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Wondering if the girl you’re dating qualifies as basic? Are you curious if you’re a basic girl yourself? While the idea of being basic is a little flexible, it generally refers to anyone who has a mainstream, unoriginal, and mid-American vibe. We’re here to break down what makes someone basic to begin with so that you can keep an eye out for all of the classic signs. Keep in mind that there isn’t really anything wrong with being basic. Even if certain women dress, look, and act the same way, everyone is a unique person with their own lived experiences.
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Community Q&A
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QuestionWhat should I do if my girlfriend is basic?NicoTop AnswererYou shouldn't really "do" anything. If she's just being herself, doing what she likes, and she's considered to be "basic," break up with her if you don't like the way she is. If you decide to stay with her, accept who she is. Don't try to change a woman or confront her because she's "basic". Remember, being basic is just an internet insult used on girls who like fancy coffee, wear Forever 21 clothing, and listen to to the newest music. Even if your girlfriend is basic, treat her with respect.
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It's hurtful to call someone "basic" or "a basic b***h" simply because they do specific things or like certain stuff, so remember this.Thanks
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Simply because someone does one, more, or multiple of the things listed here, doesn't mean you should insult them or call them "basic". Everybody is different and has unique interests, but they should be treated equally, and not as an internet insult.Thanks
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Don't trash talk someone who is "basic" or gossip about them. This is hurtful and unkind. A "basic" person is still a person.Thanks
References
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/wander-woman/201011/the-fine-art-of-female-assertiveness
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/inviting-monkey-tea/201604/when-posting-our-life-is-more-important-living-it
- ↑ https://www.scienceofpeople.com/fashion-psychology/
- ↑ https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3741536/
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/people-are-strange/202106/why-rewatching-tv-shows-feels-so-good
- ↑ https://psychcentral.com/blog/what-does-your-coffee-reveal-about-you
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/stuck/201303/women-and-food-complicated-love-story
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/the-introverts-corner/201303/how-score-extrovert
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/freedom-grieve/201501/how-live-love-and-laugh