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So you’re texting someone new, the conversation is flowing well, and then you see them: those three little dots. They flash on the screen, and then disappear, leaving you wondering, “Why did they stop messaging me back?” If you’re new to navigating texting culture, especially with a crush or someone you’d like to impress, keep reading for an in-depth guide. You’ll be able to text your way to success in no time!

What does ... mean when texting?

On a smartphone, the 3 dots mean that someone is typing in a text thread. It could be that they're typing, deleting, and retyping their message out of fear, doubt, or privacy. "..." is also used to convey suspense or hesitation, or imply that there is a hidden meaning behind the words.

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What does the “...” typing symbol mean?

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  1. On both iPhone and Android, the 3 dots that appear in a text thread when two people are texting are referred to as the “typing awareness indicator.” When you see these 3 dots, it means the other person is actively typing. If the dots disappear and reappear a few times, the person is likely pausing and trying to figure out the right words to say.[1]
    • It’s normal to feel a bit anxious when you see these dots appear. Just keep in mind that the person is trying to think of the best way to respond, so try not to worry that you’ve said something wrong.
    • If you get “3-dot anxiety” regularly, turn this feature off in “Settings.”
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What does “...” mean in text?

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  1. Placing the 3 dots at the end of a sentence can create a feeling of unfinished business or unspoken truths. Maybe the texter is unsure how to complete their thoughts, or maybe they’re worried about offending someone. The ellipsis is the written version of someone starting a sentence, slowly speaking more and more quietly, and ultimately trailing off without reaching a true endpoint. For example:[2]
    • “She invited me to her party, but I’m not sure if I should go…”
    • “There are some strange people in this world…”
    • “Okay, if you say so…”
    • Many millennials and Gen Z’ers state that they don’t like it when people use ellipses in text messages. They feel like the ellipses make it seem like something is wrong.
  2. In literature and grammar, the ellipsis is often described as the punctuation of suspense… because that’s exactly what it does… build suspense! When chatting via text, using the ellipsis might simply be for dramatic effect. Whether you’d like to actually reveal a big secret or keep a friend on the edge of their seat about something silly, here are some examples of how the 3 dots might be used:
    • “I have news to share with you…”
    • “Well, since you asked… the truth is…”
    • “Unfortunately…”
  3. If someone texted you a little while ago and you haven’t responded yet, they may prompt you by sending another text that reads “...” They may think you forgot to reply, or they need an answer quickly. Some people find this rude, though, so be careful how and when you use it!
  4. “Ellipsis” comes from the Greek word “elleipein” meaning “to leave out.”[3] If someone is quoting something, they may use “...” in the middle of the quote to leave out words that are irrelevant or to get to the point more quickly. This may be more common in emails or academic papers than in everyday texts, however.
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How to Respond to Dot Dot Dot

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  1. It probably just means the person you’re texting is taking their time to craft the perfect response or that they’re trying to figure out exactly what to say. Avoid the temptation to double-text. Instead, put the phone down and try to get your mind off things. After all, it is just a text, and unless you’re expecting the long-awaited response to be totally life-changing, then waiting for it to come through won’t make you or break you.

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Bertha Isabel Crombet, PhD
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This article was co-authored by wikiHow staff writer, Bertha Isabel Crombet, PhD. Bertha Isabel Crombet earned her MFA in Creative Writing from Florida International University in 2018. In 2024, she graduated with her PhD in the same field, with a minor in Latinx Studies from Florida State University. She's been a college professor for almost a decade, teaching courses in English, Literature, and Writing. She's also been published across multiple genres and literary platforms. A lifelong lover of learning, she now writes for wikiHow with the hope of imparting knowledge to others.
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