How to Set Up a Romantic Bedroom for Him

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1 Make the bed with satin, dark-colored sheets.

2 Hang a mirror in the bedroom.

3 Sprinkle rose petals on the bed.

4 Dim the lights.

5 Light lavender or vanilla scented candles.

6 Turn on some romantic music.

7 Place a love letter on his pillow.

8 Decorate the bedroom like a movie scene.

9 Add curtains to windows.

10 Set out a tasty dinner and decadent dessert.

11 Wear something soft and sexy.

12 Offer him a massage.

13 Give him a gift.

14 Listen to his love language.

15 Clean the bedroom.

16 Remove any and all distractions.

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Co-authored by Maya Diamond, MA and Aly Rusciano

Last Updated: March 16, 2025 Fact Checked

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Looking to add a little romance to your evening? Your partner means the world to you, and what better way to show him how much you appreciate him than by spicing things up in the bedroom. There’s no need to head to a hotel—you can make the romantic bedroom of his dreams right at home! We’ve got all the tips and tricks you need to decorate for your special evening. Keep reading to learn how you can set up a romantic bedroom that’ll make him swoon.

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Make the bed with satin, dark-colored sheets.

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   Lure him in with the soft texture of satin sheets. You’re going to be spending most of your evening in this bed, so the more luxurious, the better! Take the extra time to fluff the pillows and tighten the sheets so they’re perfectly crisp. You should want to jump right in when you look at it.

   • Satin sheets are soft but slick, making them perfectly cozy for an active night in.
   • Dark colored sheets such as black and burgundy will blend into the shadows, keeping his attention on you.
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Hang a mirror in the bedroom.

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   Make a small bedroom look inviting with a mirror. Mirrors can make even the tightest spaces seem bigger. Plus, there’s something magical about them. Amp up the romance by placing a mirror right across from the bed, and don’t worry. We won’t judge how often you peak at it—that’s what it’s there for!

   • Mirrors open up the space and your relationship.
   • Try talking with him through the mirror while his arms are draped over you, or set the mirror someplace you can both see each other’s reflections.

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Sprinkle rose petals on the bed.

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   Add to the romantic ambience with rose petals. It may sound cliche, but this small detail really works! Anyone is sure to blush at the sight of rose petals on a bed—even him. This is an easy way to show your love. Plus, rose petals leave a beautiful scent that’ll get you both in the mood.

   • Why keep the petals just on the bed? Sprinkle them around the room, or go wild and make a path leading from the door to the bed.
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Dim the lights.

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   Turn off harsh, bright lights to keep his drive alive. Instead of leaving the ceiling light on, opt for having one bedside lamp or even fairy lights. This creates a cozy, calm, and romantic atmosphere, setting the mood for the evening.

   • Color-changing lights can be a great mood setter! Light the room up in his favorite color, or go with something soft and orange-toned.

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Light lavender or vanilla scented candles.

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   Set the mood with ambient lighting and a romantic scent. Candles cast a warm, flickering glow across the room, making it even more inviting. This romantic atmosphere is heightened by the romantically soothing scent of lavender or vanilla, which is sure to entice.

   • If candles aren’t your thing, no problem! Setting an essential oil diffuser in the room can give you a romantic scent without the flame.
   • If lavender or vanilla doesn’t turn you both on, try floral, citrus, or darker wood scents.
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Turn on some romantic music.

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   Play a song from your relationship to set the tone. Maybe it’s your wedding song, the song from your first kiss, or a song that reminds you of each other. Either way, turning on a sappy song in the background can have you both feeling all gushy, setting the romantic mood.

   • If you don’t have a song, no worries! Classical music or even nature sounds can also help set the tone.

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Place a love letter on his pillow.

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   Up the romance with a sweet hand-written note. There’s something so personal and touching about receiving a handwritten note. Write out your feelings and seal them in an envelope with a kiss. Leave your heartfelt letter on the pillow for him to see immediately, or place it next to him in the morning.

   • Make him laugh with a store card featuring a silly animal and pun, or pour your heart and soul into a dedicated poem.
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Decorate the bedroom like a movie scene.

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   Recreate his favorite sexy scene to get him in the mood. You can gather inspiration from a beloved rom-com or saucy adult romance. Opt for something he’ll recognize—bonus points if you can set the scene from his favorite movie. He’s sure to be amazed when you show him he’s about to live out his wildest fantasies.

   • Go the extra mile and dress up like one of the movie characters. This can easily become a role-play.

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Add curtains to windows.

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   Keep up the romantic, luxurious theme with heavy drapery. Curtains can add a whole lot of personality to just about any space, and are the perfect addition for your romantic evening. Opt for thick, light-blocking curtains that’ll keep the outside world out of your special night.

   • Stick with dark colors like black and burgundy when picking out curtains. These colors blend into the dark, which will help his eyes stay on you.
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Set out a tasty dinner and decadent dessert.

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   Entice all his senses with a meal before he makes it to the bedroom. What’s date night without a nice, candlelit meal? This is a great way to set the romantic tone of the evening, and it can give you a chance to talk about where you hope the night goes.

   • Oysters, chocolate, and wine are known as aphrodisiacs, which are foods known to intensify sexual desire.
   • Wanting to get things started right away? Place dessert and a couple of drinks in the bedroom.

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Wear something soft and sexy.

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   Throw on your best lingerie to get him in the mood. Put on whatever makes you feel the sexiest, practice your walk in the mirror, and then go for it! Seductively open the bedroom door and usher him inside or emerge from the bathroom with a sultry look. He’s sure to know exactly what you want.

   • Wear something that’ll attract him, but also wear what you feel the most confident and comfortable in.
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Offer him a massage.

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   Get the night started with some sensual touch. Massages can be a great way to relax and unwind after a long day, especially when they’re done by a significant other. Ask him if he’d like a massage in the dimly lit, vanilla-scented bedroom. Who knows? Things might get heated.

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Give him a gift.

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   Set a surprise on the bed or dresser to make him smile. Whether you’re setting up a romantic bedroom to celebrate a special occasion or simply just because—you can never go wrong with a gift! Check out these extravagant and everyday gift ideas:

   • Watch
   • Tie
   • Pajamas
   • Cozy socks
   • Bottle of champagne or sparkling juice
   • Chocolate covered strawberries
   • A favorite snack or candy bar
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Listen to his love language.

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   Give him what he wants in the bedroom. The best thing you can do for any partner is listen. Set up the bedroom and the romantic evening in a way he would enjoy. Does he prefer physical touch? Make sure a massage is involved. Is lavender his favorite scent? Spray it across the pillows. Resonating with his love language is sure to help you connect physically and emotionally.

   • Make sure to set your own boundaries. You want to make him happy, but it’s also important for you to be happy and comfortable too.

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Clean the bedroom.

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   Declutter the space to keep his eyes on you. The last thing you want is to stumble over dirty clothes or scattered belongings once he's pulling you onto the bed. This is about sexy time, after all! Give the bedroom a thorough clean before he arrives.

   • Toss those dirty clothes in the hamper.
   • Spritz some fabric freshener on furniture.
   • Wipe down the bedside tables.
   • Close those dresser drawers.
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Remove any and all distractions.

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   Make sure you’re the only thing on his mind. If there’s a TV in the bedroom, drape a sheet over it and hide the remotes. If you’ve got kids, send them to grandma's for the night. If you have your cell phones nearby, turn them off or toss them into another room. It’s just you, him, and the romantic space you’ve created.

   • Pushing aside life for just one night to focus on your relationship will show him how much you care—not to mention all the hard work you’ve put into decorating the bedroom!

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