Sweet & Spicy Truth or Dare Questions to Ask Your Boyfriend

Looking to learn more about your other half and keep the spark alive? If so, we’ve got you covered! Truth or Dare is a classic way to get to know someone better, but it’s even more exciting when you play with your boyfriend. In this article, we’re providing the ultimate list of romantic and spicy questions to deepen your relationship and get both of your hearts racing (even if you’re not in the same room). Plus, we’ll give you some expert advice from dating coach Laura Bilotta on how to play Truth or Dare in a way that benefits your relationship.

The Best Truth or Dare Questions for Your Boyfriend

Truth: When do I look the most attractive?
Dare: Send me a flirty text only using emojis.
Truth: Where’s your favorite place to be kissed?
Dare: Pretend you don’t know me, and try to pick me up.
Truth: What’s your favorite memory of us?
Dare: Strip down to your underwear for the rest of the game.
Truth: What’s the most annoying thing I do?
Dare: Sing a romantic song for me.

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Flirty Truth Questions

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Dole out some flirty truth questions to heat things up. If you and your boyfriend have been together for a while, getting yourselves back in flirtation mode can help to reignite your spark!^{[1]
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- When do you feel the sexiest?
- When do I look the most attractive?
- What song puts you in the mood?
- What’s something non-sexual that turns you on?
- What turns you on?
- What’s your biggest turn-off?
- What’s your favorite thing I do in bed?
- What’s your favorite body part of mine?
- What’s your biggest guilty pleasure?
- What outfit do I look the sexiest in?
- Do you ever clear your search history?
- Have you ever been in a secret relationship?
- Have you ever been turned on at work?
- What’s your favorite place to be kissed?
Meet the wikiHow Expert

Laura Bilotta is a dating coach, matchmaker, and the founder of Single in the City, a Toronto-based dating and relationship coaching service.

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Flirty Dares

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Pose some flirty dares that are sure to make your man blush. Ready to start heating things up while still keeping things PG? These flirty dares are fun, cute, silly, sensual, and a perfect activity for any date night:^{[2]
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- Send me a sexy photo of yourself that I’ve never seen.
- Send me a video of yourself performing a sexy dance.
- Send me a sexy audio message.
- Send me a flirty text only using emojis.
- Let me go through your search history.
- Play me a song that puts you in the mood.
- Pretend you don’t know me, and try to pick me up.
- Order a sexy outfit for me online.
- Try to find my most ticklish spot.
- Pretend to be my pet for the next 10 minutes.
- Do as many pushups as you can with me sitting on you.
- Recreate a couple’s yoga pose with me.
- Spell the alphabet on your favorite part of my body.
- Describe your biggest turn-on without naming it.
- “Accidentally” text your sibling a sexy message.
- Make me a dating profile on Tinder.

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Spicy Truth Questions

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Bring some steamy and suggestive truth questions to the table. These spicy truth questions are a little crazy, a little controversial, and a little dirty—perfect for your Truth or Dare game! Take a peek into your boyfriend’s psyche with one of the truth questions below…if you dare (get it?).^{[3]
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- Have you ever been caught in action? If so, by who?
- Have you ever gone skinny dipping?
- Do you prefer giving or receiving?
- What’s your biggest sexual fantasy?
- What are your thoughts on open relationships?
- What’s your most awkward or embarrassing sexual experience?
- Where’s the craziest place you’ve had sex?
- How would you define cheating?
- Where’s your favorite place to be kissed?
- What was your sexual awakening?
- What’s the biggest lie you’ve ever told an ex?
- Who’s your celebrity hall pass?
- Have you ever sent a dirty text to the wrong person?
- If you woke up like me tomorrow, what’s the first thing you would do?
- Would you rather give up kissing or sex?
- Would you rather have average sex every day or incredible sex once a month?
- Do you prefer being dominant or submissive?
- What’s your favorite position?
- Do you prefer morning sex or night sex?

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Spicy Dares

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Turn things up a notch with some dirty dares. Alright, we’re moving from PG to PG-13 and for adults only! If you’re up to the challenge of some seriously spicy activities, these incredible dare ideas will help you and your boo grow a lot closer and push things just a wee bit farther:^{[4]
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- Try to turn me on without touching me.
- Give me your best sexy crawl.
- Make out with an object in your room.
- Pick one piece of clothing you want me to take off.
- Perform a striptease for me.
- Call your friend and moan in the middle of the conversation.
- Call your friend and describe your biggest turn-on.
- Leave your friend a spicy voicemail.
- Describe the hottest dream you’ve had about me.
- Strip down to your underwear for the rest of the game.
- Spell a word on my body, using your tongue.
- Let me shave one part of your body.
- Switch outfits with me (including underwear).
- Create an outfit with anything but clothes.
- Lick whipped cream off my body.
- Hold an ice cube between your teeth and run it across my neck.
- Write my name on your chest and send me a photo.
- Kiss your favorite part of my body.
- Take off one piece of my clothing with your teeth.
- Eat food of your choice in the most seductive way possible.
- Give me a lap dance.

