How to Attract an Aquarius Man As a Gemini Woman

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Last Updated: April 14, 2025 References

Few signs are as compatible as Aquarius and Gemini—lucky for you! As air signs, you're both some of the most individual and eclectic personalities of the zodiac. This means that it's really easy to attract an Aquarius man as long as you let your beautiful, unique Gemini personality shine through. Read on for some great tips to hook your Aquarian guy.

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Start your relationship as friends.

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Friendship is crucial to most Aquarians, so really get to know him.^{[1]
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- This is a lot easier to do if you have mutual friends since you can spend time getting to know each other without the pressure of spending time one-on-one.

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Look your best and switch up your style.

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Aquarians love being surprised and he'll love seeing your wardrobe change. Since you're also an air sign, you probably love eclectic or funky outfits. So does he! Don't be afraid to try out new looks every time you see him. He'll love the fact that he can't pin you or your style down.^{[3]
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- Not sure what colors to wear? Why not try them all? He'd probably love bright colors like bold blues and yellows.

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Be witty and outgoing around him.

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Aquarians are usually nervous about flirting, so you need to initiate it. Since they find romantic situations awkward, just approach your guy casually. Start hinting that you find him interesting and then make your intentions clear. Try to be as original as possible so you really get his attention.^{[4]
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- For example, you might say, "I think you scared off all those people when you brought up politics. I'm still here though. Want to grab a drink and talk some more?"
- Pique his curiosity by saying something like, "I don't know if you know anything about auras, but I think yours is beautiful."

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Have stimulating conversations.

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The way to an Aquarian's heart is through his mind, so talk with him. As a Gemini, you have the advantage of being able to keep up with his rapid changes in the subject. Let him see that you're not afraid to talk about challenging topics. Your smarts and willingness to engage in conversation will make him obsessed.^{[5]
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- Not sure what topics to bring up? You'll put him at ease if you start talking about the latest technology. Aquarians are tech-savvy and always keep up with the latest innovations.^{[6]
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- Reader Poll: We asked 920 wikiHow readers if they think Geminis are generally attracted to people who are curious, and 59% of them said yes. [Take Poll] So, it's no surprise that you're attracted to an interesting Aquarian.

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Show off your fun and social side.

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Aquarians love to be around people who are entertaining, so let your charisma shine! Even though he might love to be in a group, he may feel like a loner—this is a typical Aquarian trait. To put him at ease, be witty or humorous, and be as outgoing as possible. These are all things you excel in as a Gemini.
- Lighten the mood by telling a funny story or a hilarious childhood memory for instance.

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Let him see that you’re spontaneous.

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Excitement and adventure are huge attractions for Aquarians! Make a point of always saying yes to trying something new—he'll see that you aren't someone who's caught up in their routine. As a Gemini, you probably find it pretty easy to adapt to new or challenging situations, so really lean into spontaneity!
- You don't have to wait for him to ask you to do something off the wall. If you do something crazy or novel, tell him about it. For instance, you might describe a helicopter ride you just took, an escape room you successfully broke out of, or a haunted underground tour you went on.

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Reveal your unique personality.

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Aquarians love seeing someone is true to themselves. It's super important in your case—as a Gemini, you and your Aquarius guy have similar traits. Since you're both air signs, you're known for your totally original viewpoints and your keen intellect. Just be yourself and watch the sparks fly!
- Don't forget to appreciate him for who he is, too. He'll feel comfortable and relaxed if he knows that you aren't trying to change him.

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Be kind and caring to others.

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Humanitarian efforts are vital to Aquarians, so let him see your compassion. Nothing turns off an Aquarian faster than realizing that someone's self-centered. Find ways to improve the lives of people in your community or be part of a worldwide effort to bring positive change. Tell him about your efforts or try to get him involved with you.
- For instance, let him know about a petition that you're collecting signatures for or ask him to come with you to donate blood.

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Give each other personal space.

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Your Aquarian man needs some alone time, so give him room. You probably need it, too since you're also an air sign. Time apart gives both of you the chance to reflect and reset, so you're energized when you meet back up. It also proves to him that you're not clingy—something that the Aquarius sign fears.
- It's totally okay to tell him that you're busy or you need some "me time." He'll understand and think it's pretty cool that you value your own space.

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Stay calm if you have a disagreement.

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Aquarians dislike drama, so stay calm when you're working through an argument. As a Gemini, this can be a little tricky for you since you usually feel a rollercoaster of emotions. Try to evaluate how you're feeling during an argument and think before you respond to him.
- If your talk is starting to get heated, you may want to say, "I think I need to think for a while before we talk some more."

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Give him time to open up emotionally.

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Aquarians don't want to feel rushed, so don't expect heartfelt conversations. In fact, your guy would rather that you don't have any expectations about your relationship. Instead, you could focus on your shared need for complete acceptance. Love him for his emotional reserve and he'll notice.
- It's almost impossible to force a romantic discussion with an Aquarian. He's a fixed sign, so he's a creature of habit. Since you're a mutable sign, you're a bit more flexible. You'll just need to be understanding.
- Over time, he'll learn that he can trust you. Loyalty is huge for an Aquarian, so let him see that you've always got his back.

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Are Gemini and Aquarius a good fit romantically?

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Gemini and Aquarius are very compatible romantically. As air signs, they have a lot in common, and they naturally understand each other. Both signs are known for being intelligent and interested in learning more about the world, so they connect on an intellectual level. They also both have great communication skills, so they can have some pretty amazing conversations together.

Both Aquarius and Gemini also tend to be more comfortable in the realm of the mind, rather than the realm of emotions. This works out pretty well for them, since neither one pushes the other to be more emotional or vulnerable than they’re comfortable with. Overall, the similarities between these signs makes them a very harmonious pairing.

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How do you make an Aquarius fall in love with you again?

Stina Garbis
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Reverend Stina Garbis is a Psychic Astrologer and the Owner of Psychic Stina. With over 30 years of experience, she specializes in providing personal and professional advice through astrology and tarot card readings. Reverend Stina has experience working with high-profile celebrities, sports figures, politicians, and CEOs. She has been featured in many publications, including Bustle, Vice, The New York Post, and Readers’ Digest and she also has a 200k+ following on TikTok. Stina holds an Ordained Minister License from The International Metaphysical Ministry University Seminary.

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Try going to their house and surprising them in a seductive way! This will possibly drive an Aquarius to want to spend time with you!. A new haircut can also get this sign to pay attention to you again.

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