or showing his skin. [Take Poll] So, look for other signs that he’s flirting with you back, such as making intense eye contact.

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Let him make the first move.

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Play a little hard to get and he’ll pursue you relentlessly. An Aries guy naturally fills the role of the chaser. Make it a challenge to get to know the full you—his competitive nature will keep him chomping at the bit to win you over. Sagittarians tend to be open books, so resist the urge to spill your life story right away and gradually drop intriguing bits of information instead.
- Be careful not to seem too cold or distant. If he gets bored or disinterested in pursuing you, he’ll set his sights on someone else.
- Use flirty phrases like “I’ll tell you about that another time” or “That’s for me to know and you to find out” to drive him wild with curiosity.
- Be aloof when he wants to see you. If you make yourself available every single time he asks, he might think he’s got you all figured out already.

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Be his biggest admirer.

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According to Astrologer Stina Garbis, "Aries are into themselves. Whatever they like about themselves, or their adopted persona at the time, is what they are into. [...] I wouldn’t advise becoming a competitor to Aries and trying to do everything that they do, but rather, be a spectator or do something to complement them. Be their favorite fan or collaborator and cheer them on and they will love and adore you."^{[2]
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Stina Garbis
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Expert Interview} In short, Aries men love attention and need to be told how great they are. As a naturally supportive Sagittarius, be his biggest fan and cheer him on—he’ll love and adore you for it.

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Speak to him in "You Are" phrases.

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According to Astrologer Stina Garbis, "Aries' phrase is “I am.” So, if you start any sentence with them with,'You are…' [...] then you would be heading in the right direction." ^{[3]
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Stina Garbis
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Expert Interview} Try using “you are” phrases like:
- “You are so strong!”
- “You’re such an amazing cook. This is the best avocado toast I’ve ever had.’
- “You’re so good at parallel parking.”
- Bonus points if you can remember small details from previous conversations. It’ll show him you admire everything he says and that you’re truly his #1 fan!

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Highlight your feminine side.

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Refined, feminine beauty is a turn on for an Aries guy. Release your inner queen and strut with confidence in a nice dress or skirt to catch his eye. If you see your Aries man frequently, surprise him with a new outfit that stands out from the crowd or a fresh hair style to make him look twice.
- Fire sign men love bright colors, patterns, and unique accessories. Turn his head in a stunning bold print dress or dress up a casual look with sparkly, flashy jewelry.
- He needs someone that can balance out his more rugged, brash energy. Use your grace, beauty, and competence to be the perfect lady and dazzle him.

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Engage him in intelligent conversation.

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Aries men are very smart beneath their rough exterior. They can get bored in conversation easily, so keep him entertained with stories from your exciting life—places you’ve been, new things you’ve learned, or any wild ideas you have will keep him fascinated. As a Jupiter-ruled Sagittarius, you’ll have no problem letting your love of learning and wisdom shine.
- Mention one of his interests (“Did you see the Cubs game yesterday?”) or reveal one of your special talents (“I bet you didn’t know I could finish a Rubik’s Cube in 5 minutes!”) to kick things off.
- The faster the pace, the better. An Aries guy loves jumping around from topic to topic and doesn’t want to dwell on the same subject too long.
- Bring up topics you’re passionate about. When two fire signs converse about something they love, they won’t be able to stop!

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Instigate a lighthearted debate with him.

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An Aries man loves a mental challenge. Challenge him when you have differing opinions (or when you just want to playfully push his buttons a little bit). He can be stubborn and attached to his thoughts, so stick to light topics like the tastiest Skittles flavor or which subway route is the fastest. Watch the sparks fly while he gets worked up (and sees you as an attractive, formidable opponent).
- Stroke his ego by letting him “win” your debate (just this once!).
- End a debate with an Aries guy with “Let’s agree to disagree” or “I can see why you think that.” It’s a good way to stick to your guns while also conceding to him just a little bit.
- Aries and Sagittarius can both get sharp-tongued when they’re heated, so try to keep things on the cool side to avoid an actual fight by accident.

