Comforting a baby that won’t stop crying can be frustrating and exhausting, but try not to feel helpless. It’s normal for newborns up to 4 months old to have colic, which means they cry uncontrollably for no apparent reason, sometimes for hours at a time. While watching your baby cry can be scary, colic doesn’t harm your baby and isn’t a medical concern. Fortunately, you may be able to calm your baby naturally with soothing remedies and aids in digestion. You should talk to your doctor if your baby may be injured, sick, or if your baby isn’t gaining weight.

Method 1
Method 1 of 4:

Changing Your Baby’s Eating Habits

  1. Your baby will generally let you know when they’re hungry by smacking their lips, making sucking sounds, or getting fussy. Try feeding them half the amount of formula or breastmilk you normally would, waiting 15 minutes, and then giving them the other half. This could help their digestion hurt less.[1]

    Did You Know? Most babies under 4 months need to nurse or eat at least 8-12 times per day.

  2. After feedings, prop your baby upright on your shoulder for about half an hour to help their stomach digest the formula or milk. Wait at least half an hour after they eat to lay them down on their back. This should prevent your baby from spitting up the milk they’ve just eaten.[2]
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  3. Try burping every 2-3 oz (59.14-88.72 mL) if you’re using formula, or each time you switch breasts if you’re nursing. Hold your baby upright on your shoulder and pat them gently on the back until you hear them burp.[3]
    • Your baby may spit up when you burp them. Keep a rag nearby in case that happens.
  4. Chocolate, coffee, and caffeinated tea all act as stimulants and can be passed on to your baby through breastmilk. Try not to eat these foods if you are still breastfeeding so your baby’s sleep cycle doesn’t get disrupted.[4]
    • Herbal teas are almost all caffeine-free if you need a replacement.
  5. Since your baby is so young, it’s hard to tell what they are allergic to. Dairy products and nuts are the 2 most common allergens, and your baby could be allergic to them. Try cutting these out of your diet for about 2 weeks to see if it calms you baby down.[5]
    • Check with your doctor before you make changes to your diet to ensure you’re still getting enough essential nutrients from what you eat.
  6. Hydrolysate formula contains already-broken-down milk proteins, which should help your baby’s digestion. If an allergy is causing your baby’s colic, you’ll notice improvement 2 days after changing formulas. Check with your doctor before you make this switch.[6]
    • You can also try a soy-based formula, but this may also cause allergies in your baby. Follow your doctor’s recommendations for which products you should try.
  7. If babies struggle to get milk through nipples with small openings, they may suck too much air into their bellies along with their food. Nipples with larger openings should allow your baby to suck gently and evenly.
  8. Simethicone drops are available over the counter and help to relieve painful gas and digestion in infants. Use a 20 mg dose up to 4 times a day when your baby becomes fussy after feeding times.[7]
    • Make sure the drops you buy are marketed toward infants so they don’t contain harmful chemicals.
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Comforting Your Baby

  1. Lay out a square blanket and fold the top corner down, then place your baby on top of it with their head at the folded corner. Keep your baby’s arms at their sides and then fold the sides of the blanket over their body, tucking in their arms. This could help your baby avoid overstimulation, which may be the source of their colic.[8]
    • Being swaddled is very soothing for babies and may help them fall asleep.
  2. Fill a small tub with 2 to 3 inches (5.1 to 7.6 cm) of warm water. Use a washcloth to gently sponge your baby with the warm water all over their body for 10 to 15 minutes. Try keeping them upright in the bath to help their digestion at the same time.[9]
    • The warmth from a bath could ease any digestive discomfort your baby is experiencing.
    • Don’t give your baby a full bath until after their umbilical cord falls off, which is usually about 2 to 3 weeks after birth. Until then, limit them to sponge baths.
  3. Your baby’s constant crying could be happening for any number of reasons. Let your baby know that you’re there for them by keeping them close to your body. They’ll respond positively to the feel of your body heat, heartbeat, and the sound of your voice.[10]

    Tip: Try wearing an infant carrier that secures around your body to give your arms a break.

  4. Place your baby tummy-side-up on your lap. Imagine an upside-down U on your baby’s abdomen, and use baby-safe massage oil to very gently rub your baby’s belly in clockwise, circular motions along the line of the imaginary U. You can also try simply pressing your hand with very low pressure into your baby’s tense belly as you lean them forward from your lap.[11]
    • Wait at least half an hour before massaging your baby's belly so that it doesn't upset their stomach.
  5. Run a washcloth under lukewarm water from your sink and wring out the excess. Place the rag on your baby’s bare belly to simulate the feeling of warmth and comfort they had in the womb. Keep the rag on their stomach until it starts to cool down, then take it off.[12]
    • Make sure you don’t use hot water, which could burn your baby’s delicate skin.
  6. Some babies appreciate having something to suck on when they aren’t eating. Try putting the tip of a clean pacifier in your baby’s mouth to see if they latch on. If they don’t, take the pacifier away and try it again later.[13]
    • If your baby is hungry, sucking on a pacifier might make them angry since they are expecting food.
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Method 3
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Soothing Your Baby with Motion and Sounds

  1. The combination of gentle motion from your walking and the baby’s upright position should help them digest and release painful gas. You can also try gently rocking or bouncing your baby as you walk.[14]
    • Hold your baby tightly to comfort them with a hug while you walk.
    • You can also try walking around with your baby around the block or through a park for some fresh air.
    • Put your baby in a stroller on long walks to give your arms a break.
  2. Driving slowly with your baby in the car may provide them with the precise motion they need to calm down and relax. Be careful not to overuse this method, however, as it can quickly become a waste of gas.[15]

    Warning: Avoid driving when you’re overtired. This will only put you and your baby in danger.

