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How can I stop being scared of putting myself out there?

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Stop comparing yourself to other people, like your extroverted friends. Instead, remind yourself that you're an interesting person with your own unique personality.

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How do you start off a conversation with your crush?

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Make observational comments! You could comment on how stylish a person's outfit is, or mention that they have beautiful eyes.

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How can I be more confident when talking to people?

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Try practicing in your day-to-day life! You might ask someone for a recommendation to a healthy restaurant, or ask a fellow shopper for clothing suggestions.

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What do you do when you like someone but at the same time you feel like you shouldn't. What do you do when you like them, but they think you as a friend and likes someone else?

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Unfortunately, you can't choose your feelings. If you like someone and they don't feel the same way, this can be hard to accept. However, try to accept your feelings for what they are and work on moving on.

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What if your crush is popular and you're not?

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Try to get to know them anyway. Just because someone is popular doesn't mean they will be shy or uninterested in getting to know new people.

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My crush knows I'm shy and calls me adorable,and teases me a lot. Does she like me?

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It's possible. However, if the testing bothers you, let her know. It's not okay to tease someone if they do not like it.

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What if you know he likes someone else?

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It may be best not to confess in this scenario. Try to be kind to yourself and take some time to mourn the crush if he has feelings for another person.

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What if I don't have his number or we're on summer break from school?

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Try to add him on social media. You can interact flirtatiously on Facebook just as easily as you could through text.

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My crush recently moved to New Hampshire, so I don't know any good ways to confess. I'm not sure if she likes me back, and I'm afraid I'll ruin our friendship when I confess. What should I do?

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In this case, it may not be worth confessing. Your crush has moved away and you do not want to spoil a friendship. Try to keep up a friendship with her, but keep your feelings to yourself.

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What if they're asexual?

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An asexual person may not be interested in a romantic relationship. Try to be understanding and supportive. You can be friends with this person if they're asexual instead of pursuing them romantically.

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