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Are you trying to figure out the best way to wish a guy “Happy birthday”? Writing the perfect birthday wish for a man can cause you stress if you don’t have a clue what to say to him. That’s why we put together over 130 funny, short, spiritual, and more birthday greetings to help you find the right words to make his birthday a day to remember. Plus, we’ll tell you how to write a birthday greeting that’s truly meaningful.
Top 5 Birthday Greetings for Men
- “You might be prehistoric, but at least you're not extinct!”
- “You make the world a better place every day. Happy birthday!”
- “The golden age is before us, not behind us.” – William Shakespeare
- “I can't believe I missed your birthday. It's un-belatable!”
- “Happy beer day, bud.”
Steps
How to Write a Birthday Greeting to a Man
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1Personalize your message to make it more thoughtful and meaningful. Try to match the tone of your greeting to your relationship. If you share a unique sense of humor, crack an in-joke. Mention qualities you admire about him. Tell him you’re thankful he's in your life, which can help build a stronger bond between you no matter what type of relationship you have.[3]
- Whether you send a text, write out a birthday card, or tell him “Happy birthday” in person, you really can’t go wrong as long as you stay positive and offer warm wishes.
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2Celebrate the previous year and wish him well in the year to come. Many men (and women, too) feel depressed around their birthdays. They may worry about getting older or are remembering a difficult prior birthday.[4] Whatever the reason for his birthday blues, a birthday greeting is the perfect time to let a guy know you care. Offer your congratulations on a great year and wish him the best for his future.
- Let him know you’re rooting for him to have the best year ever, whether you’re writing a personal message in a birthday card or texting him a quick “Happy birthday!”
- Remind him of the great things that happened to them or the happy memories you shared from the previous year.
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3Show sincere and genuine appreciation for him. Being genuine doesn’t mean you have to write something fancy or long-winded. Being honest and straightforward is part of being a genuine person.[5] Just take a few moments to think about why he’s important to you and then put it into a simple, straightforward birthday message. Then, tell him what kind of birthday you hope he has.
- Make sure to add a few of the traits you admire about him, like his sense of humor, how trustworthy he is, or his generosity.
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- ↑ https://www.mayoclinic.org/healthy-lifestyle/stress-management/in-depth/stress-relief/art-20044456
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/lifetime-connections/201805/do-men-need-bff-or-best-friend-forever
- ↑ https://extension.usu.edu/relationships/faq/the-importance-of-showing-gratitude-to-your-partner
- ↑ https://psychcentral.com/depression/birthday-depression
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-squeaky-wheel/201503/the-7-habits-of-truly-genuine-people