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Romantic Truth Questions

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Learn everything about your relationship with lovey-dovey truths. From his first impression of you to his favorite relationship memory, you probably want to know everything your S.O. thinks about you and your romantic connection. Have no fear—these romantic truths will get you the answers you need:^{[5]
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- What’s your love language?
- What’s the first thing you noticed about me?
- What’s your favorite thing we do together?
- What’s your favorite memory of us?
- What’s the most annoying thing I do?
- What’s your favorite thing about me?
- When was your first kiss?
- What’s your biggest red flag in a relationship?
- What’s the most romantic gift you’ve ever received?
- Do you believe in soulmates? Do you believe in love at first sight?
- How would you approach me if we weren’t dating?
- Do you think age gaps matter in a relationship?
- When did you realize you really liked me?
- What’s the most embarrassing thing you’ve ever done to get someone’s attention?
- What’s a secret you’ve never told anyone?
- What’s your biggest fear about our relationship?
- How did you know I was attracted to you?
- What’s your favorite meal that I cook?
- What was your longest relationship?
- What’s the most childish thing you’ve ever done in a relationship?
- When was the first time you fell in love?

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Romantic Dares

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Get yourself swooning all over again with romantic dares for your bf. It can be hard in a long-term relationship to remember to infuse every day with a little bit of romance—that’s where we step in!^{[6]
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- Tell me something you’ve never told anyone before.
- Send me the most embarrassing photo of yourself.
- Record an ASMR video for me.
- Write me a romantic poem.
- Draw a portrait of me.
- Tell me about your first crush.
- Do your best impression of me.
- Sing a romantic song for me.
- Braid my hair.
- Give me a foot massage.
- Let me give you a makeover.
- Act out your favorite romantic scene with me.

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Flirty Dares to Send Over Text

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Keep the fun coming (no matter where you are) with these text-friendly dares. Whether you’re in a long-distance relationship or just have to spend a night apart from your guy, you can still send some double dog dares over the phone! Keep things sweet, spicy, and hilarious with any of these text message dares for your boyfriend:^{[8]
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- Send me the last note you wrote on your Notes app.
- Send a flirty DM to your celebrity crush (and send me a screenshot).
- Soft-launch our relationship on Instagram.
- Send me a screenshot of the last 5 things you bought on Amazon.
- Send me the last screenshot you took on your phone.
- Draw my name somewhere visible on your body with a Sharpie.
- Get on the ground and do 10 push-ups right now.
- Write a romantic haiku and put it on your Instagram story.
- Film a 30-second ASMR video for me.
- Reenact how you like to kiss me on FaceTime.
- Reader Poll: We asked 208 wikiHow readers if they text their partner every day, and 75% of them said that yes, they do. [Take Poll] These dares can help to spice up your daily messages!

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Expert Tips for Playing Truth or Dare with Your Boyfriend

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Playing Truth or Dare with your boyfriend can be super fun and flirty—and it can really help you bond as a couple! However, asking tough questions or posing risky dares can lead to some uncomfortable situations if mutually agreed-upon rules aren’t stated ahead of time. Before kicking off the game with your boo, Bilotta recommends taking the following steps:^{[9]
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- Establish boundaries: “Before starting the game,” says Bilotta, “discuss what topics are off-limits or uncomfortable for each of you. This can include things like past relationships or personal traumas.”^{[10]
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- Keep it light: “Focus on fun and playful dares,” continues Bilotta, “rather than embarrassing or risky ones. You can dare your partner to do something silly or make a funny face instead of asking them to reveal their deepest secrets.”^{[11]
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- Use the “skip” option: If a truth question is too personal or uncomfortable, Bilotta advises to “use the ‘skip’ option and move on to the next question.”^{[12]
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- Respect each other’s comfort level: If your partner doesn’t want to answer a truth question or do a dare, Bilotta asserts that you should “respect their boundaries and move on to something else.”^{[13]
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- Have fun! “Remember that the goal of the game is to have fun and strengthen your bond with your partner,” Bilotta concludes, “so keep it light-hearted and enjoyable for both of you.”^{[14]
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