This article was co-authored by Joshua Pompey and by wikiHow staff writer, Megaera Lorenz, PhD. Joshua Pompey is a Relationship Expert and Founder of Next Evolution Matchmaking (NEM) based in New York City, NY. With over 15 years in the industry, Joshua helps his clients navigate online dating and has a success rate of over 99%. His work has been featured in CNBC, Good Morning America, Wired, and Refinery29 and he has been referred to as the best online dater in the world.
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So you’ve swiped right on someone awesome and started chatting. Things are off to a great start! But what happens when the conversation starts to dry up and neither of you seems to have anything to say? In this article, we’ve put together a few tricks and tips for keeping the convo going with that special someone on Tinder.
This article is based on an interview with our professional dating coach, Joshua Pompey, founder of Next Evolution Matchmaking. Check out the full interview here.
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