What's Our Personality Chemistry?

Take this quiz to see how well you get along with another specific person.

Certain personalities fit together like puzzle pieces. Are you two a perfect fit, or are you totally incompatible? We’ll help you find out!

Just answer these personality questions about yourself (and about a friend, crush, sibling, or anyone else in your life), and we’ll tell you how well your deeper personalities fit together.

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Questions Overview

1. I feel most energized by:
  1. Other people.
  2. Making or appreciating art.
  3. .Giving to others.
  4. Relaxing and resting.
2. Which of these best describes you?
  1. I think about the big picture.
  2. I focus on the details and think about the nitty gritty.
  3. I'm more of a doer than a thinker.
3. How do you make decisions?
  1. I think it through carefully and consider all the possibilities.
  2. I go with my gut and trust my instincts.
  3. I just dive in and see what happens.
4. What's your most helpful quality?
  1. I'm organized and efficient.
  2. I'm flexible and patient.
  3. I'm fun and can lift the mood.
5. Deep down, you're a:
  1. Adventurer
  2. Lover
  3. Fighter
  4. Thinker
6. Which of these best describes Person 2?
  1. They're outgoing.
  2. They're shy or reserved.
  3. They're somewhere in the middle.
  4. I'm not sure.
7. What's Person 2's overall vibe?
  1. They're a ray of sunshine.
  2. They're an intense thundercloud.
  3. They're a gentle rain.
8. I know Person 2 to be a:
  1. Doer
  2. Thinker
  3. Giver
9. What do you appreciate most about Person 2?
  1. They're fun and easy to be around.
  2. They're smart and practical.
  3. They're patient and understanding.
10. Person 2 is motivated most by:
  1. Fun
  2. Curiosity
  3. Love
  4. I'm not sure.

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Improving Your Chemistry

When people talk about chemistry, they’re talking about how well you get along with a certain person. When you have chemistry with someone, your relationship feels natural. You talk to each other and feel a connection, momentum, inspiration. But how can you find chemistry when it feels like there’s nothing there? And how can you increase your chemistry together when you feel like you’re different people? We’re here to help.

Ask lots of questions. You can’t learn something about someone without asking questions! Otherwise, how would you ever know that you both love jazz, or you’re both obsessed with that obscure horror movie that came out years ago? Asking personal questions is a shortcut to connection. In a pinch, ask them things like, “What’s the last album you listened to?”, “How would you spend your last day on Earth?” or, “What are you looking forward to?”

Remember to “Yes, and…” Chemistry is a lot like improv. When you really want to hit it off with someone, you don’t want to run into conversational dead ends. One easy way to avoid them is keep riffing on what they say. Don’t just shut the conversation down or switch topics when you’re uncomfortable or lost. Instead, ask another related question, or disagree with them and ask them why they think what they think. Keep the ball rolling, don’t deflate it!

Don’t force it. Chemistry can be practiced, but it’s also not something you’re going to have with everyone. If you’re really not vibing with someone, it’s totally okay to thank them for the conversation, wish them well, and walk away. Who knows? It might just take a little time for you to warm up to each other, and you’ll find something to talk about next time you see them. If you try to force it, though, you might just make things awkward, and shut down that chance.

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  • Eli Shane

    Eli Shane

    Jan 24

    "The quiz was fun and informative. It really forced me to look deep down and realize what was already there."
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