12 Useful Tips for Loving a Taurus Male (With Expert Advice)

Make your Taurus man fall head over heels for you

Co-authored by Angel Eyedealism and Bertha Isabel Crombet, PhD

Last Updated: August 12, 2025 Fact Checked

Are you wondering how to win and keep the heart of a special Taurus man? We can help with that! Men born under this sign are loyal and affectionate, so they make wonderful partners. That said, Tauruses can be shy and reserved at first, so it can be hard to create an emotional connection with them. Keep reading to learn everything you need to know about loving this warm, grounded earth sign, with tips and tricks from astrology experts.

How to Love a Taurus Man

Astrologer Angel Eyedealism says Tauruses are notoriously stubborn, so don't try to change his mind on important subjects. Give him tons of attention and affection as Taurus men are sensual and crave physical touch. They love food and enjoy the finer things in life, so nice meals and gifts are always appreciated.

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Let him have his way most of the time.

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Stubbornness is a key Taurus personality trait, so try to roll with it. Astrologer Angel Eyedealism describes Taurus as “famously stubborn,” which makes sense since Taurus is represented by the bull, and that’s where they get their deeply ingrained stubborn streak.^{[1]
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Expert Interview} Once a Taurus makes up his mind, it’s nearly impossible to get him to change it. He won't like it if you try to change his mind, either. So, always try to see his point of view and offer him empathy and understanding. He’ll appreciate it more than you know.
- You can still influence him as long as you're subtle. Introduce your idea and let him come to his own conclusion about it. Works every time!^{[2]
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Meet the wikiHow Experts

Angel Eyedealism is an Astrologer and Performance Artist with nearly three decades of astrology experience.

Julia Topaz is a professional Astrologer with many years of experience honing her craft.

Stina Garbis is a Psychic Astrologer with over 30 years of experience. She's the Owner of Psychic Stina, a psychic business based in Corvallis, Oregon.

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Focus all of your attention on him.

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Tauruses are jealous and can't handle partners with wandering eyes. Taurus men are extremely loyal, but they expect that loyalty back. They will only invest in long-term relationships with serious partners who are wholly devoted to them. Keep your gaze fixed on him and he’ll be all yours.^{[3]
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- Flirting with other guys to make a Taurus jealous is a very bad idea. He'll become angry and possessive immediately.
- Compliments go a long way with Tauruses and can help boost their self-esteem. For example, you might say something like, "You're hands down the hottest guy in this restaurant. I'm so lucky."
- Astrologer Stina Garbis suggests that you “appeal to [his] physical senses, through food and physical touch.”^{[4]
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Encourage him to pursue his goals.

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Taurus men are extremely goal-oriented folks. Goal attainment is a big deal for this sign. They will hyper-focus on their chosen goal until they succeed and absolutely nothing will stand in their way— that includes you! However, if you encourage your man to pursue his goals and dreams, he’ll love you for it.^{[5]
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- Let your man know how talented you think he is, as well. It will inspire him to keep following his dreams. For example, you might say, "You're such a talented artist, Seth. If you submit your paintings, the gallery will definitely show your pieces in their fall exhibit."

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Create a cozy home environment.

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Tauruses crave comfort, warmth, and stability at home. The theme of stability and the need to feel grounded applies to a Taurus' living space, too. Tauruses are home bodies and they want their space to be full of comfortable furniture, warm lighting, and quiet nooks so they can relax. Garbis says, “Offer to help him clean his house or help decorate. Getting [him] a gift of decor, like a richly scented candle or a fancy pillow, would be a good choice.”^{[6]
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- If you live together, shop for home goods as a couple and encourage him to buy the cozy items that grab his attention. Nesting activities mean a lot to him.^{[7]
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Dress to impress.

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Tauruses worship beauty and adore snappy dressers. Your man wants you to dress as stylishly as he does so you’ll make a perfectly matched and attractive pair. Not taking the time to dress stylishly or groom yourself neatly can be a real turn-off for this sign. This doesn’t mean that you have to look perfect all the time, of course! Try to take care of yourself, put on a cute outfit, and you’ll be good to go.^{[8]
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- Astrologer Julia Topaz notes that while Tauruses enjoy a sophisticated look, they “love all things natural.” Dressing well doesn’t necessarily mean “flashy clothing, excessive makeup, or anything too provocative.”^{[9]
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  Expert Interview} Instead, it means showcasing your personal style in a way that is polished, high-quality, and authentic.

