HoCo Proposal Ideas Generator

Ask someone to Homecoming using a custom proposal made just for them

Co-authored by Sophia Bell

Last Updated: September 19, 2025 Fact Checked

The weather's getting cooler, the leaves are falling, and pumpkin spice flavored everything is in stores—it must be time for homecoming! If you're ready to ask your crush to the homecoming dance with you but aren't sure how, you're in the right place. Whether you want to create a poster, present your crush with a treat, or plan something truly elaborate (flash mob, anyone?), we're here to help. Simply answer a few questions and we'll generate three custom proposal ideas based on your answers.

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An illustration of a box of donuts with writing on top that spells out "Homecoming?"

How to Ask Someone to Homecoming

Feeling nervous about asking out your crush? Here are our top 5 tips for the perfect HoCo proposal:

Personalize your proposal. Think about their personality and interests so you can tailor your proposal to them—someone who loves tennis might appreciate a sports-themed proposal at a match, while an introverted artist might be moved by a drawing you created for them.

Don’t feel pressured to spend a lot of money. Presenting them with a handmade sign, their favorite treat, a single flower, or a playlist you created is just as heart-touching and special as a dozen long-stemmed roses or a signed jersey from their favorite baller.

Have fun with it! A HoCo proposal is a chance to ask out the person you like in a fun way, so get those creative juices flowing. Homecoming is a rite of passage for teens, so enjoy participating in this fun tradition and making it your own.

Ask them in person. While you might be tempted to send a text or DM, gather up your courage and talk to them face-to-face. You don’t have to come up with an elaborate scheme, either. You can simply ask them, “Would you go to Homecoming with me?”

Handle rejection maturely. It’s possible the person you ask will say no, either because they already have a date or because they just may not be interested in you. That’s okay! Everyone faces rejection at one time or another. Keep your cool and say something like, “Okay, no worries. Hope you have a good time.”