11 Ways to Make a Scorpio Moon Fall in Love

Co-authored by Angel Eyedealism and Jessica Gibson

Last Updated: July 26, 2024 Fact Checked

If a Scorpio moon has caught your eye, you know they're passionate, but how do you make them fall for you? They may seem like a closed-off mystery at times, but that's just Pluto's influence on their moon sign. We'll walk you through this emotionally sensitive sign and give you lots of tips for making a Scorpio moon yours.

1

Earn their trust.

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Scorpio moons are guarded, so they want someone they can trust. If the Scorpion sign seems extra guarded, it's because they are! They can only truly fall in love with someone they trust completely. Be reliable about meeting up, be honest in your communication, and allow yourself to be vulnerable with them. It will take time, but if you're open and truthful in all your dealings with Scorpio moon, you can win their heart.
- Just because you're being honest doesn't mean you can be blunt. If you think your honesty might hurt your Scorpio moon, be sensitive and thoughtful, too.

2

Maintain their curiosity.

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A Scorpio moon is drawn to the unknown, so show off how fascinating you are. While you should be completely honest with them, a Scorpio moon will feel a deeper attraction if they feel like they yet have to figure you out. You can create an air of mystery by giving simple straightforward answers to their questions while occasionally throwing in juicy details.
- You can also give a surprising response to their question, like, "I don't know if I can answer that just yet. Maybe you'll find out the answer to that on your own...."
- Try to ask them more questions than you're answering.

3

Surprise them with thoughtful gifts or gestures.

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Use a gift to show Scorpio moon that you understand them. Scorpio moons don't just want gifts for the sake of getting things—they want to know that you understand them as a person. Instead of shopping for the most expensive piece of jewelry or latest phone, get them something personal.
- For instance, if they talk about how their favorite food cart is always closed when they have their day off, you could surprise them by picking up their favorite meal and dropping it off while they're at work. They'll love that you were thoughtful.

4

Be relaxed and laid back around them.

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Scorpio moon tends to be uptight, but they'll love it if they can let their guard down. They react to life with such intensity, that they're always alert. They might feel like they can't truly be themselves, so it's a big deal if you can make them feel comfortable.^{[1]
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Angel Eyedealism
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Expert Interview} Try to be a grounding influence—be there when they need company, always follow through when it comes to communication, and do calming activities together.
- For instance, book a massage session for your Scorpio moon, so they can slow down and turn off the mental noise. If a massage isn't in the budget, treat them to a spa night at home!

5

Be emotionally steadfast.

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Skip the drama so your Scorpio moon realizes they can rely on you. For being an emotional sign, Scorpio moon is notoriously tricky to connect with. In addition to building trust, you can also keep up predictable relationship behavior. Enjoy each other's company, meet up regularly, and communicate often. Once your Scorpio moon sees that you're not looking for drama, they'll let themselves fall for you.^{[2]
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- Scorpio moon is a fixed sign, so they expect stability in their relationships.
- It's totally understandable that you'll occasionally fight. All couples do! However, you can strengthen your connection by reaching out after the fight. Talk about what happened, how you both feel, and what you both want going forward.
- Reader Poll: We asked 869 wikiHow readers who are Scorpios what type of relationship they look for, and 65% of them said one that’s committed, serious, and long-term. [Take Poll] That same energy is true for the Scorpio moon.

6

Keep their secrets.

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With Scorpio moons, you've got to respect their privacy so they can trust you. If they open up to you and reveal personal information, they expect you to keep it to yourself. If you can do this, they'll gradually start to trust you and feel like they can love you.^{[3]
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- If you accidentally let their secret slip, it's a huge deal to Scorpio moon. Be honest with them about your mistake, but don't expect them to forgive you easily. You'll need to earn their trust back over time.

7

Show them you're passionate about them.

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Scorpio moon wants to see that you're just as interested as they are. When a Scorpio moon falls in love, they quickly become obsessed.^{[4]
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Astrologer & Performance Artist

Expert Interview} To convince them that you're worth the emotional effort, throw yourself into the relationship. You might call or text them throughout the day, tell them how you feel about them, and make your relationship a priority.
- For instance, text them something romantic like, "You're the only one who really gets what I need," or, "My heart is yours."

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Be open and forthcoming with your feelings.

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Since Scorpio moon is intuitive, they want to know what you're feeling. Since they interpret the world through an emotional lens, they appreciate it when you're clear about your feelings. If you're upfront about how you feel and why you feel the way you do, they'll feel like they truly know you. This is critical if you want to capture their heart!
- For instance, Scorpio moon won't appreciate if you're silent and upset about something. They'd rather you sensitively discuss what's bothering you, so they know why.

9

Give them room to be alone.

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Scorpio moon needs to process their emotions, so they appreciate space. Nothing will turn off your Scorpio moon faster than if you're clingy or too dependent on them in the relationship. Try to match your Scorpio moon's communication style, so they don't feel like you're demanding. They'll love that you get them and don't pressure them.
- For instance, if you text your Scorpio moon and they don't respond, just leave it. Give them the chance to reply when they're ready.

10

Pursue your own interests.

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Show your Scorpio moon that you're independent just like them. People with Scorpio moons tend to be in their own orbit—they don't have to be in a relationship to find fulfillment. Let your Scorpio moon see that you have your own passions and interests outside of a relationship. They'll be curious about what makes you thrive, and you'll have lots to talk about!
- If your Scorpio moon asks you out, it's completely fine to tell them that you already have plans. They'll respect that you have your own life.

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Spice things up in the bedroom.

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Scorpio moon shows their love through sex, so enjoy the physical connection. For such an emotional sign, Scorpio moon strengthens their relationship bonds through sex and physical intimacy. It's their way of showing commitment.^{[5]
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Research source} Try to match their intensity and sparks will fly!
- To show your eagerness, suggest a new position or talk with your Scorpio moon about what turns you on.