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Regulate your emotions.

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This sign wants to feel comfortable and stable all the time. Your man won’t deal with abrupt mood swings or unnecessary drama well. Try to keep an even keel in every situation and navigate any surprises with calmness. Your man will appreciate your stabilizing force.^{[10]
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Provide stability in his life.

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Taurus men crave stability and follow a strict schedule. The need to feel stable and grounded is a big part of the Taurus personality. Disrupting your man's routine can really upset him, so try to get in sync with his daily schedule. Create simple daily rituals, like eating dinner at the same time every evening and going on long after-dinner walks, to help your man feel stable and safe. For example, try to wake up and go to sleep at about the same time.^{[11]
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- Eyedealism explains that Taurus' are attracted to people who “want to plan [their] life out,” and whose values align with theirs: “If you share their views on children or childbearing, money, buying a house—they're more likely to fall in love with you.”^{[12]
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- Conversely, according to Eyedealism, “If you constantly pull the rug out from under them, that is going to make a Taurus man nuts. They don't like instability.”^{[13]
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Enjoy the great outdoors together.

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This sign loves outdoor activities and spending time in nature. Taurus is an earth sign, which means these folks have a deep, spiritual connection with Mother Nature. Spending time together outdoors is a great way to bond with them. Topaz says, “They’re very into aesthetics, so planning a date somewhere with a beautiful view—like a picnic in a scenic location—can be appealing to them.”^{[14]
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- Picnicking in the park
- Camping
- Hiking
- Forest bathing
- Canoeing

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Go easy with criticism.

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Most Taurus men are sensitive to criticism. Your man won’t be completely against criticism as long as it’s constructive, but stay mindful of your tone, body language, and overall demeanor when you deliver it. Be gentle and put a positive spin on it so he feels supported and understood rather than attacked.^{[16]
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- For example, instead of saying, "Alex, you're totally doing that wrong," you might say, "That project looks complicated! You probably don't need my help, but let me know if there's anything I can do."
- Instead of saying, "I can't believe you're late for dinner yet again," try something like, "Is everything okay at work? Your boss has been asking you to stay late every day this week."

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Be patient and give him time to open up.

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Tauruses find it hard to express their feelings in words. They may seem tough and stoic on the outside, but that doesn’t truly represent what’s going on internally. This is especially true at the beginning of a relationship, but don’t worry—they'll slowly open up to you over time. You’ll be rewarded for your patience, so hang in there! Topaz encourages you to have “patience above because [Tauruses] move very slowly."^{[17]
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- Try sharing some of your personal thoughts or goals with him first. He'll be impressed that you feel comfortable enough to let him in, and you might just inspire him to do the same.^{[18]
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- Reader Poll: We asked 154 wikiHow readers, and 47% agreed that the approach they find most helpful for supporting someone over text is offering a listening ear. [Take Poll] So, be patient and let him open up over text, too.

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Feed his inner foodie.

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The way to a Taurus man’s heart is through his stomach. According to Topaz, Taureans “love food,” so cooking for them is a great way to win them over.” Find out what his favorite meal is and go all out with a full spread— appetizer, entree, dessert, the works! If you’re not super savvy in the kitchen, don’t panic! Eyedealism emphasizes how much Taurus appreciates effort: “Even if you're not a good cook, you should put in the effort to make a meal from scratch. And [Taurus] will appreciate it.”^{[19]
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- Additionally, Tauruses can be enticed by going out to eat at the hottest new restaurant in town. Topaz adds, “The way to approach them is through food… they would be impressed if you invited them to a very expensive restaurant.”^{[20]
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- Eyedealism agrees, asserting that Taurus “loves money and food.”^{[21]
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- Taurus is ruled by Venus, the planet of beauty, wealth, and the finer things in life.

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Indulge him in the bedroom.

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Go slow at first and he’ll reward you with his attentiveness later. Sex makes him feel vulnerable— something he usually hates— so take things slow and follow his lead until he gets comfortable with you. Once he feels safe to be himself, your sex life will become quite powerful. You’ll never walk away from this man unsatisfied!^{[22]
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- Eyedealism says that Taurus is “very sensual” and adds that a Taurus male likely wants “a very feminine, down-to-earth partner.” He’ll appreciate your femininity in and out of the bedroom!^{[23]
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- Garbis adds, “Taurus is a very sensual sign and you can make a fast track to their heart by breaking out the massage oil and giving them a sensual rub down.” Good to know!^{[24]
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