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What's the best way for me to fit in with a group of girl friends when I'm the only guy, and how should I act to make it a good experience for everyone?

Moshe Ratson, MFT, PCC
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Moshe Ratson is the Executive Director of spiral2grow Marriage & Family Therapy, a coaching and therapy clinic in New York City. Moshe is an International Coach Federation accredited Professional Certified Coach (PCC). He received his MS in Marriage and Family Therapy from Iona College. Moshe is a clinical member of the American Association of Marriage and Family Therapy (AAMFT), and a member of the International Coach Federation (ICF).

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Watch the group dynamics and ask openly for pointers on fitting in better. Each group is unique, so stay flexible. Exude respect, kindness, gentleness and compassion — classic leadership traits that draw people in. If you're unsure how to participate, take initiative by suggesting fun activities or hosting. But above all, be your authentic self and add value. The key is contributing positively, not trying to be someone you're not.

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Would it be okay to go to the movies and/or a sit down restaurant with a group of girl friends knowing I'd be the only guy there?

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Yes. If you are friends with the girls and they want you to be there it would be perfectly fine.

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Would it be okay for a guy to host a "girls night" at his home?

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Sure, as long as the girls involved are comfortable with that, it should be fine.

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How do I order food on an outing with girlfriends?

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If they're just friends, you shouldn't care what they think. Order what you want, and be polite about what others want.

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Would it be OK if me and my girl-friends initiated a group hug?

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Yes, it is okay, as long as you hug everyone in the group and do not leave anyone out. If one of your friends start to get jealous though, you should probably talk to her about it, and tell her that everyone is equal, and you like all of them the same.

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Would it be okay if I initiate a group hug with my female friends? They are my best friends.

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Of course! Just make sure they're comfortable with it. All you have to do is say, "Can we do a group hug?" If everybody says yes, go for it!

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Would it be okay for me to give my female friends a group hug? They are my best friends.

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Of course, as long as they allow you to join. Don't create unwanted physical contact.

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