How to Attract a Pisces Man As a Sagittarius Woman

Co-authored by Angel Eyedealism and Jennifer Mueller, JD

Last Updated: August 16, 2024 References

If you're a Sagittarius woman with your sights set on a Pisces man, it might seem at first glance as though the two of you have nothing in common. But nothing could be further from the truth! Since both of your signs are ruled by the planet Jupiter, you have the souls of explorers. Together, you can build a strong, solid relationship. Read on to find out the best ways to attract that dreamy Piscean and keep him hooked on you.

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Strike up a conversation with him.

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Pisces men are typically pretty introverted and won't approach you first. As an outgoing Sagittarius woman, you have no problem walking up to anyone and starting a conversation. The dreamy Pisces actually loves to talk, he's just not usually one to make the first move. If you approach him, he'll be interested in getting to know more about you.^{[1]
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- Basic conversation starters work great! You might ask him about his favorite place, his favorite books or music, anything that will get him going.
- He loves talking about ideas, hopes, and dreams—he's a little more abstract in his approach than you might be, but you'll find lots to talk about.
- The fact that you have differences makes your conversations more lively and interesting.
- However, try not to come on too strong and make him feel uncomfortable. Since Pisces men aren’t super social by nature, they may initially feel intimidated by someone who’s really outgoing and extroverted.
- Reader Poll: We asked 816 wikiHow readers who are Pisces, and only 4% said their biggest deal breaker is their partner being less social than them. [Take Poll]

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Ask him to help you with something.

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It makes a Pisces man happy to help you in some way. As a Sagittarius woman, you get excited about learning and trying new things. Start something you know your Pisces guy is already into, then ask him to help you out. He'll be more than willing to help you out and he'll definitely want to follow up on your progress.^{[2]
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- For example, if you know that he's a tech guy, you might ask him to give you a hand in building a website for your new blog or business. He'll be fascinated by your drive and ambition and want to stay connected to you.

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Support his dreams and ideas.

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Pisceans are dreamers with big imaginations. If you really want to win the heart of a Pisces man, express admiration for his dreams. Others may have ridiculed his dreams in the past and he'll be over the moon for you if you show support. As a more practical Sagittarius woman, you might even help him figure out how to get his dreams off the ground.
- Pisces guys are often very creative as well. If he's an artist or musician, express interest in his work! He'll definitely want to keep you close if you gush over his creations.

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Toss on a turquoise accessory.

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The Fish is attracted to turquoise, the color of the sea. A Water sign, Pisces is also co-ruled by Neptune, which is associated with the sea. As an active Sagittarius woman, your style tends to float towards comfort over making a fashion statement.^{[3]
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Research source} Although you're not usually one for jewelry, a turquoise bracelet or pendant will draw that Pisces guy's eye your way.
- Something in a classic style will appeal to your own fashion sense as well. Choose something you can wear as a signature piece whenever you're around him.

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Go to botanical gardens together.

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Pisces guys love nature. He has a natural green thumb but isn't necessarily the most active person. A walk through the local botanical gardens or nature center is just his cup of tea. This gives you plenty of time to talk as you walk together so you can get to know him a little bit better, and he'll love learning more about local plants and wildlife.
- Sagittarius is a Fire sign, which means you're a pretty active, energetic woman. If this date feels a little too mellow for your taste, you might consider going fruit picking. Many farms offer this during the harvest season and it can be a fun date.
- Pisces is also interested in music, art, and culture.^{[4]
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  Expert Interview} Set up a date for a concert, gallery opening, or museum if that's more your style.

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Keep your plans flexible.

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A Pisces man typically prefers to go with the flow. He's not one for being trapped in a rigid schedule.^{[5]
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Expert Interview} You're both mutable signs, which means you're both inherently flexible. Here, you're in your comfort zone. As a Sagittarius, you tend to be pretty impulsive, so it's not going to bother you to go out without a strict timetable.
- For example, if you're going on a date, you might plan to meet him at a café or pub, then talk about places you might go from there. Something might come up that you both think is interesting.
- Giving yourselves freedom lets you take advantage of experiences that you might just happen upon. You might try a walk around a neighborhood together just to see what catches your eye.

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Use grace and tact when being critical.

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Your Sagittarian bluntness can hurt the emotional Pisces. You're known to be very direct, which the Pisces man does appreciate—but it can come at a cost. As a Water sign, he's very emotional and sensitive.^{[6]
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Expert Interview} Sometimes, your words can cut to the core, so take a moment to choose your words carefully and he'll love that you take his feelings into account.
- This doesn't mean you have to choose between being honest and sparing his feelings—you just need to learn a little tact.
- Say the two of you have just finished a garlic-heavy dinner and he goes in for a kiss. Rather than blurting out, "Your breath stinks," you might pull out some mints and say, "After that delicious dinner, I think we could both probably use a little freshening up."

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Be open and honest.

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The key phrase for Pisces is "I believe," so he needs to believe in you. For a Pisces, no relationship is complete unless he's certain of his partner's honesty and sincerity. Since Sagittarians are known for their brutal honesty, this shouldn't be any problem for you. But you have to be careful to frame your truth in a way that shows the utmost respect and care for his feelings.
- He'll be more attracted to you if he knows he can trust you to be loyal to him and forgiving of his faults.

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Advise him on decisions.

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An indecisive Pisces man needs a good sounding board. Pisceans naturally want others to help them make decisions. As an Archer, you tend to be good at focusing on a target and finding the right pathway to achieve it. He'll love your practicality and your ability to cut through the noise to find solutions to problems.^{[7]
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- Let him know that he can always talk to you—he'll appreciate that you're interested in helping him out and that you want to support him.

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Take a trip to the beach.

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A Pisces guy is in his element near the sea. If you two live near the coast, a day trip to the beach might be just the thing to get that Fish hooked on you for good. As a Sagittarian, you're active and energetic, so you'll have plenty to do as well.
- If the two of you have been seeing each other for a while, you might even spring for a weekend couple's getaway.

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Keep things casual.

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Pisces men generally aren't looking to be tied down. A Piscean guy is not one to fall in love at first sight, either. Although he's deeply emotional, he tends to take love very seriously and approaches it with caution.^{[8]
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Research source} This suits you just fine, since you Sagittarians like your freedom and independence.
- Ultimately, the two of you might even decide that you would prefer to maintain an open relationship. You're generally open to non-exclusive arrangements, although you need to make sure you both trust each other before you try to go that route.

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