How Many Secret Admirers Do I Have?

Take this quiz to see how many people appreciate you from afar.

It's not a competition, but have you ever wondered how many secret admirers you have?

Answer these quick questions, and we'll reveal how many people like you—but just haven't told you yet!

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Questions Overview

1. Has anyone ever given you a random gift, like a coffee or a snack?
  1. Yes, too many times to count!
  2. Yes, several times.
  3. Sure, now and then.
  4. No, or I don't remember.
2. How often do you get complimented by other people?
  1. Just about every day!
  2. Probably about once a week or so.
  3. Once a month or so.
  4. I don't know, or I don't remember.
3. Have you ever seen someone staring at you, then look away when you see them?
  1. Omg, yes, all the time!
  2. Yeah, pretty often, but not all the time.
  3. Now and then, sure.
  4. No, or I don't remember.
4. What's your social scene like?
  1. I've got loads of friends, sometimes it's hard to remember them all.
  2. I've got a pretty big group of friends.
  3. I've got a few close friends.
  4. I've got 1 or 2 close friends, maybe.
5. How quickly does it take for you to become friends with someone?
  1. Super quickly. Like, immediately if they’re cool.
  2. Pretty quickly.
  3. A normal amount of time, I think.
  4. Not very quickly. I'm pretty slow to open up to people.
6. Have you noticed anyone who tends to like all your social media posts?
  1. Yeah, but like, everyone does.
  2. Oh sure, there's a few people...
  3. Maybe there’s one person….
  4. No, or I'm not really on social media.
7. Do you find it easy to talk to new people?
  1. Totally! I could chat all day with a total stranger.
  2. Sure, I can hold a conversation.
  3. Not really. I need to be close to someone to open up to them.
  4. Not at all. Talking with strangers is exhausting.
8. Imagine you see someone struggling with a big, heavy box. What do you do?
  1. Rush over and help them! No need to wait for them to ask.
  2. Ask them if they'd like help. I don't want to intrude if they don't want it.
  3. Make eye contact and nod, and see if they say something or ask for help.
  4. Keep walking. I don't know them, and it's not my problem.
9. If you had a huge crush on someone, would you make the first move?
  1. Absolutely. Life is short. Why wait around?
  2. Maybe, if I liked them enough.
  3. No, but I'd try to drop hints.
  4. Nope. They've gotta come to me.
10. How often do you hang out outside of your home? (And not just for school, work, or errands.)
  1. All the time. I'm out of the house more often than I'm at home!
  2. I leave the house at least once a day, probably.
  3. I leave the house every couple days.
  4. I rarely leave the house.
11. Why are you taking this quiz? (Trust us, it matters!)
  1. I just want to see how big my fan club is.
  2. I know I have at least one secret admirer, but it's possible I might have more.
  3. I think someone likes me, but I want to confirm my suspicion.
  4. I want to know if it's possible that someone I don't know might like me.

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Signs Someone Is Your Secret Admirer

They smile and blush whenever they see you. Some people try to play it cool, but even the coolest person can’t help but smile when you talk to them. If they’re more obvious, they’ll break out in a full-blown blush, and might even stammer or stutter when they talk to you.

They make excuses to see you or talk to you. When someone likes you, they’ll want to be around you all the time. They’ll hit you up to hang out, or they’ll appear out of nowhere to ask how you are. It’s they’re way of saying, “You’re so cool, I just wanna be close.”

They get physically close or want to touch you. Positive feelings have a way of pulling people into their gravity. When someone likes you, they’ll probably find little excuses to touch you, like messing with your hair or placing a hand on your shoulder. It’s just a funny thing humans do—we want to be close to each other.

They tease you. It’s old playground behavior, but it never really goes away. Teasing is their way of saying, “Hey, we’re close, and I understand you enough to push your buttons.”

They give you special gifts. A coffee from the cafe, a movie ticket, or even a stuffed animal. Giving gifts is how a lot of people show their love, and if one of these people likes you, you’re probably in for a treat—literally.

You hear about it from your friends. Word gets around! When someone likes you, they’ll probably tell their friends, who will tell your friends, who will tell you. Sometimes rumors and gossip aren’t just rumors and gossip.

It takes you by surprise. Some people are really great at hiding their feelings, so when the truth comes out one way or another, you’re totally blindsided. It doesn’t mean they didn’t like you enough to tell you, just that they were probably nervous.