How to Flirt With Another Guy (For Guys)

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Last Updated: September 23, 2024

Flirting with another guy involves mixing your own personal flirting style with known techniques for coming across as flirty. This article will walk you through some suggestions for finding your own style, as well as suggesting some common examples of ways to flirt between guys. It will also give you a sense of how to tell if your flirting is being received.

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Introduce yourself

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You like to tell a joke, announce your first name and ask them what it is, or give them a praise along with your name. Some scenarios necessitate flexibility; pay attention to the guy's mood and general manner before approaching him.

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Ask some flirty questions.

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Many people have a wide range of interests, from the mundane to the bizarre. It is critical to pay attention to the other person and to speak honestly.

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Try to figure out whether they're interested.

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Don't start off too strong.

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Cool down if he isn't interested in you.

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If that is the case, back off and look for someone who is. If the wrong man is straight, flirting or hitting on him can be dangerous. If a gay man "hits" on them, there are a lot of men who regard it as a threat to their sexuality. Just be cautious and back off if he doesn't exhibit an almost immediate interest.

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What kind of flirty questions can I ask?

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You could ask about their favorite celebrities or sports players. The possibilities are endless. Just make good eye contact and look your best.

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Will they like the way I flirt?

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It depends on you and the person, but ensure they respect you.

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What should I do if he tells me he's bisexual?

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That's great news! Keep being yourself, flirt with him occasionally, and you might become a couple. They may be telling you this because they like you, but you may never know for sure.

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