  3. Some babies may need background noise to avoid overstimulation. Try using instrumental music, heartbeat sounds, or nature noises to soothe your baby and keep them quiet.[16]
    • Try not to turn the music or sounds up too loud, or you could overstimulate your baby.
  4. Music may be too much for some babies, and you may get tired of hearing the same songs over and over again. Household products can provide you with alternatives, although you may need help to run the vacuum while holding your baby.[17]
    • White noise can also give you a break from the noise of your baby’s crying.
  5. If music or white noise doesn't comfort your little one, they could be craving silence. Snuggle your baby and sit in a dark, quiet room like their nursery or your own bedroom to see if they calm down.[18]
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When to Seek Medical Care

  1. Caring for a baby that won’t stop crying is really difficult, so you likely want to try any treatment that might help. However, some remedies aren’t safe or may not be effective. Talk to your doctor about the benefits and risks of the treatments you want to try. Then, ask them if these treatments are safe for your baby.[19]
    • For instance, gripe water is a home remedy that's been around for years. While some people swear by it, there's no actual evidence that it works.
    • Keep in mind that homeopathic remedies typically aren’t scientifically tested, so there’s no proof that they work.
  2. In most cases, colic isn’t a sign of a medical condition. However, babies also cry when they’re hurt or sick. If you suspect your baby’s crying might be caused by an ailment, take them in for a checkup to make sure they’re okay.[20]

    Warning: Your baby may be sick if they have a fever over 100.4 °F (38.0 °C), they are vomiting, they have diarrhea, or they can’t sleep. [21]

  3. Colic shouldn’t cause any health concerns for your baby, including poor weight gain. If your baby is having trouble getting milk or is not gaining weight, there may be something else wrong. Try not to worry because your doctor can help. Tell them about your concerns so you can help your baby gain weight.[22]
    • You may be able to work with a lactation specialist if you’re breastfeeding your baby. Otherwise, your doctor might recommend another type of nipple for the baby's bottle if you're feeding them formula.
  4. It’s very stressful to care for a baby who has colic, and it’s totally normal to feel upset, frustrated, and sad. You may need extra support while your baby goes through this phase. Talk to your doctor about your options or get a referral to a therapist, who can help you cope.[23]
    • It’s common for parents of colicky babies to feel depressed, exhausted, and helpless. These feelings can be really hard to deal with on your own, so don’t hesitate to ask for help. Things will get better.
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    Can I make my own gripe water?
    Joel Warsh, MD
    Joel Warsh, MD
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    Dr. Joel Warsh is a board certified Pediatrician and the Owner & Founder of Integrative Pediatrics and Medicine in Los Angeles, California. With over a decade of experience, Dr. Warsh specializes in holistic and integrative medicine. He holds a Bachelor’s degree in Kinesiology and Health Sciences, a Master’s degree in Epidemiology and Community Health, and a Doctor of Medicine (MD) from Thomas Jefferson Medical College, where he was elected president of the Jefferson Pediatric Society. Dr. Warsh then completed his Pediatric Residency at Children’s Hospital of Los Angeles (CHLA), where he received the George Donnell Society Research Fellow.
    Joel Warsh, MD
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    You can certainly make gripe water yourself, or you can buy it at the store. The benefit of making it yourself is that it won't have any preservatives, although this also means it won't last as long as what you buy at a store.
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    Is it okay to try gripe water before I give my baby medicine?
    Joel Warsh, MD
    Joel Warsh, MD
    Board Certified Pediatrician
    Dr. Joel Warsh is a board certified Pediatrician and the Owner & Founder of Integrative Pediatrics and Medicine in Los Angeles, California. With over a decade of experience, Dr. Warsh specializes in holistic and integrative medicine. He holds a Bachelor’s degree in Kinesiology and Health Sciences, a Master’s degree in Epidemiology and Community Health, and a Doctor of Medicine (MD) from Thomas Jefferson Medical College, where he was elected president of the Jefferson Pediatric Society. Dr. Warsh then completed his Pediatric Residency at Children’s Hospital of Los Angeles (CHLA), where he received the George Donnell Society Research Fellow.
    Joel Warsh, MD
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    If your baby's symptoms are minor, it's a good idea to try gripe water first, because gripe water has minimal side effects.
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    What's in gripe water?
    Joel Warsh, MD
    Joel Warsh, MD
    Board Certified Pediatrician
    Dr. Joel Warsh is a board certified Pediatrician and the Owner & Founder of Integrative Pediatrics and Medicine in Los Angeles, California. With over a decade of experience, Dr. Warsh specializes in holistic and integrative medicine. He holds a Bachelor’s degree in Kinesiology and Health Sciences, a Master’s degree in Epidemiology and Community Health, and a Doctor of Medicine (MD) from Thomas Jefferson Medical College, where he was elected president of the Jefferson Pediatric Society. Dr. Warsh then completed his Pediatric Residency at Children’s Hospital of Los Angeles (CHLA), where he received the George Donnell Society Research Fellow.
    Joel Warsh, MD
    Board Certified Pediatrician
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    There's a wide range of ingredients in gripe water, but the main ones are usually fennel, dill, ginger, and cinnamon.
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