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    What do I say to someone I haven't talked to in a long time?
    Lynda Jean
    Lynda Jean
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    Lynda Jean
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    That depends on why you stopped communicating, but in general, I would recommend you let them know you've been thinking about them. Then, ask them how they're doing.
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    Is it okay to get back to the person even if he hurts me?
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    Community Answer
    Yes, you can, but recognize that he may try to hurt you again.
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    I'm a teenager and I lived in Colorado but now I'm in Texas and I can't get my friend to answer me. I am getting worried about her because she has mean mom and dad, what can I do?
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    Try to connect with her online or else you could try to talk with your common friend to ask about her.
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    What should I text someone if I haven't talked to them in a long time?
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    Try asking how things have been going, acknowledging that it's been a while since you've last talked, and saying that you hope they've been well.
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    What should I text them if it was not my choice to stop talking?
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    To start, I wouldn't recommend contacting them at all; if they requested not to talk to you anymore, then you should respect that. If you're going to text them anyway, then I think you should elaborate on the fact that it wasn't your decision to drift apart or move apart. Explain your side, but do so with love and gentleness. Don't come off as stubborn and arrogant.
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    How do I call someone who put the phone down on me after we had an argument?
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    Call them from another number, so that they do not ignore you. Once they pick up, engage them to what you are saying, so that they do not cut the call on you again. It would be recommended for you to apologize as soon as they pick up.
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    My brother and I haven’t spoken to each for 5 years. Now he is slowly coming back into my life. Suspicious?
    Aoibh
    Aoibh
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    Think of the best that could happen - maybe he's feeling sentimental, missing you or just thinking about you more. If you haven't spoken in 5 years, perhaps because you had a falling out, then he may be trying to reconcile. Proceed with caution if you feel that being guarded is appropriate, but still give your brother the benefit of the doubt. Without knowing you and your personal situation, that is the extent of advice possible; only you know your brother and what he behaves like.
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    What should do if an old friend contacts me saying that she knows me from primary school?
    Miiro
    Miiro
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    Ask the person what school the supposed friend goes to, and if you can see their face. Impersonation scams are frequent and someone might be posing as your friend to join a scam.
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    I had a crush on my best friend for years, but we stopped talking a few years ago. I still have feelings for them. How can I ask them out now?
    Emma Walker
    Emma Walker
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    Reach out to them. Find them online or call if you still have their number, and arrange to meet up. Don't ask them out after just one interaction. Initially, focus on getting to know them again and being their friend. Use this time to ensure they're not in another relationship and to reconsider your feelings. Then, ask them out. Even if they reject you, consider staying in contact since they were your best friend.
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    How do I reconnect with an old friend who doesn't text back after our initial conversation?
    Emma Walker
    Emma Walker
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    If your old friend hasn't texted back, it may indicate they don't want to reconnect. You can send them "What's up?" or "How's it going?" but be prepared for no response. If they don't reply, it's best not to reach out further. You tried, and it’s okay if they don’t want to resume the conversation.
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    What if the person I want to call has changed and made new friends?
    Emma Walker
    Emma Walker
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    Just because someone has made new friends doesn't mean they've forgotten about you. You can still reconnect through messaging, calling, and private hangouts. They may even introduce you to their new friends. If the person has changed, consider whether it's for better or worse. However, if their attitude toward you has become negative, it may be time to reassess the friendship.
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