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Challenge him to a healthy competition.

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Both of you are competitive, especially Aries. Astrologer Stina Garbis explains, "Aries is ruled by the planet Mars, the god of war, so anyway to get their aggression out is where you will find Aries. They may be playing video games, practicing MMA, watching or participating in sports. Other ways to channel this energy can be seen in creative or competitive pursuits, acting, singing, theater, public speaking, social media."^{[4]
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Stina Garbis
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Expert Interview} Your competition could be anything from video games and sports to karaoke contests and social media challenges. Anything where he can prove himself will really get his heart pumping (for victory and for you!).
- Try flirty challenges like daring him to text you 5 selfies before 5pm or making him guess your favorite restaurant to keep his mind on you.
- An Aries man always wants to win, but only when it’s a real challenge. Put up a good fight and show him you’re a tough competitor too!

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Exude confidence and strength.

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An Aries man loves a strong woman who knows who she is. A Sagittarius gal is perfect for this—you’re independent, follow your heart, and won’t let a man change you. Demonstrate your strong sense of self by succeeding at work, standing up for yourself, and living by your personal values.^{[5]
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- Show him you’re a strong woman who can take care of herself with or without him. Your charisma and assuredness are like an Aries magnet!
- Don’t be afraid to challenge him when you disagree with him. The Ram likes to butt heads and loves sparring with a woman who can hold her own.
- You can be vulnerable on occasion—an Aries guy has a secret tender side that wants to take care of you. Let him be your knight in shining armor from time to time by asking for his help.

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Keep it real.

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Aries values honesty and Sagittarius is the perfect sign to give it to him. Your “what you see is what you get” openness is exactly what an Aries man needs to feel like he can trust you. You both value integrity and the truth and can grow closer over this shared value. Plus, what better way to get to know each other than by being honest?
- A Sagittarius's honesty can be blunt or brutal at times. Be tactful when you’re making an observation and consider putting a filter on it to avoid offending your Aries man.

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Go on adventurous dates.

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Satisfy his need for novelty and excitement with out-of-the-box activities. Aries craves an athletic adventure, and you have an urge to see and experience everything. Pick something active, like hiking a new trail, playing recreational sports, or screaming your head off at an amusement park. The more unusual and physical, the better!
- Bonding over your mutual love of adventure seeking is a great way to grow his attraction to you and learn more about each other.
- He’ll want to be the fearless leader on whatever adventure you go on. Let him take the reins for a while and enjoy how attentive to you he can be.

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Be spontaneous.

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Aries men like being a little impulsive and impromptu. He can be extremely impatient and wants immediate gratification. Astrologer Stina Garbis cautions, "if an Aries is spending time with you, that's another indicator that they are interested in you. Aries loves attention and they will go where they find it." ^{[6]
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Expert Interview} Boredom is his biggest enemy, so surprise him with spontaneous nights out, last-minute tickets to go see his favorite band, or an unexpected small gift. The more stimulated he is around you, the harder he’ll fall for you.
- Spontaneity in the bedroom is important to him too. If your relationship has gotten physical, initiate intimacy in new locations or at unexpected moments to hook him on you.

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Give him plenty of space.

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Your Aries guy needs room to explore and feel secure in his independence. He likes someone that can understand that and expects his potential partner to be independent and take care of themselves too. This is great news for a Sagittarius suitor—you’re not one to get clingy and you need space to roam and learn as well. Let him run free and he’ll give you the same in return.^{[7]
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- An Aries will always respect your need for space because he needs it too. He wants to feel like he’s equals with his partner this way.
- Don’t take it personally if he wants a day to himself. He just needs time to decompress and tend to his hobbies. He’ll be thrilled to catch up with you later!
- Too much texting or checking in might make him feel claustrophobic. Let him be the one to reach out to you from time to time.

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Compatibility for Aries and Sagittarius

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Remember, your Aries man is an individual. He might share some common characteristics of an Aries sun sign, but you should focus on getting to know him as a person to attract him most effectively.

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