Should you bring a gift to a gender reveal party?

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Christine Ferrera
Christine Ferrera
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07/18/25 12:16am
Gift-giving at a gender reveal party is typically an option, not expected. Should you decide, a gender-neutral option would be best. If the invitation specifically says, "no gifts", I honor the request.

However, sending a personal gesture, such as a small floral arrangement or something thoughtful and private, can be a nice way to celebrate the moment.
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06/17/25 4:42pm
A gift isn’t usually expected at a gender reveal party, but it is a nice gesture. If you do want to bring a gift, it doesn’t need to be big or expensive, as you’ll likely bring a gift to the person's baby shower later in their pregnancy. Opt for something small, thoughtful, and gender-neutral (since you won’t know the baby’s gender until after the party!). Here are some ideas to inspire you:
  • A book for the baby.
  • A gender-neutral onesie.
  • A baby blanket.
  • Some cute bibs.
  • A gift basket with essentials, like diapers and pacifiers.
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